Early Money Decisions Shape Your Financial Future | December 31, 2025

What this episode is about

The discussion emphasizes how early financial decisions influence long-term financial well-being, urging individuals to implement effective money management strategies to alleviate financial stress. Key points include the importance of living within one's means, the dangers of credit card debt, and the benefits of developing a solid financial plan, regardless of past financial mistakes.

Key takeaways

• Normal is broke; common sense is the new rich. Opt for the latter.
• Free travel via credit cards isn't free—spending triggers overspending.
• $4k flights aren't amazing if $200k slips through your fingers.
• Credit card perks mask spending ease, boosting expenses subtly.
• If it costs more than it saves, is it really free?

Who speaks in this episode?

• Jake (Guest) · 4 min speaking
• George Kamel (Host) · 1 h 9 min speaking
• Rachel Cruze (Host) · 37 min speaking
• Miguel (Guest) · 6 min speaking
• Derek (Guest) · 5 min speaking
• Gabe (Guest) · 2 min speaking
• Nicholas (Guest) · 5 min speaking
• Devany (Guest) · 2 min speaking

What is discussed, and when

1. 0:00 – 15:00: Xander, Breaking Free from Broke, Xander, George Camel
2. 15:00 – 30:00: Every Dollar, Every Dollar, Boost Mobile, Fair Winds Credit Union
3. 30:00 – 45:00: George Camel, Rachel Cruz, Hilton, Fair Winds Credit Union
4. 45:00 – 1:00:00: Ramsey Show, Rachel Cruz, The Total Money Makeover, Health Trust Financial
5. 1:00:00 – 1:15:00: BetterHelp, Ramsey Show, Every Dollar, Every Dollar
6. 1:15:00 – 1:30:00: Ramsey Show, George Camel, Rachel Cruz, Fair Winds Credit Union
7. 1:30:00 – 1:45:00: Roth IRA, Ramsey Show, George Camel, Rachel Cruz
8. 1:45:00 – 2:00:00: Mario (Sherry Coleman's brother), Ramsey Show, Every Dollar, Every Dollar
9. 2:00:00 – 2:04:34: Timothy, George Camel, Rachel Cruz, Bakersfield

Notable quotes from "Early Money Decisions Shape Your Financial Future | December 31, 2025"

• Normal is broke and common sense is weird. So, we're here to help you transform your life. From the Ramsey Network in the Fair Winds Credit Union studio, this is the Ramsay…

  about Ramsey Show · at 0:25

• On paper. That's something that you need to explore for yourself. And again, there's the moral side. I cover eight objections of why people won't stop using their cards in my…

  about Breaking Free from Broke · at 8:00

• Yeah. And that's why you've always said that having term life insurance from Xander is essential because it protects your family if the worst happens.

  about Xander Insurance · at 9:25

• So don't wait. It's fast, it's easy, and it could make all the difference. Go to xander.com or call 800356-4282.

  about Xander · at 10:33

• Hill Mortgage. They've been a partner of the Ramsay Show for over three decades now. And those that's who I went through to get my last mortgage without a credit score. And they made it real easy.

  about Church Hill Mortgage · at 13:03

• Welcome back to the Ramsay Show in the Fair Winds Credit Union studio. I'm Rachel Cruz with George Camel and we are taking your calls at88255225.

  about Rachel Cruz · at 43:26

• Any debt in the last 3 years. We were just paying minimums and then we've read you know total money makeover and we've started trying to get out of this debt. We're still…

  about The Total Money Makeover · at 59:48

• Yeah. And you know what? Hold on the line, Cory. Christian will pick up and we'll give you every dollar premium for a year on us. And this is our budgeting app that hopefully…

  about Every Dollar Premium · at 1:00:39

Who and what is mentioned in this episode?

People

• George Camel — Person · Host / Co-host · 9 mentions · first at 0:00
  Primary on-air host leading calls, providing financial guidance and sponsor reads throughout the episode.
  Transform your life. From the Ramsey Network in the Fair Winds Credit Union studio, this is the Ramsay Show. I'm George Camel, joined by my pal and co-host on Smart Money Happy Hour.
• Rachel Cruz — Person · Co-host · 9 mentions · first at 0:41
  Regular co-host, provides financial advice, moral perspective on credit cards, interacts with callers and reads sponsor lines.
• Mario (Sherry Coleman's brother) — Person · Referenced colleague / Ramsey personality · 3 mentions · first at 1:45:27
  Mentioned as a Ramsey Network colleague associated with career advancement; used as a cultural reference point during a debt-free story.
  What was the big jump? Well, our buddy Ken Coleman would be proud. I took full advantage of the great resignation during co. nice.
• Mason — Person · Question submitter (referenced) · 3 mentions
  Mentioned as the source of a listener question about cell phone purchase stance; used to prompt hosts' view on buying phones with cash.
  Couldn't tell you Dave stance. I could guess Dave's stance, but we can give you George and Rachel's stance at least. I don't want to put words in the guy's mouth. He's not here to defend himself.
• George Kamel — Person · 28 mentions
• Timothy — Person · 3 mentions · first at 1:56:50
  Let's see if we can help Timothy in Los Angeles. What's going on, Timothy?
• Devany — Person · 1 mention · first at 1:44:55
  In the Ramsay Solutions lobby on the debtfree stage, we've got some new friends, Nicholas and Devany. Welcome guys.
• Brantley — Person · 1 mention · first at 1:53:04
  Here we go, guys. We've got Nicholas and Devony and Brantley and Camry. $232,000 paid off in four years. House and everything, making 82 up to 163. Count it down. Let's hear a debt-free scream.
• Camry — Person · 1 mention
• Jeff Zander — Person · 1 mention
• Rachel Cruze — Person · 1 mention

Books & papers

• Breaking Free from Broke — Book · Referenced resource / giveaway · 3 mentions · first at 8:09
  Rachel Cruz's book referenced and offered to callers as resource exploring objections to stopping credit card use; used as follow-up reading.
• The Total Money Makeover — Book · Referenced resource · 2 mentions · first at 59:53
  Referenced by hosts as a core Ramsey book; recommended to callers as part of financial guidance and earlier reading material.
• Total Money Makeover — Book · 2 mentions · first at 59:53
  Any debt in the last 3 years. We were just paying minimums and then we've read you know total money makeover and we've started trying to get out of this debt. We're still…
• Know Yourself, Know Your Money — Book · 1 mention · first at 1:13:36
  From the past. And your belief system is so tied up. And you talk about this in know yourself, know your money. The different money classrooms you grew up in, it really shapes…

Companies & orgs

• Ramsey Network — Company · Producer / Network · 1 mention · first at 0:29
  Owner/producer of The Ramsey Show and other related programming referenced in the episode.
  Normal is broke and common sense is weird. So, we're here to help you transform your life. From the Ramsey Network in the Fair Winds Credit Union studio, this is the Ramsay…
• Xander Insurance — Company · Sponsor / Insurance provider · 1 mention · first at 10:20
  Primary episode sponsor for an ad segment emphasizing term life and disability coverage; hosts recommend Xander for term life insurance.
• Fair Winds Credit Union — Company · Sponsor · 4 mentions · first at 0:31
  Sponsor of the podcast, mentioned in the intro and during the show.
  Normal is broke and common sense is weird. So, we're here to help you transform your life. From the Ramsey Network in the Fair Winds Credit Union studio, this is the Ramsay…
• Church Hill Mortgage — Company · Mortgage provider / partner · 1 mention · first at 13:02
  Referenced as a mortgage company that performs manual underwriting and was used to obtain a mortgage without a credit score; presented as a recommended option.
• University of Northwestern Saint Paul — Company · Referenced institution / caller's dream school · 1 mention · first at 44:11
  Mentioned by caller Emma as her dream private university; hosts discuss cost, scholarships, and alternatives.
  So my dream school for my whole life has been University of Northwestern St. Paul whole life since you were zero years old. You're this is on my dream.
• NetSuite — Company · 10 mentions
• The Ramsey Show — Company · 4 mentions · first at 53:32
  I'm George Campbell joined by Rachel Cruz. This is the Ramsey Show. Open phones at8825-5225.
• Xander — Company · 3 mentions · first at 9:28
  Yeah. And that's why you've always said that having term life insurance from Xander is essential because it protects your family if the worst happens.
• Yrefy — Company · 3 mentions
• Hilton — Company · 2 mentions · first at 36:51
  Hour, but so that's not even 40 grand a year. And I'm a front desk agent at the Hilton and that's 16 an hour. So, I probably make about 34 a year if I'm lucky after taxes.
• Apple Inc. — Company · 2 mentions
• Choice Hotels — Company · 2 mentions
• Ramsey Network — Company · 1 mention · first at 0:29
  Normal is broke and common sense is weird. So, we're here to help you transform your life. From the Ramsey Network in the Fair Winds Credit Union studio, this is the Ramsay…
• Smart Money Happy Hour — Company · 1 mention · first at 0:38
  Studio, this is the Ramsay Show. I'm George Camel, joined by my pal and co-host on Smart Money Happy Hour.
• Instacart — Company · 1 mention · first at 6:48
  You know what I mean? Like I pay for my groceries. Sometimes I do Instacart and have them delivered and then it's done and then I'm done and I'm like I don't have to I don't have to play this game with them and so there's just.
• Boost Mobile — Company · 1 mention · first at 20:49
  Limited time offers, your budget can start feeling anything but merry. And that's why I love this. Boost Mobile helps you treat yourself and your wallet. Right now, you'll pay just 10 bucks a month for your first two months.
• University of Northwestern – St. Paul — Company · 1 mention · first at 44:11
  So my dream school for my whole life has been University of Northwestern St. Paul whole life since you were zero years old. You're this is on my dream Pinterest board.
• Facebook Marketplace — Company · 1 mention · first at 1:47:17
  Yeah. Yeah, we put on Facebook Marketplace.

Products & tech

• Every Dollar — Product · Primary recommendation · 5 mentions · first at 0:10
  Budgeting app promoted by the hosts as a tool for financial management.
  You need a plan that works. So take what you learn today and put it to work in every dollar. Download the app and start for free today.
• Every Dollar Premium — Product · Secondary recommendation · 2 mentions · first at 1:00:41
  Premium version of the budgeting app mentioned.
• EveryDollar — Product · 5 mentions
• iPhone 16 Pro Max — Product · 1 mention · first at 34:00
  Provider. And so I always recommend buying a phone in cash. And if you can't afford the brand new iPhone 16 Pro Max with 512 GB, then don't buy it. You can buy a used phone. In fact, I just sold a used phone online.
• EveryDollar Premium — Product · 1 mention
• Jeep Grand Cherokee EcoDiesel — Product · 1 mention

Concepts & topics

• Sierra Nevada/Nevada? (no concrete entity) — Concept · Ambient / incidental reference · 1 mention
  Mentioned vaguely in the extracted list but not concretely present in transcript content; no clear role in episode.
• Baby Steps — Concept · 3 mentions · first at 1:12:18
  Absolutely incredible. Yeah, George, when we, think about part of the baby steps and what she said, I loved because yeah, it's baby step, they're they're past baby step two.…
• Roth IRA — Concept · 3 mentions · first at 1:39:11
  If you ever see Roth, jump on that train. That's a good one. or maybe, you're doing a Roth IRA, which is another great place to put your money. a really simple investment honestly and anyone can do that with earned.
• Roth 401(k) — Concept · 3 mentions
• Mutual fund — Concept · 2 mentions · first at 1:36:51
  But, live off those investments. is it that you want to maybe open up an index fund or a mutual fund and put some money in month-to-month because you're looking out in the future and you're Yeah, we'll probably be putting a down.
• Smart Investor Pro — Concept · 2 mentions · first at 1:39:41
  They limit it. but again, that's another one. And so you guys, you can sit down with somebody, a Smart Investor Pro or someone to open up, especially like something like a Roth…
• 403(b) — Concept · 2 mentions
• Term life insurance — Concept · 1 mention · first at 9:26
  Yeah. And that's why you've always said that having term life insurance from Xander is essential because it protects your family if the worst happens.
• Long-term disability insurance — Concept · 1 mention · first at 9:45
  But there's another piece that people often overlook, and that's long-term disability insurance.
• Manual underwriting — Concept · 1 mention · first at 12:24
  Through, computers and AI and credit scores, there was something called manual underwriting where a real person like me sits down, looks at Jake's tax returns, his pay stubs…
• 529 plan — Concept · 1 mention · first at 1:10:39
  Instead of letting it just sit there it's only going to make you know reopen the wounds so I would put it in a 529 plan for college I would put it toward in a savings account…
• Paralysis by analysis — Concept · 1 mention · first at 1:35:06
  But there's so much noise out there. It can be overwhelming. you can get sort of paralyzed the paralysis analysis. That's right. And a lot of people end up doing nothing…
• KISS method — Concept · 1 mention · first at 1:35:33
  Here's what we're going to call it. Keep it simple stupid. You ever heard of that? The KISS method. Yes, that's what they call it back in my day.
• How to Start Investing — Concept · 1 mention · first at 1:44:01
  Great article that we'll that we'll put in the show notes in the description that explains it all. It's called How to Start Investing and it's on the Ramsey Solutions site. So…
• The Great Resignation — Concept · 1 mention · first at 1:45:32
  What was the big jump? Well, our buddy Ken Coleman would be proud. I took full advantage of the great resignation during co. nice.
• Debt snowball — Concept · 1 mention · first at 2:03:01
  All the kids, I would work to just pay that off in the debt snowball once the twins are here, get the emergency fund in place, then you can think about going back to school and…
• Financial Peace University (FPU) — Concept · 1 mention
• HSA — Concept · 1 mention

Places & events

• Bakersfield — Place · Setting · 2 mentions · first at 1:59:16
  Mentioned as the location where the caller lives.
  So, it's already me, her, and our one-year-old daughter. Now, we're expecting twins. And previously, we were pre-qualified to get a house. We actually live in Bakersfield. We were pre-qualified to get a house for about 150,000,.
• Dallas — Place · Caller location · 1 mention · first at 0:51
  Identifies Miguel's location; used to add context to call-in segments.
  Miguel kicks us off in Dallas, Texas.
• University of Northwestern St. Paul — Place · Setting · 1 mention · first at 44:11
  Mentioned as the dream school of a caller.
  So my dream school for my whole life has been University of Northwestern St. Paul whole life since you were zero years old. You're this is on my dream.
• Grand Rapids — Place · 1 mention · first at 10:54
  Up next, we have Jake in Grand Rapids.
• Branson, Missouri — Place · 1 mention · first at 36:28
  At this point, I think I'm on a baby step six. I just own a three-bedroom condo technically in Branson, Missouri, and I'm trying to pay that off as quickly as possible, but I'm…
• St. Paul — Place · 1 mention · first at 44:14
  So my dream school for my whole life has been University of Northwestern St. Paul whole life since you were zero years old. You're this is on my dream Pinterest board.
• Riverside, California — Place · 1 mention · first at 1:04:51
  Welcome back. Going to the phones, we have Sarah in Riverside, California. Hi Sarah, welcome to the show.

Media & podcasts

• Ramsey Show — Media · Broadcast / Podcast · 9 mentions · first at 0:33
  This episode is part of The Ramsey Show; the program context frames the financial advice, callers and sponsored segments.

Sponsors

• Xander — Product · Sponsor product (term life / disability insurance offering) · 3 mentions · first at 9:26
  Specific product/service from Xander Insurance promoted in an ad read: term life and long-term disability policies.
• Every Dollar — Product · Product sponsor / promoted budgeting app · 5 mentions · first at 0:10
  Discussed and promoted as the Ramsey budgeting app; hosts encourage downloading and using it to find margin and budget.
  You need a plan that works. So take what you learn today and put it to work in every dollar. Download the app and start for free today.
• Fair Winds Credit Union — Place · Studio sponsor / banking partner · 3 mentions · first at 0:31
  Studio name/location (Fair Winds Credit Union studio) used as setting and sponsor mention for a high-yield savings product.
  Normal is broke and common sense is weird. So, we're here to help you transform your life. From the Ramsey Network in the Fair Winds Credit Union studio, this is the Ramsay…
• Boost Mobile — Product · Sponsor / mobile service promotion · 2 mentions · first at 20:49
  Sponsor ad promoting a holiday mobile plan deal with a call to action to visit boostmobile.com/ramsey.
  That's why I love this. Boost Mobile helps you treat yourself and your wallet. Right now, you'll pay just 10 bucks a month for your first two months.
• Boost Mobile — Product · Sponsor · 1 mention · first at 20:49
  Mobile service provider advertised during the episode.
  Limited time offers, your budget can start feeling anything but merry. And that's why I love this. Boost Mobile helps you treat yourself and your wallet. Right now, you'll pay just 10 bucks a month for your first two months.
• Netsuite — Product · Sponsor / business software · 1 mention · first at 32:28
  Sponsor read promoting NetSuite as an ERP solution used by Ramsey Solutions; call to action to visit netsuite.com/ramsey for tours.
  Carrying a lot, but you don't have to do it all alone. That's where Netswuite comes in. Over 43,000 businesses, including Ramsey Solutions, use Netswuite to lighten the load by…
• Netsuite — Product · Sponsor · 1 mention · first at 32:28
  Business management software promoted in the episode.
  Systems is a big move. But Netswuite's sweet success process gets you up and running fast. Go to netsweet.com/ramsey for a free product tour and to schedule time with a Netswuite rep. That's netsweet.com/ramsey.
• Aldi — Product · Sponsor / grocery recommendation · 1 mention · first at 42:55
  Sponsor read recommending shopping at Aldi to save on groceries; hosts cite savings claim and encourage in-season shopping.
  Shop at Aldi first to save on groceries without sacrificing quality or holiday joy. Find a store near you at Aldi. us.
• Aldi — Company · Sponsor · 1 mention · first at 43:00
  Sponsor of the podcast segment discussing grocery shopping.
  Shop at Aldi first to save on groceries without sacrificing quality or holiday joy. Find a store near you at Aldi. us.
• Health Trust Financial — Company · Sponsor / advisory partner · 1 mention · first at 52:22
  Sponsored advisor for health insurance; hosts recommend them for small business owners and families needing plan guidance.
  Worked with them for over two decades and they're the only Ramsay trusted health insurance advisors. So get clear on your options and talk to a real person who can help you…
• Aldi — Sponsor · 4 mentions
• BetterHelp — Sponsor · 3 mentions · first at 1:03:17
  This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp.
• Casper — Sponsor · 2 mentions · first at 1:14:44
  Tech that keeps you glued to screens and up too late. You need better sleep. And that's what you'll get with Casper.
• Health Trust Financial — Sponsor · 1 mention · first at 52:22
  And when you're self-employed, there's no HR department to lean on. But that's where my friends at Health Trust Financial come in. For over 20 years, they've been helping…
• Sponsor segment: Boost Mobile — Sponsor · 1 mention
• Sponsor segment: NetSuite — Sponsor · 1 mention
• Sponsor segment: Xander — Sponsor · 1 mention
• Sponsor segment: Yrefy — Sponsor · 1 mention

Full transcript with timestamps

0:00 George Camel here with a quick PSA before the calls start coming in. If you want to leave the money stress in 2025, you need a plan that works. So take what you learn today and put it to work in every dollar. Download the app and start for free today.

0:25 Normal is broke and common sense is weird. So, we're here to help you transform your life. From the Ramsey Network in the Fair Winds Credit Union studio, this is the Ramsay Show. I'm George Camel, joined by my pal and co-host on Smart Money Happy Hour. Another great show on the Ramsey Network. Rachel Cruz is here with us as well. We're here to answer your calls about life and money. The number is 888255225. Miguel kicks us off in Dallas, Texas. What's going on, Miguel?

0:56 Hey, George. How you doing? doing great. How can we help today? Yeah. Hey, so um you I've been following you guys uh for quite a bit some time now. I kind of wish I'd started earlier like most people, but

1:08 100% same. Here we are. Um you know, I'm working on on step number six. Uh thankfully. Um, but I do have a question because I I listen to um Dave say all the time how credit cards are the devil and they are the worst thing that one person can uh use and and I agree with all of that except um so a really long time ago uh kind of like Dave I at a very young age I did bankruptcy and since then I learned to live within my means. Um, so I've but I've had a lot of credit cards since then. I just pay them off at the end of the of the month. I don't have any credit card debt. I haven't had for over 10 15 years now.

1:57 Good. So my question is um you know if I pay off my credit cards at the end of the month and I am using them a lot so that I can get like you know free tickets to travel with my family and stuff like that. Uh would you still recommend that I don't do that? Uh, if so, why? Or is it okay for me to continue using my credit cards as long as I pay them off?

2:21 Well, as of this recording, it's still a free country. So, you are free to do as you wish, Miguel. And so, is it okay? Sure. If it's working for you, go for it. But the reason you called in, there's something inside of you that maybe is thinking,

2:35 is there a better way? Could I be doing better? Could I optimize if I use my own money instead of using someone else's and paying it back every month later on? Sure. You could make the argument in hypotheticals all day long. Uh but the the real thing at here is you're using it to get free travel. Correct. Did I hear that right?

2:52 Yeah. Correct. And so, have you actually added up what it would have cost you if you had paid cash, done your own research, found the right flights that work for your family? like, "Okay, I got I got $600 in value out of this and it cost me $200 for the card for the year." Have you done the math on that?

3:10 Uh, yeah. I mean, it definitely pays off. Uh, like for example, last year I took my family to Europe and it I completely paid for our uh flight tickets. It was $4,000 worth uh just with points. Uh, I think I had to pay a little bit off.

3:29 How much did you spend tax on it? Oh, you said you had to pay it off the balance the next month.

3:35 No, no, that that was just paid off with points. You said you owed a little bit still for the flights is what you meant. Okay.

3:41 Well, yeah, they make you pay like some taxes, but it was like $200 or something like that.

3:46 And then how much did you have to spend in order to earn that many rewards, that many points?

3:51 Uh, it sounds like it was a few years of spending. I Yeah, I haven't done the math, but it's probably a couple hundred grand or something like that.

3:59 There we go. Ding, ding, ding. So, Miguel, the truth is you could have saved up four grand out of a few hundred grand that slipped through your hands. Am I wrong?

4:08 Well, but okay. So, here's the thing. I use my credit cards for everything. Uh, you know, I pay my I Yeah, I pay my bills. I pay, you know, everything that doesn't charge me a fee for using a credit card.

4:20 Yeah. A lot of those bills will charge you 3 4% for just running that credit card.

4:24 If they charge me, if they charge me even a penny, I won't use my credit card. So, I don't pay my mortgage or anything like that with my credit cards, but there are actually a lot of things that I can pay with my credit card. I do my groceries with my credit card, all of my regular spending. Um, and that adds up to quite a bit, you know, throughout the years.

4:41 You've impressed Rachel. Rachel, if you could see her face, she is so impressed.

4:47 No, she's not. I'm just sighing. Well, the here's the thing, Miguel. A couple of things. Number one,

4:52 sure, studies have been done, and it has been proven mathematically that you do actually end up spending more when you're spending it with a credit card. And it may just be groceries and all the things, but because there is zero emotional connection to your money subconsciously, naturally, without you even realizing it, you end up spending more. So even with groceries for instance, we've talked to people on the show and they say, "Oh, I just would use my credit card for the things that we needed, you know, the bills and groceries and gas." And then we have heard countless times, haven't we, George? People say, "Actually, we ended up going without a credit card for 6 months to see if we could save money, and we actually ended up spending less.

5:30 We don't even know how that happened." And I'm like, "Well, cuz I know because there's no emotional." So, you don't even realize the amount of money that you're actually overspending. So over years of spending hundreds of thousands of dollars on this credit card to get $4,000 of flights, what could have been saved actually may have been even more than $4,000 with the subconscious spending that you're doing and not even realizing it. So that's one thing. And then number two, Miguel, like and again this is a personal kind of conviction for me and it may not be for you. I'm not saying it has to be for everyone, but what is what's so frustrating to me and I think because we're in this line of work and George and I talk to people every single day who do have credit card debt and these banks and this whole debt industry has screwed over the American people. They have they have not helped people. They have hurt people. That's

6:12 why we have a job. And because of that, the people that are hurting, the single moms that are calling in that have $11,000 in credit card debt and they're trying to get out or it's the families who lost like people that are struggling and they are in credit card debt and they're the ones paying the fees. They're the ones paying the interest. They're the ones making the bank rich to get people like you to get free points and free flights. So off the I mean, it kind of feels like off the backs of people who are struggling and hurting. I don't want a free flight out of that. I have the ability to save up and work hard myself and not have to deal with this industry at all and there's and I have no bill at the end of the month.

6:46 You know what I mean? Like I pay for my groceries. Sometimes I do Instacart and have them delivered and then it's done and then I'm done and I'm like I don't have to I don't have to play this game with them and and so there's just something so freeing about it. And again that may not be everyone's conviction but when I see mass I see banks and I see their bill all the things too much like this.

7:06 Yeah. And I'm just like, man, they have y'all have screwed over people and people are giving their hard earned income

7:11 to these places, to these industries, and they're not allowing to be able to help themselves, you know? And so I'm like, I don't I don't want it. I don't want it. I will save up. I'm I'm booking a girls trip. Actually, today I was telling George I was going to buy some tickets and I'm like, I will go on Southwest and buy my I think it's $196 one way, you know, to get and I'm like, that's fine. I will budget for that like all day every day

7:34 and I don't have to worry about it. So there I don't know, Miguel. It's uh here's the experiment. This is fun. So let's say you spent $200,000 to get four, right? That's 2% cash back. Fair.

7:44 Here's the experiment. Use your debit card for a year and see if you spent $190 grand instead of 200. Well, that just saved you 10 grand. So you just gave yourself $10,000 in rewards by not spending more. So that's that's the the thing that I can't help you figure out on paper. That's something that you need to explore for yourself. And again, there's the the moral side. I cover eight objections of why people won't stop using their cards in my book, Breaking Free from Broke. So, how about this? I'll send you a copy. You read the chapter and then call me back for a fun discussion.

8:16 Yeah. No, look, and I I I totally agree u with you guys. Um, as far as Hello. Oh, I was going to say, no, you don't, Miguel.

8:26 Rachel was laughing because you don't agree. You don't agree. You're charging those credit cards up. That's fine. We love you. We are great. We are great. especially with the part uh that you know there's you know you don't feel the money coming out of you you know when you're using a credit card. Um so my question is

8:43 I wish we had time for more Miguel you you burnt out the clock telling us about all the rewards you got going to Europe my friend but hey call us back and hang on the line I'll send you a copy of Breaking Free from Broke. I think it will enlighten you with all the stats.

9:09 Dave, we got a lot of calls on this show where life happens. One day someone's healthy, they're working, providing for their family, and then a curveball hits.

9:17 You know, we hear it all the time. a car accident, a cancer diagnosis, a heart attack, and suddenly everything changes.

9:25 Yeah. And that's why you've always said that having term life insurance from Xander is essential because it protects your family if the worst happens.

9:32 Yeah, that's right. You need 10 to 12 times your income in coverage. No gimmicks, no whole life junk, just straightforward term life protection. But there's another piece that people often overlook, and that's long-term disability insurance.

9:48 Yeah, it's important to understand the difference between them. Life insurance steps in when you die. Disability insurance steps in while you're alive, but can't work. So, it replaces a large part of your income, so the bills still get paid while you get back on your feet.

10:02 Now, if your employer gives you free disability insurance, great, take it. If it's uh discounted there at a better price, take it. But if not, Xander can help you find the right plan. Whether you're single or married, it's not optional. If you're going to be out of work for a while, then you need to make sure the money's still showing up.

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11:00 Hi. How are you doing? We're doing great. How can we help? Hi there. Yeah, so I'm fresh out of high school. I don't have any debt. I don't I've never taken out any loans and I'm I'm curious that when I start to go look for a house 10 years down the line or whenever. How how will I be able to get a mortgage without having any credit?

11:21 Oh, Jake, you were speaking my language. This is one of my favorite questions cuz it feels like a magic trick. You know, when people ask this question, they go, "I need to build the credit." And I can go through how to rent a car without a credit score, renting an apartment, all the things, but the house is the one that gets people. So, that tells me you already know there's a way to do it.

11:41 Mhm. Yeah. So, what have you found out in your research so far about how to buy a house without a credit score?

11:47 So, I I've heard I've heard like different things and it it it doesn't really make sense to me like that. Someone brought up like a manual underwrite and I I'm not really sure what that is. I I don't really understand what they're what they're talking about.

12:01 Perfect. So, when you think about the credit score, this was invented in the '9s, and all it did was make it easier for lenders to kind of do a vibe check on the people they were lending money to, right? So, Jake has a high score. Great. He's a reliable borrower. We know Jake's probably going to pay back. Well, back before credit scores existed, instead of automated underwriting through, you know, computers and AI and credit scores, there was something called manual underwriting where a real person like me sits down, looks at Jake's tax returns, his pay stubs, his previous payment history on his rent and utility bills and insurance, and go, "Oh, okay. Jake's a reliable person.

12:36 He's going to pay back the money he borrowed." And so, that's all manual underwriting is, is instead of relying on a credit score, it relies on a real person to look at your financial documentation.

12:45 Yeah. versus like a computer or technology doing it. It's a person. So manual versus not.

12:51 And a lot of mortgage companies because they're truthfully just lazy go, "No, we don't do that." So people think, "Wow, I can't get a mortgage without a credit score." But there's a lot of companies that will do it. And the main one that specializes in this is called Church Hill Mortgage. They've been a partner of the Ramsay Show for over three decades now. And those that's who I went through to get my last mortgage without a credit score. And they made it real easy. You'll have to supply things like, you know, a 12-month history of your savings and bank accounts. Uh tax return for verification of income, rental payment history, so if you've rented an apartment or even from your family and you have an on-time payment documented every single month, that counts. And then, you know, an alternative trade line like a cell phone bill or insurance bill that you paid regularly. So, if you have all of that,

13:35 plus you got a solid down payment, you're going to be in good shape. It's going to be kind of a nothing burger.

13:40 Gotcha. All right. Yeah, that makes a lot of sense. Absolutely. So great. And you know what, Jake? I'll throw in uh George, I want to give away one of your books. Yes. To Jake. Breaking free from broke because he has a whole chapter or multiple maybe even

13:52 a whole chapter on credit scores specifically. On this specifically, but Jake, you're at a good you're at a great age though to how to take these principles and actually apply it to your life because you're starting adulthood. I mean, like you're you're in it. And so this book is going to be probably the best guide to help you continue to live debtree. What does it look like to honestly build wealth in a really healthy solid way? Not in like all these like shortcut ways that I feel like so many people are talking about.

14:17 It's avoiding the noise and confusion and traps out there. And Jake, you've done such a great job. I want to applaud you. If you just continue down this path, you're going to have so much money that credit scores will become irrelevant because you don't need to go borrow money for a car loan, right? You're gonna be able to pay cash for a used car.

14:33 Yeah. So, keep it up, man. That's my encouragement to you. you're doing things the right way. Hang on the line and uh Emily will pick up. We'll get you that book.

14:41 All right. Up next, we have Derek in Salt Lake City. Hi, Derek. Welcome to the show.

14:47 Hi, thanks for taking my call today. Yeah, absolutely. So, my question is kind of regarding my girlfriend and her her desire to to work or not to work really. Um, give you guys a little bit of background. So, she's 26, still in college. um working on her bachelor's degree and her parents have a deal with all of their kids that as long as they're in school, they'll pay for all of their college and all their living expenses until they either graduate or get married.

15:18 That's a wild situation. Well, she's working on her bachelor's degree and she's 26. Has she been in since she's 18? So, she did take a an 18-month service mission for her church, but other than that, she's been uh full-time school through summer

15:34 and just getting a bachelor still. This isn't like a master's or anything. Nope. This is just her bachelor's.

15:39 Is she just stretching it out because she's got mommy and daddy's bank attached? I'm like, sweet. Why ever leave school? I'll be in school till I'm dead.

15:45 So, that's that's kind of my fear. So, she does she has two older brothers in the same situation who are 31 and 29

15:52 and they're still in school. Still working on Yeah. also still in school. Never have worked.

15:56 Hey parents, let this be uh Oh, man. your memo. Don't do this ever. Derek, does she feel like a winner to you?

16:04 Uh that's No, not at this not at this particular moment. I didn't know how long this relationship's going to last cuz man,

16:12 I So that's kind of where I didn't know how bad the situation was. I I like didn't know their work history or anything. Just recently found out that none of them have worked. talked to her about that and

16:25 we we've been dating a year. So, we started talking about marriage and finances and this is when it all started to come up of okay, what's the plan and what's what's her plan? And for now, it sounds like as soon as she gets married, her either me or future husband is taking care of all expenses while she finishes school.

16:45 Yeah, I would get some clarity around all of this. Have you shared with her your concern of saying, "Hey, I'm kind of worried that you're just going to stay in school forever because your life's being funded." Have you kind of been honest with her?

16:56 Yeah, I've been honest with her and that's why I reached out to you guys because we were talking about this and I I work full-time. I have a a very stable job and been doing that for a while, debtree, kind of whole nine yards there. I asked her to get a a part-time job during the summer or next next semester to to kind of get some financial freedom away from from her her parents.

17:19 But if you're in her shoes, why would you have why would you work? Because hopefully you have the character to say, "I'm an adult and I'm going to start making that adult-like decisions and now it's showing that her character isn't there." Yeah, that was my my tester to see if she was willing to to put in some effort because

17:36 I want to make things work, but if if I'm expected to take 100% of the financial burden for the next 50 years, I don't I don't know if I can handle that.

17:49 Right. And it's not even like a situation, Derek, where you know, she's working and she's like, "Hey, but when I become a mom, I want to be full-time at home and that I want my job to be that, right? I want to transfer home and be a full-time mom, but there's no initiative at all in who she is. And what always that fear is to me is that that starts to bleed into other areas of your life. You know what I mean? Of like this procrastination,

18:12 just apathy, apathy or laziness or like I don't know what it is, but I'm like, man,

18:17 yeah, it's just not very it's not a lot of attractive qualities that come out of that. And I'm not saying that she needs to like go be some corporate woman climbing the ladder and working 80 hours a week. It's not even that, but it's just like, yeah, I want the dignity to have my own money. I'm 26. I'm 26 and I've been in school for what, eight years?

18:34 I don't even know how you drag out a bachelor's degree for eight years. That's what I'm saying. Even

18:38 that's honestly impressive. Is she just taking like part-time classes or like flunking every time?

18:44 That's she's she's had to retake a lot of classes where she's failed. says she wants to get into like a a master's PhD program and so she and Derek

18:55 for those reasons I'm out. I mean, I'm sure she's a wonderful person, but this is not someone I want to continue down the path with personally based on what you told me.

19:03 Because what's so hard, Derek, when you get to this point of a relationship and like and George knows this, he's been he's married and so am I. But it's like you have the romantic side, right? You you fall in love, they're attractive, you know, you have chemistry, like all that stuff is great, but then what ends up kind of where like the rubber meets the road is when real life happens and it's like I've chosen someone in my life,

19:24 partner in this life. Yeah. to walk life with and life isn't easy and and so there's a level of resilience you want in a partner and

19:31 little grit. Yeah. And and none of that is coming through right now and a and I don't want to blame her for her brothers but the whole family lot of dysfunction that a 31-year-old man is still in school. Like that's her brother and that's who you're marrying into too. Derek,

19:47 who's hiring this guy? I see on your resume here you've been in school for uh 13 years and have yet to get a bachelor's degree. Sure. You get the job,

19:55 man. Derrick, I'm so sorry, Derek. What do you think? What What do you think? What's your next step?

20:00 Uh, so that's my next step was to to allow her some time to get a job. And if she wasn't willing to work, you know, 15 20 hours a week, it was kind of the end.

20:11 I think I think that's fair. I Yeah, I don't think that's unreasonable. And you're not, you know, looking for her to make a hundred, you know, it's like, oh, well, she's not making 100,000 a year. She's not, you know, it's nothing to do with that. It's just the effort as a human and an adult in the world today.

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22:29 Hi. How are you guys? We're doing great. How can we help? Yeah. Um, so how do I stop spending everything I make so I can start reaching financial goals for myself? Oh, interesting. What are you spending money on?

22:43 Well, honestly, um, mostly Door Dash. Um, but then just random stuff. Like I always find a way, no matter how much money comes in the paycheck, to spend it all.

22:54 It's fair. Love will find a way. Have you thought about uh like deleting the Door Dash app and forcing yourself to go inside of a grocery store?

23:03 Yeah. Well, I actually didn't. I did that like two days ago. Um, and like you said, love will find a way. It's just like a creeping addiction, you know?

23:13 So, you see like the zucchini you bought three days ago and you're like, "Ah, Door Dash sounds better. I'm redownloading it."

23:18 Oh, yeah. Like going back to an abusive X to a zucchini. Why don't you at least say like,

23:24 well, we all aspirational grocery shop, you know what I mean? We're like, you know what? I'm going to eat a zucchini.

23:29 I'm going to use a whole bag of spinach. I saw a good Instagram air fryer zucchini recipe. I'm going to, you know,

23:34 whole thing of spinach. Well, Gabe, but here's the thing. What are your financial goals? Cuz I think they have to be big enough and powerful enough to fuel your love of Door Dash to stop that.

23:44 Yeah. Well, first is get a car. Then after that, a house. And then after that, crack the million mark in net worth.

23:52 Love it. Those are great goals. Okay. That's the American dream summed up. What are you doing for a living right now?

23:59 Uh right now it's not good. I'm actually um working for the master. I feed I door dash a lot from home. Wait, what?

24:07 Well, no wonder it's easy cuz you're around it all the time. Like this Taco Bell.

24:11 Wait, do you drive for Door Dash? I'll pay myself to do it again. Okay. You're not working for like Door Dash corporate. You're like a

24:16 No, he's a Door Dasher. He's Okay. How old are you? Running around food for people.

24:21 Yeah. How old are you? I'm 20. Under 20. Okay. Are you in school? Did you not go to college? What happened?

24:28 Yeah. Well, I'm in school for business management right now. Okay. What do you want to do with that? Well, um, ideally, you know, um, get a short-term management job to kind of build up a nest egg and then go out on my own and

24:47 try my hand at the entrepreneuriality or I can't talk. Yeah, you're good. So, you want to work in management of something like is it retail? Is it corporate? Have you sort of drilled down into that to what you'd be most into? Yeah, I'd be most into corporate, but obviously if someone offers me a job paying more than Door Dash does, I'll take it at this point.

25:09 Have Okay. How much longer in school? Yeah. When you graduate? Uh, I'm expecting next summer.

25:16 Okay. Cash flowing it or are you going to debt? I'm cash flowing it. Great. Do you have any debt?

25:23 I have $200 in credit cards. Okay, we got that. It's good. Um, okay, Gabe, you know what I'm gonna say? You're I'd say you're a typical 20-year-old guy. I don't think there's anything wrong with you. I think you need a little bit of motivation. Um, and I think when you're in school, you have a part-time job. Um, you know, you got to just float your expenses. I mean, are you living at home? How what what are you doing like for rent and all of that?

25:47 Yeah. No, right now I'm living at home, which probably doesn't help the spending but

25:52 Yeah. Well, it's fine. I mean, you're in college. I think that's totally appropriate. Um, so what do you have to pay for? What are the things that are you're responsible for?

26:02 Uh right now it's just my phone and gas. Phone and gas. Okay. And what are you making every month?

26:10 Uh naturally it varies, but it's usually about two grand a month. Okay. Okay. Because if I'm you, I have very little motivation to even go work when my only two things I need to survive is covering a phone bill and gas.

26:22 And because you're a full-time college student, so you're in co you're you're in college. Um which I don't think is bad.

26:27 Yeah, that's great. you're in college, you're doing well in your classes, you're going to graduate on time.

26:31 So, I think the best thing for you, Gabe, honestly, right now, is to work on your habits and you need to start creating some new financial routines. And so, you can do this. You can even automate some of this. I don't always recommend that for people because I kind of like people's behavior to change because they're actually the ones doing it. But for you, I would almost say, yeah, make make it a goal where you save, you know, half of that. Maybe you save what if you saved $1,000 a month cuz how much does your phone and gas cost?

26:59 Not much. It usually shakes out to around three 400. Okay. So, yeah. What if you gave yourself 600 bucks to spend on how you want and then save half of your income and you do that for the next golly six months, you'd have $6,000 when you graduate. That'll help you upgrade a car and actually start moving. But, but you can even go in and automate some of this. like you can, you know, set up some systems in place with online banking and that kind of thing that when your paycheck hits um

27:29 it's like pay yourself first. Yeah, absolutely. I'd be giving some too. I think there there's a practice of generosity in there. Give um you know, it's ever how much you want, but even 200 bucks a month, practice that part. Practice the saving part and then you can still enjoy some of it. So, I think you're in a good spot. I think it's just the habits and the routines uh monthtomonth that you need to change. And when you kind of get those in place, you start to be disciplined. you start to know what you're doing. You're telling your money what to do. And then when you graduate and you get your first job, those habits just go in from a $2,000 a month um to maybe a $5,000 $6,000 a month salary. And you know, you've you've changed the way that you handle your money. Literally, your behavior changes.

28:11 Okay. I was exactly like you, Gabe. I'm looking back at when I was you were not that much of a spender.

28:16 No. But when I was living at home, I was working in the Apple store. Yeah. And every paycheck would just go to like gear and just spend. I didn't I wasn't saving any of it.

28:25 Well, because there's no urgency. Exactly. I was living at home. And so I just I remember feeling that way, Gabe. And what unlocked it for me was getting out of the house. I moved across the country, started fresh, finished school, and that sort of put a new pep in my step to go, listen, mom's not going to save you with her home-cooked meals.

28:41 I don't think you got to move out, though. Do you I'm saying once he graduates though, he should just go ahead and find an actual job.

28:47 Natural. Don't stick around home saying, "Well, I could save up for a house faster." And then all of a sudden you spent 500 bucks on Door Dash.

28:53 Yes. That's right. That's right. Yeah. So, when you graduate, you need to move out. That needs to be

28:56 create some problems for yourself cuz we are wired to solve problems. And right now, you just don't have many, which is not a bad thing, but if you want to accomplish your financial goals, you kind of need to have some some uh you know, some mojo. And right now, it's hard to have that when mom's folding the laundry. True.

29:14 Uh Gabe, what kind of car do you have right now? Well, right now I don't have anything. I'm driving my dad's for Door Dash.

29:22 Oh. Whoa. How does he feel about that? He feels fine about it because he does it part time, too. So, you know.

29:30 Okay. He doesn't really mind. Okay. Well, I would make that a goal then. I think that's a great You said that, but I would re Yeah, I would reiterate. Yeah. If you And if you saved $1,000 a month, Gabe, I mean, you could have a $6,000 car in six months. You know what I mean? like it.

29:45 Do you have a high yield savings account Gabe? Yeah, I do. Um I'm shopping around for another one cuz I'm not a fan of the one I have.

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30:27 Oh, yeah. And it says debt as normal. Be weird. You're not deeply in debt, Gabe. But at least you kind of get that reminder. Yeah. Every time,

30:33 especially as you enter adulthood, it's so easy to be tempted to take out the car loan, open the credit card, go into debt,

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30:45 yep, for sure. This is very natural. You're 20. You're not weird. You're just 20.

30:49 Yep. Just put some disciplines and new habits in place. I think you're going to be fine. But George camel a spender.

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33:14 Today's question comes from Mason in Michigan. Is Dave's stance to only buy a cell phone in cash or is he okay with putting it on an installment plan with a cell phone provider over two or three years? Couldn't tell you Dave stance. I could guess Dave's stance, but we can give you George and Rachel's stance at least. I don't want to put words in the guy's mouth. He's not here to defend himself.

33:35 Uh, but the simple answer is yes. Only buy a cell phone in cash. An installment plan is effectively debt because you have to finish paying off the phone before you actually own it. And you're also locked into this contract for two or three years. So if anything happens, you want to switch, you want to change phones, well, you're kind of stuck in these handcuffs with that cell phone provider. And so I always recommend buying a phone in cash. And if you can't afford the brand new iPhone 16 Pro Max with 512 GB, then don't buy it. You can buy a used phone. In fact, I just sold a used phone online.

34:11 Oh, you did? Within a day, and I got great money for it. Nice. And you were laughing at some guy's phone in the lobby.

34:16 It was like an iPhone 6. It was so vintage. It had the one lonely little lens. We were taking pictures and I never even noticed that stuff. George is like the Apple guy and he's like, "Hey, is that the is that the iPhone model 4?"

34:30 This is from a former Apple store employee. I know. And the guy in the lobby with the with the phone, he's doing great. He's thriving.

34:36 He's living a great life. Thriving. He's fine. So, you can buy a cheaper phone if you need to. All is going to be okay. I feel like these installment plans also have caused like cell phone inflation cuz the cell phone companies like we can charge whatever. They'll just pay on payments.

34:49 Yes. So, it's part of the problem and it causes you to get into a cycle where it's like a gateway drug to other payments. If you're okay with this payment, why not buy now pay later?

34:58 Right. They promise 0% too. Well, and the thing always is when you get stuck in a system where you have to you're locked in and you cannot get out. That's not fun. Like that's not that's not what you want to do. So that's essentially what debt is and essentially when what these kind of plans are. So

35:14 that's the simplest answer. Good question. I hope he's buying an iPhone. Don't be an Android guy.

35:20 Oh, come on, George. I'm not an elitist. Such a judgmental. Do you know I had an Android?

35:25 Did you? Yeah. I had a Blackberry. This is back in like 20 2007 or something, but it was a Blackberry.

35:32 That doesn't count, does it? and then an Android giving you my my cell phone. I I was a Nokia user and then a Blackberry and then an Android for two years and I swore I would never get an iPhone. I don't know why I didn't like them. I didn't like the people that had them.

35:49 There we go. That's the real answer. That was in like 2010. And now you've changed. Now you are that person.

35:54 Now I'm that person. And I've been that person. I kid. I like to upset the Android people with their green bubbles. I don't need you in the group chat. All right. That's all I'm saying.

36:04 Andrew. Okay, let's go to Lauren in Kansas City. Hi Lauren. Welcome to the show.

36:09 Well, hello everybody. Hello. How can we help? Okay, so my question is, should I take money out of my savings to start a small business to hopefully, you know, make more money to save more money? Because at this point, um, I think I'm on a baby step six. Um, I just own a three-bedroom condo technically in Branson, Missouri, and I'm trying to pay that off as quickly as possible, but I'm literally working 80 hours a week to try to get ahead and I'm killing myself.

36:38 Oh, girl. What are you doing for work and what do you make? Um, well, I am a property manager at a Choice Hotel and Well, I make 20 an hour, but so that's not even 40 grand a year. And I'm a front desk agent at the Hilton and that's 16 an hour. So, I probably make about 34 a year if I'm lucky after taxes.

36:58 And you're legitimately working two full-time jobs. Yes. That's exactly right now. I'm I'm at the Choice Hotel and then I leave here at 2:30 to work 3 to 11.

37:07 What does the growth track look like in the hospitality world where you can make 75K?

37:13 Well, you're want to start a small business is what you want to leave this industry completely.

37:17 Um, maybe not completely. Um, I want to do the if the business got busy enough, I would leave the hotel business, but if not, I just want it as extra income because I'm more passion more passionate about um events and entertainment and mainly party planning. Um,

37:34 so pitch us your small business idea. How much is it going to cost and what what's it going to be?

37:39 Okay, so I want to rent out photo backdrops. you know, like the florals, like the pretty stuff people stand in front of to take pictures at, like bridal showers, baby showers, weddings, Mother's Day.

37:51 And I do have a couple of connections like with the Hilton and the convention center in town. And

37:56 because there's a lot of weddings and events. Have you done these before, Lauren?

37:59 Yeah. Um I have. Um but it's just like I have two backdrops that I own personally. Okay.

38:04 And I've rented them out a handful of times. And how how expens how how much money can you make by doing that? Like if an event rents out one of your backdrops, how much are you making?

38:13 Well, um depending on the backdrop, I mean a hundred well $200 for the most basic one and like up to $400 depending on how fancy the backdrop is. But my issue is only have two and they're not fancy. So if I invested in a more backdrop, it's going to cost me anywhere from three grand to five grand just to have a handful of backdrops.

38:35 Okay. And how much do you have in your savings? Um 30,000. 30. Nice. Um are you single kids?

38:43 Yes. No children. No man. Yeah. So is $25,000 still a good emergency fund for you? Do you feel comfortable with that? It feels like a lot.

38:52 Oh, yeah. Yeah, for sure. And I'm just trying to cuz I only owe 54,000 on my condo. So, I was trying to just, you know, get up to 60, pay it completely off, and then, you know, my 5,000 would be my emergency fund. But it was like, should I try to do the side gig or the side um project business to make more money quicker without killing myself?

39:15 How much of this can you do on your own without hiring other people? Because you you're kind of stuck trading your time, right? You got to bring the backdrop, set up the backdrop, break down the backdrop, you got to keep it local to where it's drivable,

39:27 right? Exactly. Um um mo for the most part I can do it all by myself. Now in addition to the backdrop I also do balloon arches and those can be anywhere from a hundred bucks to yeah

39:38 300 bucks depending on how much time it takes and how many balloons it takes. Yeah. Well I mean I mean if you had a great backdrop, Lauren, you know you could charge 600 and you did one of those a week. I don't know how I don't know how many parties are out there. That's 2400 bucks. Yeah, that's 2,400 bucks a month. Um,

39:56 it would be more popular during, you know, like uh special events in the holidays like Christmas, New Year's Eve.

40:03 Sure. Sure. Because ideally you could get to the place where this replaces the front desk job that you're making 30 for

40:11 and if you could do this instead, you know, maybe still keep the other one, but um replace at least one of these so that you're just working a few hours versus till 11 every night, you know, at the front desk. That

40:22 that seems worth it to me. And it seems like it's been somewhat proven out the fact that you're

40:26 you got connections, you've done this before, you've made money. So, I would, yeah, if you're going to spend cash on this and go with a small investment up front of 3 to five grand, I would go for it and see where you can take this thing and see how you might end up needing to hire someone out because you're working and can't be at every single event in all places at one time, but maybe you pay them, you know, 15, 20 bucks an hour to go set it up and break it down and you still make profit and that way you don't have to be everywhere.

40:53 Yeah, exactly. And it it doesn't um take long. I mean, they're heavy and kind of annoying, but it literally takes me th like not even 30 minutes to set it up. Um, and you know, get it in place and then 30 minutes to break it down and put it in my car,

41:08 but also drive a Prius. I was going to say, I feel like you're going to need a pretty big car to carry all these backdrops. So, what I don't want you to do is go, I had to finance a $50,000 van to transport the backdrops. Yeah.

41:19 So, just be smart about it. I think and my car has been paid off for nine years, so I'm going to let it, you know, die on me.

41:28 You've been very smart. You don't have any consumer debt. You have a lot of savings. You're taking your time. You're working to pay off the condo. I mean, you're doing your your gut so far is correct what you've been doing. So, um, yeah, I trust you. I trust

41:40 And maybe I'd say I'd work on saving up and cash flowing a SUV or van so you can use it for business and increase your income that way, too.

41:49 Yeah. because I also wanted to like not just do the backdrop, but you know, make it pretty, you know. Yeah. Purchase a few um like benches. Well, I have a couple, but they're like fold up benches I can fit in the Prius.

42:02 I Yeah, I can't get couches and stuff because the top just go slow and be smart about it. Use profits to reinvest in the business and start to grow this thing and see where it goes. I'm for it.

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43:26 Welcome back to the Ramsay Show in the Fair Winds Credit Union studio. I'm Rachel Cruz with George Camel and we are taking your calls at88255225. Up next we have Emma in Minneapolis. Hi Emma. Welcome to the show.

43:44 Hi, thank you so much. Absolutely. How can we help today? So I am a senior in high school. I'm freshly 18 years old. Um and I got into my dream college and I don't know how to tell my parents. Wow. I thought there was going to be something bad that happened, but this is good. So, give us the context of why this is bad news for your parents.

44:08 Um, so my dream school for my whole life has been um University of Northwestern St. Paul

44:16 whole life since you were zero years old. You're like, this is on my my dream Pinterest board.

44:22 Is that that's a priv is that a private school? Yes, it's private and Christian.

44:27 Yep. How much is that tuition? It's about 38,000 a year. Okay. Um, okay. So, what have you and your parents talked about when it comes to college?

44:41 Um, so I've known for a very long time that my parents were not going to help us were not going to help me with college. Um, I'm the oldest of six kids and we live

44:52 on just my dad's income. Okay. And so they don't want me to go there because they don't want me to go into student loan debt, which I understand.

45:06 Yeah. Um 100%. But I haven't I think you have probably 99% of people listening to this saying, "Yep, we agree with your parents. We we are." Um, and so you've not told them because you're gonna go and you're going to go take on essentially over four years $160,000.

45:30 What I haven't told them is I got Yeah. What I haven't told them is that I got a partial ride scholarship.

45:38 Oh, well that's great. Okay. So, how much does that cover? Um, it covers about $44,000 over all four years.

45:48 Okay. So, you're down to like you'll owe 120 or something. What's the number? It's $11,000 a year for all four years. So, I'm down to like $105,000.

46:03 Okay. And how much do you have saved? I actually do not have a savings account. I have been um helping my parents with the bills and stuff. I work for

46:16 So they're struggling financially. Yes. Okay. Oh, wow. And you're working part-time and that money that you're working for is going to the household?

46:27 Yes. Was this a something you're doing out of kindness or was it like a hey, if you're going to live under a roof, you got to help around cuz times are tough.

46:35 No, it's kindness. Okay. Okay. And they're and they're and they're they're taking your money.

46:44 I mean, they're Yes and no. Um they So, I contribute I help pay um for groceries and stuff and I am aware that some of the money that I'm paying them, they're putting in a savings account for me. I just don't know how much that is.

47:04 So, we can get some clarity on that. We got to know if it's a,000 or 10,000. I think if my math is right, it should be around 8,000.

47:15 And what if it's zero? What if they spent it all? I don't know. Yeah. Well, I hate to say it. I mean, I know there's, you know, people are in different circumstances financially, but asking an 18-year-old to help provide for the family, that's tough for me. Um, so I would I would hope that they just took the money and put it in a savings account. But I would ask them tonight because it is October and if you're a senior in high school, you know, you're starting to get early ad. I mean, it's what you you're doing. You're getting college um you're you sent out college applications. You're getting the letters in. you're figuring out your next steps and you do that around this time. And so for you, Emma, to know going into the next nine months of like what you have to work with and staying within that.

48:06 So, um, I want to be really kind because I really appreciate the dream school. I know that, you know, you've thought about it and all of it, but there is a sign of maturity, Emma, that when you choose to live within your means, you don't get to do everything you want. And that's a true sign of an adult. And we talked to people on the show that are 45 that don't even grasp that. And so I would implore you that your friends Rachel and George can tell you in the real world when you go out to get a job, majority of people don't care what's on your diploma. They really don't. Some some care that you have a four-year degree. I mean, that's a I think a great um thing to have, you know. So, I I think that's great, but people don't care and they don't, you know, that the name of the school and all of that. It is a it is not usually a sign that you're going to be successful and get a job that's going to then carry you for

49:07 throughout your adulthood and going $120,000 or $105,000. Um I think it's a little bit I think it's going to end up being a little bit more than that after room and board and book everything. Um

49:20 what are you studying? I was planning on double majoring in pastoral ministry and communications.

49:30 Emma, Emma, we just talked to a worship pastor who's making 53 $58,000 a year and he's been doing a long It would take you a successful worship leader.

49:39 It would take you like seven to eight years to pay this off. No. No. Please. Please. Please. No.

49:46 What do you What do you want to do on the other side of this? Tell me the job. Like if I could just do this job, it would be a dream.

49:54 Um, summer camp director. Okay. For like summer camp. I love the clarity there. Here's the good news.

50:00 I don't think you need a communication degree or even a pastoral studies degree to be a summer camp director. You know what? You need

50:08 experience at a summer camp where you work your way that you can do for free. So, this is actually great news. This gives me so much hope for you that we can avoid a crisis because here's what let me play this out and you can go watch the borrow and future documentary we did on the student loan crisis. I think it'll help under help you understand some of what we're talking about. My fear for you is that you can never be a summer camp director because there is no summer camp director job that pays enough to cover the payments on the student loans that you end up taking out.

50:36 So you're going to have to go get a job. You're going to have to end up being, you know, an an administrative assistant or something. I mean, which is not bad, but you're not going to get to do what you want to do in life because you're going to have bills to pay for years for for years and years and years and years for a Christian private education that you didn't need. You don't you don't need it,

50:54 right? Um, now, would it be a great time going to the school? I think so. But is it worth 120 grand for the price to have this experience? I don't think it is at this point. Now, if you had a full ride and you were like, I just want to do this for fun, I'd go, good for you. Go for it. But I just I I got into my dream school, Emma, when I was 18 and it was 50 grand a year for 4 years at going to a film school. And I said, I don't think I can stomach 200 grand in student loan debt to maybe be a film director one day. And I think that was the Lord saying, "Please don't do this, young man."

51:27 Yeah. Your future's going to be bright without scripture, Emma. Every time debt is mentioned, it's in a negative fashion. Now, it's not a sin. If you end up going, you're going to get to heaven with student loans. You're fine, right? It's not a sin. But every time it's mentioned, it is negative. It's a curse. It's you are a slave to the lender. It is not wise. Go read Proverbs. Go read Proverbs. What God has set before you. And before you make this mistake, Emma, please listen to your parents. They're giving you good wisdom. And figure out how much is in that account cuz I think you can go to a community college even for a little bit if you need to.

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53:09 to healthrustfinanicial.com today. That's healthtrustfinanicial.com. I'm George Campbell joined by Rachel Cruz. This is the Ramsey Show. Open phones at8825-5225. We're heading to Tampa next to talk to Corey. How can we help, Corey?

53:42 Hi there. Thank you for taking my call. Sure. What's going on? Uh, I'm contemplating selling my small business to accept a job that would increase my total income to try and get out of this debt that we're in as quick as possible. And I'm just trying to make sure that I'm doing the right thing.

54:02 Okay. How much debt are you in? Uh, right around 100,000 before uh my mortgage.

54:08 Okay. And what kind of debt is the 100,000? Um, let's see. We got 35 is allocated towards the small business. It's a it's a food truck. Um so that was a startup loan from friends and family members. Um about 30,000 in student loans. Uh 10,000 to fix the AC. Um and then about 22,000 in uh or no 25,000 in vehicles.

54:39 Okay. And what is this business worth if you were to sell it? Um, I would estimate around 42,000 to just sell the trailer. Um, and then I also have a truck that I bought to use with the business that I could potentially let go as well.

54:55 What's that worth? Um, it's worth right around 13,000 and I owe uh 185 on it. Okay. So, you're about five grand underwater on that. Okay. So, you would get uh 55K essentially for selling this business,

55:12 correct? And you'd need another five to get out of the underwater loan, and you're about 100K in debt. So, this gets you out of debt twice as fast. And what's the household income now?

55:22 Um, right now, my wife just got a promotion. She makes um 7 or uh 67 before bonuses with potential 12,000 in bonuses. Um I make about 550 at a part-time job a week. And then the trailer, we really don't take a paycheck from it. I just whatever profits at the end of the month, I throw at debts, which is averaging between um you know, 2,000 and 3500 a month.

55:53 Okay. So, altogether you guys make about 100K a year roughly. Um it's it's not including the trailer in any way, shape, or form, seeing as how I don't take a paycheck from it. It's It's closer to like uh 85 to 90.

56:09 And what's the new job, Corey, that you're looking at? Uh I would be taking a uh chef position at the part-time job now, which would get me up to um 73 guaranteed with a potential 12,000 bonus as well.

56:25 Amazing. Um, for the food truck itself, is it something you would go back to doing after? Like if you were completely debtree, would you still keep this keep doing this or are you getting burned out?

56:37 Uh, well, I kind of burned out on it. Um, been doing it for about two and a half, three years, working seven days a week, you know, 70, 80, 90 hour weeks.

56:47 Um, and just it was never supposed to be the end all be all. It was supposed to be a stepping stone towards a brickandmortar location. and it's just looking like the reality of it. It puts it, you know, five, six, seven years down the road. And I just don't think that I could put my family through that hardship.

57:06 Yeah, totally. That's mature of you. Yeah. And I think I mean I think you're um listening to your gut and I think you're you're seeing kind of the tea leaves of what's happening, which I think is really smart, Corey. Really really smart. Especially when you're talking about the food industry. We've gotten calls of people um that go straight to want to go straight to the brick and mortar and take out a massive loan. And the food industry is one of the highest ones that you know the highest parts of of small businesses that goes up and it goes down and it it closes more than any other industry.

57:36 Yeah. Uh it's just a re and as you experience with the food truck, it is just a it's a tough

57:41 it's a tough world to be in. It's a lot of work. A lot of work. And again, not always with the guarantee that it's going to be successful. So, um, being a chef somewhere, I think, sounds like the perfect next stepping stone.

57:53 You're going to get a 50 grand raise while getting rid of half of your debt and you're still doing the thing you love. You're still able to, you know, be in that world of of cooking and food and um, hopefully innovating.

58:03 Yeah. I mean, like, to me, this is kind of a nobrainer, honestly, because I don't know. You kind of get to still live your dream, but not have to deal with owning anything right now,

58:13 right? So, yes, I would I would do I try to get top dollar for your trailer and the truck. And do you have anything in savings?

58:20 Um, we have uh right around 2,000 in our emergency savings and then I have about 2,000 cash that just kind of floats around for uh expenditures.

58:31 Okay. You may want to wait another paycheck or two, get that 5,000 difference that you're underwater on so that you have the money to actually get rid of the note on that truck.

58:40 Okay. And that way you're not having to take out another loan to clean this up. And then I'd take that new job, man. And I I would clean this mess up. You're probably get I mean, you'll be making what 150k households at that point

58:52 roundabouts. Yeah. You know, it's not more of it's not guaranteed. Um you know, so it's there is a little bit of a fluctuation on it.

59:01 Sure. And then, you know, so making about 150 with 50k left to pay off, that's going to get knocked out real quick versus your situation now, which is we make 8090 with 100 to pay off. the the math ain't mathing on that one. So, we do need some drastic changes. You're willing to do it. You're burnt out on this. And guess what? Later on down the road, you may decide to do this dream again, but you're going to do it with cash with more experience while making more money. And so, I don't want you I know it's it's hard to grieve something that you put your heart and soul into. And I can tell you're passionate about it, but there's also wisdom in going now's not the time.

59:34 Yeah. And you know, we've we've just ran found Dave Ramsey and your whole system a few months ago, and we have made considerable progress towards our debt. We we always live all of our debts from 3 years previous. We haven't gone into any debt in the last 3 years. We were just paying minimums and then we've read um you know uh total money makeover and we've started trying to get out of this debt. We're still struggling with the budget somewhat. you know, I feel like there's still more room for cutting some expenses, but it's just, you know, been a little bit of a struggle.

1:00:10 Yeah. And and just to give you some some hope and I mean, you guys have just been doing this a couple of months, and even with the budget, we we say it usually takes about 3 to four months to really get in the cycle of doing it and and it actually be correct that you can live on. So, you guys are just starting out. And the fact that you're so gung-ho about it, I'm like, you you're going to make great progress. the budget is easier to do when you have less debt, more income. The numbers will start to give you some hope instead of go, "Oh my gosh, how are we going to fix this puzzle?" And so, um, we're wishing you the best, Cory. Appreciate the call.

1:00:39 Yeah. And you know what? Hold on the line, Cory. Christian will pick up and we'll give you every dollar premium for a year on us. And this is our budgeting app that hopefully will um help get this a little bit more organized. It's a very it's a great app because it it's very fine-tuned like you get to see all the results.

1:00:55 Yes. All right, let's go to Kathy in Boston. And how can we help Kathy? Hi. Hey. What's your question?

1:01:04 Okay. I'm 67 years old and I'd like to retire in three years and I do have money in stocks and bonds and mutuals and I'm not sure if I should keep it there or if I should maybe switch to annuities or IRA CDs. I didn't know the best way to go. Well, I mean, switching to annuities and and IRA CDs, you're talking about really lowering your ability to make any money. And so, you're just sort of preserving what is. And, you know, if you're 67, there's a good chance you live to 87 if you're in good health, right?

1:01:36 Yes. And so, I want to see your money grow beyond the rate of inflation. So, what is your money in and how much? Um I have approximately 250 2,000 and that would be like stocks bonds mutual because I have it in three different places that kind of manage it.

1:01:54 Okay. What else? And then I do have I get have social security. Okay. And then I work and I work.

1:02:02 Okay. So what's your plan to actually retire? How will you cover your expenses in retirement?

1:02:08 Just with my investments and the money I have and of course my social security. What are your monthly expenses?

1:02:15 Oh, um, let's see. Thousand maybe maybe 1,600 a month. Maybe I mean 2,000 would be way overkill.

1:02:26 Okay. And what's your social security payment going to be? Uh, 2100 after tax. Oh, nice.

1:02:32 So, that's enough to cover the baseline bills for now without more inflation. And I would leave your money invested in the market. I wouldn't go to, you know, search for a 4% return when what we've seen in the market. I just checked my 401k last year, Kathy, 37% return when I just left it in and didn't touch it and left it in the overall market and grow stock mutual funds versus those less risky but lower return things like those CDs and annuities. So, I would stay on your plan. This is the Ramsey Show.

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1:04:49 Welcome back. Going to the phones, we have Sarah in Riverside, California. Hi Sarah, welcome to the show.

1:04:57 Hi, thank you for having me. Absolutely. How can we help? So, I have some guilt and pride around using uh child support money. So, I was in an abusive relationship um and by the grace of God, I was able to leave when my son was about 3 weeks old.

1:05:15 Oh my gosh. Um, I met my now husband um when my son was 6 months old and he's now 12. Um, my husband and I had sat and talked and said, "We don't want any money. We don't want anything. We want nothing to do with him."

1:05:29 Well, the judge made the decision that it's not our choice and it's not our money. Um, it's for our son.

1:05:35 So, we were just putting all that money in an account. um we had some debt and um in 2021 I lost my job and we needed four walls so we dipped into that account. Um as of January of 2025 we are officially done with baby step 2. We are completely debtree.

1:05:56 Oh congratulations. Thank you. It's very exciting. I'm really happy to be there. M

1:06:02 um but I have about $4,000 from that child support money that we said we'd never use. Um and I'm wondering if I should just pay it back like a debt and just keep going like if we were on baby step two or I the connotation of the child support money in the first place just kills me and I don't know what to do about it.

1:06:27 So So this this guilt Sarah I'm just double checking that the facts are correct. you didn't use this money immorally. It was more of a conviction that you personally had with it because of who it came from and you just the thought of using it just feels gross and you had to use it at one point. Um but but from a legal standpoint, you use it exactly how anyone else would use it, right? To help run the household because you're you you're taking care of a child and that other parent is helping with that. Correct.

1:06:56 Exactly. Yeah. And what was the court order? How much and for how long? Um it was originally it was until he was 18 and it was supposed to be $430. Um the only money that I've actually seen from that is the COVID money. Um I was able to get his COVID check. I didn't know that it was coming. Uh my husband um adopted our son when he was four years old. Everything finalized. So that's when the child support stopped. But there's so much a rears that I mean I will still randomly get like a $12 check. Uh $4 check over essentially you're not getting future payments. You just have this kind of savings sitting here and you feel like

1:07:39 I don't want to I don't want to touch this money because it feels weird. Yeah. How much is in that account?

1:07:44 Um in the account right now is um 2,000 and I used four of it. Four of it. And what are you going to what are you going to do with it eventually? Are you going to give it to him when he's 18 or or help pay for a car when he's 16 or college or what do you think?

1:07:59 That's what we were thinking. Um just a car or something like that. Um like I said, my son my husband's been around since my son was six months old. So my son doesn't know. Um he doesn't know any different as of right now. And eventually we're going to tell him. I mean, we have to tell him, but we're just not there yet. And he's not emotionally mature enough to be there yet.

1:08:19 Sure. Okay. Um, so what I'll speak to I I'll speak to the money side of it, Sarah, from the sense that no, this is not a debt that you need to pay. I mean, you're you use the money essentially how the system works and you know, you use it exactly appropriately. And I know that doesn't sit well with you because of who it's coming from, and that that totally makes sense to me. But I think kind of the the quoteunquote debt going forward, which is not a debt, but is to say, "Okay, how can we best set up my son to have a life where he from a financial standpoint understands um understands money, doesn't have to walk through this debt-free journey, and we're setting him up in order to do that." And that looks like things like maybe college or um helping with his first car, you know, what whatever that may look like for you guys. And for me, um I wouldn't I wouldn't I wouldn't hold on to that emotional $4,000 anymore

1:09:10 because um I I think you I think you need to release that. But I think going forward the motivation now is to pass a great legacy on to your son, right? Regardless of $4,000 or not. So I I totally understand how that can feel like, oh my gosh, we use this money and it feels so gross and I hate it cuz I don't he's a terrible person. Um but on but you know you you guys were in a pinch at the time and that's what that money's for is to help take care of your son and that's what you guys did. So um I I would I would let go of that because emotionally I think it I think it is holding on to you so deeply.

1:09:44 Yeah. So in the filing cabinet of your brain we need to refile this instead of child support money from an abusive awful relationship. This is changing my family tree money to set up my child for a better life than the one I experienced.

1:09:56 Yeah. And Sarah too, you know, g give yourself a little bit of grace. You know, if if this was a $60,000, you know, thing or something and you were like, "Oh my gosh, you were supposed to use it for a down payment on a house or, you know what I mean?" Like a mag like I feel like like a lot of this magnitude and weight from a dollar standpoint. I feel like we could go at it a different way because I could see, you know, the more money it is, the more weight it feels, right? So, um, so with this 4,000, yeah, I I want you I want you to release it for you, Sarah. Again, it's not about the dollars at that point. to me it's it's that emotional attachment that's still there to him and I I I want that I want that released from you know so um whatever that looks like I would have a goal for this money instead of letting it just sit there it's only going to make you know reopen the wounds so I would put it in a 529

1:10:41 plan for college I would put it toward in a savings account for a car fund one day because that day is going to come and these things cost money and this is it's part of the deal and you know it's a shared burden because that person was apparent and this is what the court ordered. And so I would it's hard to just say release the guilt, Sarah. You're doing great. But that's the truth of it. It's it's that hard and it's that simple to just go, "All right, it happened. That was the past and I'm going to make a better future for my kid now." And it sounds like you guys are thriving and this child is so lucky to have you two.

1:11:13 Yeah, we're um he's definitely blessed. My husband is literally a godsend and he took him on like his own. And like I said, nobody knows. Um, there's a couple people like family knows, but he doesn't know. And my husband stepped up in more ways than I could ever even pray for.

1:11:31 Well, and give yourself to so much credit, Sarah, because we we talked to so many people on this show and women specifically that are in in a situation and they just they don't feel like there's a way out. And um whether from its financial type abuse where you know a husband's withholding and not allowing

1:11:48 controlling Yes. to physical emotional I mean you know you can fill in the gaps and so

1:11:52 the spectrum is wide and to break that cycle is so so difficult and as Dr. John Deloney says who works um with you know so so many people in this area says that there's it's rare to have someone actually break it. So when you do it is a it is a

1:12:07 something to be celebrated. It's an applause. I mean it really is Sarah. So I mean I I just commend you for that. I know that was 12 years ago but that is that's incredible. Absolutely incredible. Yeah, George, when we, you know, think about part of the baby steps and what she said, I loved because yeah, it's baby step, you know, they're they're past baby step two. They're moving on for that fully funded emergency fund and so forth. And there there is something so freeing from the sense of yes, the dollars and cents are there, right? We're we're being wise with our actual tactical money. That's, you know, very important. But it's so much bigger than that. It is like the place where money sits in our lives, the value of which we give it. And when you are out of debt, you have that emergency fund. It's you don't have to be obsessed with it. You don't have to stress about it because you're setting yourself up so

1:12:51 well. And what that speaks to your kids and a household is everything. Like to me, that is that's part of family ch changing the family tree. It's not just from a from a monetary standpoint, but from an emotional standpoint that money doesn't have to be a stress point in our lives because we have control over it.

1:13:06 Yeah. And there's a lot of belief there. People think there's some sort of like financial DNA that you're born with because of the environment and place and parents, but we're proving it with Sarah that you can break chains. You might be the first one in your family to become debtree, to create a better life for your kid, for your kid to go to college debtree, for you to have a home that you own free and clear, for you to become a millionaire. And it's something you get to choose and it's a daily choice. And it's one of the hardest patterns to break because of all the shame and guilt from the past. And your belief system is so tied up. And you talk about this in know yourself, know your money. The different money classrooms you grew up in, it really shapes you and you have to really try to break all of the bad stuff to get to the good stuff.

1:13:45 Totally. Yeah. Yeah. And as parents, you know, whatever you can do, you know, we always say more is caught than taught, but from again that that standpoint of money, we're going to get in control of our money because yes, from a monetary standpoint, we need to know where our money's going. We want to be debtree. We want to start, you know, investing and letting the math work for us, like all of that. But more importantly realizing that money is a tool. It is a tool to create a life that you love. Like that that's what it is. It is not good. It is not bad. It doesn't have morals. And so how how can that lesson and where money is placed in your life and in your heart and your identity what your kids see that speaks louder than words. This is the Ramsay Show.

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1:16:06 sure way to give back. This show is all about and it's your show. So, give us a call at 888255225. Up next, we have Elise in Little Rock. Hey Elise, welcome to the show.

1:16:19 Hello. Um, we bought a property um, three years ago and the property owners committed fraud. They withheld the fact that the well runs dry about half of the year.

1:16:31 Oh gosh. Feels like a problem. It will cost 24,000 to drill a new well or 30,000 to bring in city water. My husband wants to spend our emergency fund on the well. Um, but I don't think it's an emergency because we've lived with it for three years. We spend about $80 a month on laundry. Um, and we're debtree besides the mortgage. My husband works full-time and makes $60,000 a year. The other option is we could buy an old well drilling rig for 4,800, but we don't know if there's any major issues with it. Um, and then we could buy a brand new well drilling rig for 20 um 2,000. We have 1,100 11 um,000 in our emergency fund, but once it's fully funded, it will be 18,000.

1:17:31 So, you don't have the money to cover this anyways, even with the emergency fund, if you did the the 24K or 30k option.

1:17:38 That's right. And nothing in the was there a lawsuit because of the fraud? Anything legally that they had to pay you guys because they didn't disclose it?

1:17:48 We are still in the process, but we um do not believe that we will probably win the case. We don't believe we will get um the money to cover it.

1:17:58 Why? Um because we believe that she is doesn't have the money to Okay. pay us back for it.

1:18:07 Okay. Um, okay. So, how long at least would it take you guys to save up the extra 13,000 to to make this a possibility for a $24,000 fix?

1:18:22 Um, we have saved about um 11,000 in the last um four or five months. Okay. So, it'll take us another six months probably.

1:18:33 Okay. To do that. And you don't want to do that. That's not cuz because you're good with how you guys are functioning now because I mean I guess if the well runs dry, do you guys have water? I mean like what how what is what does life look like on the

1:18:44 Is this little house on the prairie? How does this work? Um well I do laundry at the laundry mat. Um I can only do one load of dishes a day. Um and then

1:18:57 it kind of sounds miserable. Is it? It is. It's very miserable. Okay. Yeah. I would probably save up and get

1:19:02 categorize this as an emergency. Yeah. is kind of a necessity. You know, your four walls, food, shelter, utilities transportation.

1:19:08 It's pretty close. Well, I'm worried that if we um spend our emergency fund on this, another emergency will pop up and then we have no money.

1:19:21 Well, that I mean, that's always a risk. Most emergencies, for the most part, you're able to get by with a couple of thousand dollars. So, maybe you guys save 28,000, have 4,000 left over just for a little bit of cushion. and that'll be a few extra months, right? So maybe you you give yourself a deadline and say, "Okay, in eight months we're going to we're going to fix this well issue." Do it and and still have some some cash left over and then keep saving because sometimes when stuff comes up, I mean, just like this this is a great example, you know, yes, we would consider this emergency or people have, you know, a tire, you know, goes flat or well, you can fix that for more than less than less than $4,000. But yeah, but like a a roof or heating and air, things that are like really really really expensive, usually you can buy some time and be able to save monthto- month.

1:20:06 That's what I'm wondering. Is there a temporary fix? Let's say you bought the used rig. Do you guys know how to do this yourselves or will you still pay someone to actually do the work?

1:20:15 We could do it ourselves. Wow. If you feel capable, are you are you guys like do you know how to like is that something that's like, "Oh, yeah, that's a totally possibility." And your husband's like, "Yep, for sure." That just seems complicated.

1:20:26 Yeah. My Yes, we could for sure do it. And we have a friend that has actually built a well drilling system in the past.

1:20:32 Okay. I feel like you go this route. Yeah. Why wouldn't you do that route? Um it just makes me nervous to buy something that we're not positive would work.

1:20:43 And why why wouldn't it work? Just cuz it's a used old I mean it's a 1980 truck that has a old well drilling rig that hasn't worked. Can you can you test it somehow?

1:20:58 Um, yes. Or have someone inspect it? Are there other ones out there that you guys can rent for a month?

1:21:05 We cannot. I've looked everywhere. There's no well drilling rigs for rent. You'd have to buy either a new or you'd have to find a used one somewhere. And most of them aren't big enough because we are drilling through rock. And most of them, most of the ones that you would buy for 20,000 would drill through sand or gravel, not solid rock.

1:21:30 Okay. Not big. I feel like George and I are probably not the beyond our pay grade. Talk about drilling wells.

1:21:35 I know. But if I was in your shoes and I felt comfortable and capable, I would inspect it, make sure it's mechanically sound, and buy the used one because that's what you can afford right now. And later on, if that buys you time even to save up 24 grand to do officially and or get the city water, I would do that down the line. But for now, I'm I'm willing to drop five grand to see if we can fix this problem and remedy it even for a year.

1:22:00 And it's only 2,400, right? You said 4,800 for the used one. There's a there's a used one for 4,800 for 4,800.

1:22:07 Talk them down to four. negotiate them down and see if you can get this thing going

1:22:11 because there ain't I mean there's not a lot of buyers because apparently there's not a lot of ones out there.

1:22:16 And maybe you can sell it once you're done with it and make some money back out of it, right?

1:22:20 Yeah. We've also thought about using it around here locally because there's only one well drilling company.

1:22:26 You got a new business on your hands. Yeah, there you go. Yeah. Well, I hope that helps, Elise. So, yeah, maybe maybe do that if you feel capable. I don't know why I didn't have that as an option. It's impressive. Elise and her husband.

1:22:39 Well, my first thought was if I I would just go drill. I mean I mean I mean George with his with his

1:22:44 I'm sure there's a YouTube video out there with his tools. George could figure it out.

1:22:48 Honestly, I think your husband Winston could figure it out. How to drill him? Well,

1:22:51 I' I'd call Winston. Yeah, you two together. I just feel like it would work. That would be a TV show work. I know.

1:22:58 So great. Okay, up next we have Andy in Miami. Hey, Andy. Welcome to the show. Hi Rachel. Hi George. huge fan here.

1:23:07 Thanks. How can we help? So, I uh currently work for a bank and you guys may not like it, but I underwrite commercial real estate loans. Uh

1:23:18 we'll still be friends. We can still be friends, Andy. It's Thank you. Thank you. At least not personal loans or residential mortgages.

1:23:24 There you go. See? Um so, work from home setup, base salary is around 113 plus some other little perks. 20k bonus. They'll give me 2,000 towards my 401k just because every year and about a thousand towards my HSA. Fully remote. Love my bosses. They love me about four years in. Um and then I got a message from a recruiter on LinkedIn about a a trade finance type job. Sounded interesting, but very very far away. Uh geographically about an hour to 80 minutes each way per day. Miami, road rage, capital of the world. So I was like, all right, I'll tell this guy I'm open. He's gonna say 120. I'm gonna say thanks. Bye. He says 150 to 180 plus 20% bonus. Um, so my interest was peaked there and I'm just kind of weighing the pros and cons of uh,

1:24:22 where are you guys financially? Do you guys have do you guys have a lot of debt?

1:24:26 We are recently on baby step three. I just finished FPU at church co-leading it. uh two weeks ago

1:24:32 and you got a spouse off my have a spouse, two kids. This is a move. May not be done with the children.

1:24:40 Yeah. Um mother-in-law who's been a huge help is about 2 miles away. Oh man, that's

1:24:46 that's a big life. Yeah. I don't Unless you plan on moving, I wouldn't do the hour commute. It's not worth the money.

1:24:53 That's 2 hours in the car. I try to make more doing what you're doing now and stay put.

1:24:57 Have the peace. You've set your life up to have peace. I don't know if I would do it for the money. That would be tough. Thanks for the call, Andy. Thanks to you, America, for listening. Thanks to everyone in the booth. My co-host, George Camel. This is the Ramsay Show.

1:25:45 Welcome back to the Ramsey Show in the Fair Winds Credit Union studio. I'm George Camel joined by my f my friend Rachel Cruz this hour.8825-55225 is the number to call to join the conversation. Andy is down the road in Nashville. What's going on Andy?

1:26:01 Hey, not a whole lot. How are you guys doing today? Doing great. What's your question today?

1:26:06 Awesome. So, my question is I recently purchased a home and um I've accumulated quite a bit in debt which I know you guys practice against. Um, so to try and mitigate this debt, I'm thinking what I'll do is I've got a house on the property and a shop house on the property. What I'm really looking to do is to move into the shop house and rent out the bigger house, but um, seems like some of the people I've got that are close to me have have advised against this. And, um, you know, I'm just I wanted to ask the pros and they listen to the show. So, I'm excited to to hear what you guys have to say.

1:26:52 Okay. So, give us some some numbers, Andy. How much are you in debt? I bought the house for 250,000. Okay.

1:27:02 Put about 30,000 down. So, I've got about 220,000 roughly. Is that your only debt? Is just the house?

1:27:10 Yeah. So, actually I sold both vehicles that I had at the time and now I'm driving around in in beers. Um, so so yeah, that's my only debt.

1:27:21 Okay. It sounded like you had like racked up some consumer debt, but it's just the mortgage.

1:27:26 It's just my mortgage. Yes. Okay. And how much do you make a year? Roughly 130,000 a year.

1:27:33 Okay. And is the mortgage payment overwhelming to you or you're just wanting to do this just to get to get the house paid off as quickly as possible?

1:27:42 So, I make the house payment in in less than a week. But the the main motivator for why I'm doing what I'm doing or thinking of doing what I'm doing is because I'm a truck driver and I just don't make it home a lot. I'm only home about two days a week. So, I'm trying to

1:28:03 Okay. I I've Yeah, I I've comped some similar properties in the area that are being rented and, you know, I could I could basically come out even if I rented that and stayed in the shop house. I could have my bills paid for for free basically.

1:28:19 How much How much is your payment a month? It's around 1,500 a month. Okay. Do Are you married?

1:28:28 Uh I'm not. Uh we're we're getting there. Okay. Does she want to live in the house once you get there?

1:28:36 She uh so we live in the house currently and she doesn't want to move out into the shop house. Even though I think it's nice enough for us, I don't think that it's up to her standards necessarily.

1:28:48 Yeah. I mean, you're not making it sound super enticing. I'll say that. You say shophouse, it doesn't sound like a place where a person should live. So,

1:28:57 well, it it's like an apartment. If you could imagine a little studio apartment, it's something of the nature of that, but it's it's beyond livable. It it's nice in my opinion. It's just

1:29:09 Well, and she's the girlfriend. She's living there for free, I'm assuming. Yes, ma'am.

1:29:14 Okay. So, I wouldn't want to live in the shop house. So, if my if I was living with my boyfriend and he's like, "You got to go to the shop house because I'm written this out." I'd probably be like, "Great. I'm gonna go rent an apartment." and right like she she needs to

1:29:29 do what she needs to do. Um so I don't I don't want to make the decision based on the girlfriend. If it was your wife, I'd be like

1:29:37 Andy Andy Andy Andy, but it's a girlfriend. Like she doesn't have any skin in the game.

1:29:42 It just feels like this is not worth the juice isn't worth the squeeze on this. You don't need to do it. Nothing's on fire. You have a great income and a very reasonable mortgage. Why not just continue on? Well the

1:29:54 what's the actual financial problem? Well, as far as the as far as the financial problem goes, it's just the fact that I've signed a 30-year note on this house, and I'm thinking of all the interest that I'm going to pay.

1:30:08 So, pay it off. And I could be well, I thought about doubling up the payments when I live in the shop house and then we could see each other more as well because I'm only home two days a week right now and you know so

1:30:20 could you double the payments now while still living in the main house? I probably could.

1:30:27 Yeah. The only downside I would think is that if are you wanting this house long term, Andy? Like do you see like it'll probably be with you for a while? I just I always it feels a little weird to have people living in a house for two, you know, two or three different families or people um and then you go back and move back into it. Does that make sense? Like I don't know. It's um

1:30:49 so it just doesn't feel like any of this was intentional. It's just sort of like well I could do this and your family steering you against it. Why? What is their big qual with this move? They're steering me against it because they know that I can afford it as is and no one in my family has ever rented out a property before. But the way I look at it from a financial standpoint is if I live in the shop house, double or triple up on payments, I can have a I can turn a 30-year mortgage into a, you know, a three or four or five year mortgage.

1:31:24 Sure. And and then I can be off the road at that point as well. Yeah, for me it's making sense from a lot of different angles.

1:31:31 Yeah, I'm not mad at it. I mean, I don't think it's necess I don't think it like what George said, I don't think this is an urgent move that I if you had called and I would have been like, "Oh, you have a shop house? Great. You should live in that to rent out your main house." That would not have been my advice to you anyways.

1:31:46 But if you want to do it, that's I mean, that's up to you. and you'll make extra payments and but you're just going to have people living in there and then the something's going to leak and break and they're going to be calling you on the road. You're going to have to, you know, figure out, okay, I got to get a plumber down. I mean, there's legit,

1:32:02 it's not hasslefree. It's not just easy money, right? And I think a lot of people think having a rental, there's like it's passive income is what everyone says. And it's it's there's a level of responsibility you have that you have to be on call. You have to be willing to to work with these people, whoever's going to live in there. Um, but but one thing I do like, Andy, is that you're not desperate because then you can actually probably go through an actual

1:32:26 you'll take worse tenants, make worse interview process and get some good tenants and you know what I mean? Like you're not in a rush.

1:32:33 So, I would never suggest you do it. I don't think you need to, but if you want to, then do it. And then

1:32:38 I don't think it's going to break you, but I don't think it's going to be the sweet, sweet free money that you're envisioning either.

1:32:45 Okay. So, do you have savings in the bank? You have an emergency fund? Yep. Yes, sir. I do.

1:32:51 How much? I've got roughly 35,000. Good. You've done really well. Yeah, Andy. Well done.

1:33:00 I'm proud of you, man. Seriously. Thank you. I I just think I would set a goal for myself where I still get to live in my own house and then I make extra payments. And so, figure out a way to do that and I think you'll cut your mortgage in half or more just on your own valition without ever becoming a landlord. Okay,

1:33:17 that would be my goal of giving me a That's great. And once you're married, if she's working, she'll add to it, too. She'll help knock down that mortgage if you guys are both working.

1:33:26 I don't know how she's going to like that idea of her working in the future. Is she working now?

1:33:32 You know, she is she is a gym coach for little girls and they actually went to the Junior Olympics this year. So,

1:33:41 that's sweet. Really nice. So, I love for her to follow her dream. Do you think I could make the team?

1:33:48 Well, you could try. I think she'd be happy to work with you. She likes anybody. She's good with people.

1:33:53 That's sweet. She sounds like a keeper, man. Best of luck to you with this uh decision. It's not an easy one. I I wouldn't take it lightly, but I think you have a good game plan here of just figuring out how to do this without becoming a landlord for now. Good luck.

1:34:37 ah ah ah Welcome back to the Ramsey Show. I'm George Camel joined by Rachel Cruz. Open phones at88255225. Well Rachel, we got a lot of questions about investing. The social media world, young people, all they want to hear is about how to build wealth and it can be overwhelming. It's great,

1:35:02 great conversation to have, but there's so much noise out there. It can be overwhelming. you can get sort of paralyzed the paralysis analysis. That's right. And a lot of people end up doing nothing because they're scared of doing something but doing it incorrectly. And so I want to set them free today with with some teaching on this on kind of the primer for building wealth. Um and research has shown that a lack of confidence in making these decisions, it's a primary reason why people don't invest. So they we just need to bring them some literacy and some hope that it's way easier than they think. So here's what we're going to call it. Keep it simple stupid. You ever heard of that? The KISS method. Yes, that's what they call it back in my day.

1:35:36 So, investing is a long game. You're not trying to time the market and buy single stocks. You don't need to be a prodigy and every time's a everyone is a first-time investor the first time they invest.

1:35:45 That's right. So, it's okay. But before there is a prerequisite, if you know the Ramsey plan, you've got to be in the right spot in the Ramsey baby steps. So, we've got baby step one, start our emergency fund. Baby step two, paying off all the consumer debt. Baby step three, fully funded emergency fund. Then comes baby step four,

1:36:03 investing. Yep. Make sure you knock those first three out. Otherwise, it's going to be much harder to invest. You're going to add a lot of risk and stress into your life. But

1:36:11 even well, and even those who are investing now and still have consumer debt, when you're paying off debt, we would even say to pause

1:36:18 investing, too. So truly, those first three steps are just like one at a time. You're doing nothing else but those. But then you get to babys and you get to start you get to start investing.

1:36:28 You start building for the future instead of paying for the past. So, this is where it gets exciting.

1:36:32 Yeah. So, the first thing to really think through is what are your goals? What are you wanting to invest for? Are you investing for retirement knowing I'm not going to see this till I'm 60 years old and I'm putting money away because I'm going to, you know, I want to retire at 60 and be able to cash everything out and be great or not cash everything out, but, you know, live off those investments. Um, is it that you want to maybe open up an index fund or a mutual fund and put some money in month-to-month because you're looking out in the future and you're like, "Yeah, we'll probably be putting a down payment on a house maybe in four to five years. I don't know, but I want to be able to get to that money without penalty." Um, so, you know, I'm I'm doing that. Is it kids college? Are you investing for kids college in a 529? So again, mapping out why you're investing and kind of what those goals are will

1:37:15 help um really take a really broad subject and narrow it down for you to know what lane you're wanting to invest in.

1:37:23 And that why will keep you focused and eye on the prize instead of sort of getting a little stareyed or pulling your money out when you go, oh no, this is for this purpose.

1:37:31 Yeah. Because just so yall know, we define investing as 5 years or later, right? Or longer. That's that's investing for us. savings is more shortterm. You're saving for something in the next month, two, three, four years. But when you're talking five years or more, that's where you're like, "Okay, we can start thinking about this investing."

1:37:49 That's because there's less risk for you to lose money in the short term versus long term. We know you're going to make it if you do it the right way. So, the next step once you've decided on your investing goals, you got to figure out how much you're going to invest. and your goals will determine this, but we recommend a baby step four putting away 15% of your gross household income into tax advantaged retirement accounts. So, simply put, this would be, I've got a Roth 401k at work. I'm going to put 15% of my income. My spouse will put 15% of their income together. That's 15% of household income. Yes. That's a question we get a lot. Wait, do I do 7 and a half and she does? Oh, yeah.

1:38:26 Nope. because 15% of yours and 15% of hers becomes 15% of ours of the total. So that makes it real simple. I love that 15%. Don't overthink it. You don't need to do more at this point. You don't need to do any less. Keep it there and don't stop.

1:38:41 Yes. Um and then also understand your investing vehicles. So you were just saying that George. So when you're thinking about retirement, you guys uh do some research and figure out, okay, at my workplace, do they offer a 401k or a 403b? Those are great entire um investing vehicles to be in. Um or is there even a Roth option within it? Because Roth means that you it's after tax dollars and the growth is tax-free when you take it out, which is huge. So, if you ever see Roth, jump on that train. That's a good one. Um or maybe, you know, you're doing a um a Roth IRA, you know, which is another great place to put your money. Um a really simple investment honestly

1:39:20 and anyone can do that with earned income. So, that's a good clarifying point. You're like, "My employer doesn't have an IRA." That's outside of your employer. So 401k, 403b, those are employer retirement plans. The IRA anyone can do if they have earnings.

1:39:33 It's up to seven, I think, $7,000 this year in 2024 that you can put in. So they limit it. Um, but again, that's another one. And so you guys, you can sit down with somebody, a Smart Investor Pro or someone to open up, you know, especially like something like a Roth um or mutual funds or other things. But, you know, you can also go to Vanguard and say, "Okay, you know, looking into options." I mean, like there's there's ways to do this, but just know when you when you open up an account, which again, if you sit down with a professional, which we recommend, they're going to help you with this. You actually have to invest the money because that's a mistake people make.

1:40:03 They open up these accounts and they may put money in the account, but then they they don't go and take that and actually invest.

1:40:10 You need to buy funds with it. That's right. There's an extra step there. So, just remember that

1:40:14 it's just like a shell. You've bought you've p you have a shell, but now you need to put some stuff in there to allow it to grow. So that's where it comes into choosing different types of investments. We've all heard of stocks and bonds. Our favorite of these is mutual funds or even index funds. The word fund is the key here. A fund is going to hold a giant basket of those stocks which helps you diversify and it doesn't put all of your eggs in one basket.

1:40:37 And we may be beaten a dead horse as they would say, George. But but again, we're getting very simple here with this just so but we want you guys to know this. Yeah, George does. He loves horses. Don't ever sell the horse.

1:40:47 Alive or dead. I wouldn't touch one. Oh my gosh. Uh is is within these accounts, your 401k at work, a Roth IRA, you're investing in mutual funds within that account. So, just to be clear on that.

1:41:00 Yes. And so, the next step would be picking an investment strategy. And we've mentioned that good growth stock mutual funds, that's the way to go to invest for the long term, consistent growth. You're spreading that out among a lot of different companies. And even then, we recommend four different types of funds. And so, we'll tell you more about that. I'll give you a great resource to check out. But the key here is diversification. That is why we do this.

1:41:22 That's right. Um and then next that'll be opening the account. Kind of what we were saying earlier. So you're going to go and uh you talk to your employer at work. U you know, and then you're going to do remember this formula. Roth. No, wait. Match. Hold on. Oh, no. I just messed it up. I messed it up. George Roth.

1:41:40 Nope. Match. Start with Thank you. My gosh. Match beats Roth beats traditional.

1:41:45 We got there. Oh lord, have fun. Five words on my soul. Match beats Roth beats traditional. So remember that formula because that's going to help guide you to say, okay, what should I do first? So again, go up to your match in your 401k

1:41:59 if there is one. If there is one and so say it's 4%, well, you have 15% you got to invest in. So you're going to put that. So that means you have 9% of your income left to invest. That's when you're going to go over to a Roth IRA fund up to that age. If you max that out and

1:42:13 Yes. Good lord. It's okay. I the cookie is messing with her. It's I mean I get an Americano, I get a chocolate chip cookie and I go downhill. Um that's right. 11% left. Go back go to your Roth and if you max it out and you have more percentages left, go back to your 401k. But the beautiful thing would be a Roth 401k.

1:42:32 Love that's what we have at Ramsey. And so for a long time that's what I was doing is just 401k all 15%. We've got good mutual fund options. That's the key. If you hey what should I do? All 15% of the 401k. Yeah. Yeah, if you've got good options and low fees and it's a Roth, go for it.

1:42:47 So that it's simple. Match beats Roth beats traditional. And again, this is regardless of the employer match, you were doing 15%. You don't do less because your employer has a match or they give you free money. Even if they give you free 4%, you still do 15%.

1:43:00 Yeah, that's right. So the next step, the final step here is working with a pro to start investing, to keep learning. Rachel and I both have a a smart investor pro in our corner, as we call them. And the key here is you want someone in your corner who can educate you, who has the heart of a teacher, who can maybe help you avoid jumping off the ledge when the market's crazy, uh help you understand the trends that are happening, and give you a full plan, not just with choosing a fund, but what about estate planning and tax strategy and kids college and making sure you have a holistic plan.

1:43:29 Yeah. Because in our world today, I mean, there's some stuff, I mean, Vanguard's a great example, that you can do on your own, right? I mean, very much so. But even if you do that, you guys, having somebody in your corner, and this is what once and I do, we meet every January with ours to look at everything. They're looking at your entire financial life. And so, I think that's so so important that you're not doing this on your own because if you're making big decisions to have somebody that's Yeah. from the tax standpoint, I mean, all of it just they're seeing your entire financial picture, I think, is really really important.

1:43:56 Get that third party in there. So, if you want to learn more, we've got a great article that we'll that we'll put in the show notes in the description that explains it all. It's called How to Start Investing and it's on the Ramsey Solutions site. So, go to the show notes, click the link in the description, and it's all free. We just want to help you guys build wealth with peace and confidence.

1:44:13 I'm going to go drink more coffee. George, she needs it. This is the Ramsay Show. Welcome back to the Ramsay Show. I'm George Camel joined by Rachel Cruz. And in the Ramsay Solutions lobby on the debtfree stage, we've got some new friends, Nicholas and Devany. Welcome guys.

1:44:58 Hi. Hi. Thank you for having us. Absolutely. Where are you guys from? So, we're from uh Kira, Alabama, which is about 30 miles south of Birmingham.

1:45:06 Wonderful. And all the way here, your debtree scream. How much did you guys pay off?

1:45:11 We paid off $232,200. Wow. And how long did that take? Four years. Nice. Wonderful. And what was the range of income during that time?

1:45:20 Uh we started at 82,000 and then up to 163,000. Whoa. That's incredible. What was the big jump? Well, um, our our buddy Ken Coleman would be proud. I took full advantage of the great resignation during co. Ah,

1:45:35 nice. So, um, we didn't have that big of a shovel or not as big as we would like. And so, I just went job searching and it in less than a week, uh, I found a job and it doubled my salary. Wow.

1:45:48 Oh my gosh. So, are you a one-inccome family? Um, sort of. Sort of. when when we paid off the house, and she can go deeper into in a minute, but when we paid off the house, uh she wasn't the happiest at her job, and and I said, "You know what? I'm paying off we're paying off the house today. You can put in your two weeks." That's okay. So, the 238 was the house.

1:46:10 Mhm. Well, it was credit cards, car loans, student loans, and then the house. Everything. And the house. Congratulations, you guys. That's incredible.

1:46:21 That's incredible. So, four years ago, you guys had some credit cards. You had the mortgage, you were living normal. What happened to get you on this Ramsay journey?

1:46:28 Well, if you uh if you look back at it, that's right when CO first hit. And um you know, we had friends, family, you know, we just kind of saw people, you know, struggling. And then, you know, you turn on the TV, you see people losing their jobs, losing their livelihoods, and uh we thought we were safe, but we just kind of said, "What if?" you know, and then we dug deeper into our finances and we were like, "Wow, we're in a mess." Um, and so we started chipping away at the credit cards. Um, we did side hustles.

1:46:59 Uh, she was making she started making like hair bows for little girls, selling those. Um, I did Door Dash for a while. Um, and we started selling stuff just around the house. And and Rachel, you'll relate to this. Any old kids toys that we could find that were in one piece. Yeah. Yeah, we we we put on Facebook Marketplace.

1:47:20 Good for y'all. So, we just we just made it happen and did whatever we could uh to get out.

1:47:26 Wow. So, there was sort of a pandemic panic and you guys went we're could be like just like those guys 3 seconds from now. Let's get our affairs in order here.

1:47:34 Yeah. And I prior to co I was working from home anyway. So, like I was safe, but I always think the worst thing is going to happen. So, I'm like what if I lose my job? What if we both lose our jobs?

1:47:46 Sure. Sure. And so we're like, we need to we need to get out. Isn't it amazing how you can carry that risk of debt for so long? And until something really shakes it like a pandemic or something, do you realize, oh my gosh, it is risk like these car loans, like all this debt that we're carrying,

1:48:00 it is a level of risk that so many people are used to, but the moment you start saying, wow, this really is a part of our lives that we want out, it's it's incredible.

1:48:08 Absolutely. And she's, you know, I'm the saver, so it wasn't hard for me to get on board. and she's the spender and so you know she's the one where it's like every day an Amazon boxes totally the Amazon van lives at our house.

1:48:23 Debie, how was this for you this four years? Was it was it hard? Was it once you got on board and you guys were working together? You're seeing the progress. It was good, but like how did it how did it feel overall?

1:48:33 Yeah, I mean it was definitely a little different at first. Um especially cuz right around that time our daughter was born and I had my first daughter and of course I wanted her to have all the cute girl things and all stuff like that. So um it was definitely hard at first and um then I stopped. I was like okay like she doesn't need this and then I started like Nick said I started making bows and stuff for girls hairs and she did not like them at all. She wouldn't keep one on her head. So I was like okay this there's no point to buy this stuff. So um I definitely got there. It took a little bit, but once I started, then I was like, "Oh, like

1:49:09 this is great." Oh my gosh. Did you guys know about Ramsay and the baby steps at this point? How'd you find out about this?

1:49:16 So, um, I just, uh, when the pandemic first hit, you know, I pretty much just Googled, you know, getting out of debt and and how to, you know, how to clean up this stuff. And um and then I bought the Total Money Makeover uh Reddit in one weekend, I think. And then we just kind it kind of just snowballed from there,

1:49:35 literally. That's amazing. That's incredible. Yeah. So great. Okay. So, what would you say to a young family that's listening and they have the car loans and the credit cards and they're just normal living life, but they're feeling like, "Oh my gosh, we want to change." What would you say the key of getting out of debt is?

1:49:52 Yeah. I I mean, I think for us, I mean, you look at us, we're in our 30s, and we did this. You know, we we hear people all the time, younger people, it's harder to live these days. You can't buy a house. You can't do this. But they're also hundreds of thousands of dollars in debt. And it's like, well, control what you can control. And so, I mean, I mean, Rachel, you know, you were born the year your parents filed for bankruptcy. George, you went from negative net worth to a millionaire in 10 years.

1:50:18 You look at us, we both grew up in less than ideal situations. Her parents got divorced when she was young. My parents got divorced when I was young. My dad passed away when I was 8 years old and he didn't have any life insurance.

1:50:31 And so I was raised by a single mother, no help, just trying to figure it out. So if we can do it, anybody can do it.

1:50:39 So good. That's inspiring. And it's just the belief you can. Yeah. Absolutely. And that's it is to believe that you can. That's incredible.

1:50:46 In your early 30s on your way in baby step seven, what's the house worth? So, uh, well, we bought, um, in January 2018, right before the housing market just went bonkers.

1:50:57 Good time to buy. And so, yeah. So, I mean, we we paid less than 200,000 for our house, about 190. And there's homes in our neighborhood selling for over 300 now.

1:51:08 Wonderful. That's incredible. And so, you got that paid off, and you've been investing in retirement.

1:51:14 Yeah. Yep. Yep. So, now we're we're um uh we're doing 15%. We're still trying to save up for the kids' college and and all that. And we're also cash flowing um an international adoption right now, too. So, this is not our complete family.

1:51:28 That's great. We were Yeah, we were hoping the adoption would be finalized when we came here, but um it just kind of, you know, worked out this way. But, uh um but yeah, so we're doing that, saving up for the kids college investing. And, you know, we were at a negative net worth, a significant negative net worth four years ago, and now we're on the path to be multi-millionaires.

1:51:48 Unbelievable. Unbelievable. And when you have the margin to do things like you guys get to just cash flow this adoption with joy in your face instead of stress because you've also got payments. So, I love what when you turn money from an obstacle into a tool, it's amazing how your life changes. And I'm so proud of you guys for being a living, breathing picture of that.

1:52:06 Yeah, absolutely. And I told her, you know, she stuck with me these past four years, you know, and I know it wasn't the easiest thing. So, when we paid off the house, I said, you know, you just pick anywhere on the map and we'll go there for a trip.

1:52:20 So, where you going to go? We don't even know yet. We We don't I'll bring a map out.

1:52:25 Rachel's going to throw a dart. Yeah, we we've talked about, you know, Europe and, you know, going or going on a cruise or whatever. We we don't know. We're Yeah, we'll probably go on a couple trips. One with the kids and one with just us two. So,

1:52:39 I love it. I know. And you have the kids with you upgrades. Look how cute. Well, I hope they've been practicing for the deadree screen. colorcoded with the lavender outfits.

1:52:56 They look fantastic. For those of you that can't see them, get a family photo after this time.

1:53:01 That is wonderful. Here we go, guys. We've got Nicholas and Devony and Brantley and Camry. $232,000 paid off in four years. House and everything, making 82 up to 163. Count it down. Let's hear a debt-free scream.

1:53:17 All right, Camber, you ready? You ready to lead us off? All right, go ahead in the mic. THREE, TWO, ONE.

1:53:24 WE'RE DEBT FREE. That might win the award for cutest debt free scream I've ever seen.

1:53:33 Oh my gosh, I just teared up. I like felt I was like, "Oh my gosh, what a performance." And we've got a special gift for you guys. Two Every Dollar Premium gift cards for a one-year subscription. You can use one, you can renew with that, you can give it away to a friend to get them started on the journey. and George and just hearing their stories of even the change that they've made from their childhood to now what these kids are going to experience. It's absolutely incredible beyond the finances.

1:53:56 Early 30s, no mortgage incredible in 4 years. Well done, you guys. Well done. It's possible for you, America. Are you willing to make those kinds of sacrifices for 4 years? I can do just about anything for that amount of time. And I know you can, too. It is worth it. Look at that couple. Look at that journey. This is the Ramsay Show.

1:54:48 Our scripture of the day, Psalms 37:21. The wicked borrows but does not pay back, but the righteous is generous and gives. Benjamin Franklin said, "Creditors have better memories than debtors."

1:55:03 Oh, huh. Some old school financial wisdom. Yeah, Ben Franklin. He was doing well for himself. Benjamin Franklin,

1:55:10 you know, the teeth, the leg. I don't know what else he had. I don't know what else he had going on, but he could afford it.

1:55:15 The what? I don't Did he have wooden teeth or something? That was George Washington.

1:55:19 Oh, dang. George Washington, guys. I'm not a historian. Listen, I'm not a geographer.

1:55:23 I heard I hate to I hate to call you out George. What'd you hear? So, don't kill me, but that you didn't know who Margaret Thatcher was.

1:55:31 Oh, yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Ken told me that and I thought, "Oh, no. George the Iron Lady." I didn't know this was stuff I'm Well, then Ken called me out for not knowing what a chain gang is in football. I was like, why would I?

1:55:41 I don't know what that is. Thank you. And you know football, sort of. I'm like, guys, I was busy I don't know, having a life.

1:55:47 Is that a chain? Is that a thing that is? It's the people who move the giant markers.

1:55:51 Oh, but they call him the chain gang. They had to have a cool name because it's not a very cool job. I don't know, guys. This is why I stick to money questions. I embarrass myself when I talk about historians and politicians and sports. I stay away from it all. I'll leave that to Ken Coleman.

1:56:06 Well, the the latest fact history-wise, then we'll get to the phones. But Picasso,

1:56:10 yes, found out he died in 1972. Died in 1973. And Rachel was like, I thought he was with Leonardo da Vinci. I thought he's part of the Renaissance. Had no idea.

1:56:21 Wow. He just died in the 70s. Picasso. I was like, what? I thought all those guys were

1:56:28 back with Listen, I got chap. I don't know. I don't know. I'll just Google it if I need to know it. But until then, it doesn't sit in my brain. Sorry.

1:56:36 In the 70s, Picasso. I mean, crazy. Anyways, that's my fact that just blew my mind. All right.

1:56:43 Timeless. Timeless. All right. Let's get to the phones. We're We're better served there, Rachel, than talking about anything

1:56:49 about 401ks. Let's see if we can help Timothy in Los Angeles. What's going on, Timothy?

1:56:55 Hey, guys. Can you hear me? Yes. Loud and clear. Okay, awesome. Well, uh, I try to describe my situation. So, um, I got out of college in 2021 and, uh, just got married and I had my associates, went to work for the past two years, and I'm currently making $20 an hour. It comes out to about uh, like 37 grand a year after taxes and everything. Uh, we had a we have one a one-year-old daughter and um we didn't really have any debt, but then my wife's car broke down and we decided to buy her a car last year. It's like $20,000 cash value. Um, and then uh that car broke down and our warranty covered us to get a brand new engine on it. So, uh, we had that and then I decided to start a business last July and, um, I'm generating through that business after, um, after like in in profit, I'm bringing in about half of my income, um, from that I make at my day job. Now, we did have about eight grand in debt

1:58:10 because of that, starting the whole business and everything. And then uh we just used our taxes to pay that back like substantially. So now we only have about two grand in debt

1:58:22 total. Um yeah. Well well besides the car. The car is like we still have like $20,000 in the car. So uh

1:58:32 and yeah is your you have the only um income in the family right now. Yes. I my wife's a stay-at-home mom and the final thing was I was planning on going back to college this fall and I I get financial aid so it'll probably be just as much as I'm making on my day job but the only thing is we just got news and we're expecting twins.

1:58:55 Whoa. Congratulations. Thank you. Wow. So going on here the thing. Yeah, this is the thing. We live in a small studio in the back house of her mo mother's house. So, it's already me, her, and our one-year-old daughter. Now, we're expecting twins. And previously, we were pre-qualified to get a house. We actually live in Bakersfield. We were pre-qualified to get a house for about 150,000, but now, you know, we with the car, we we would don't even know we don't even know what we're going to do. Do you have any money in savings?

1:59:36 We have we have nothing. We just started budgeting. I just started getting plugged in with the the Ramsay show about two weeks ago. Two weeks ago.

1:59:44 Well, there there's an order for you to become a homeowner and it's when you're debtree with a fully funded emergency fund of 3 to six months of expenses and you have a solid down payment. But until then, I'm not going to get

1:59:54 prequalify or are you free? Her her family's Yeah, her Yeah, we're living there for free. So,

2:00:01 okay. Yeah. The the big question is, can you afford to continue living in California off a $40,000 salary?

2:00:09 Well, um I mean I'm not sure. Um like I said, I live in Bakersfield, so I mean it's a little bit lower living expenses in LA. Um

2:00:20 but what would it cost you to go rent somewhere that could fit your family right now with the twins? Well, a small small would be like 800 800 bucks a month and then a little bit bigger would be somewhere along to,300 bucks a month.

2:00:36 This business you started, so you're you made 14,000 last year because you made half of what you make normally.

2:00:42 Yes. So, well, actually, I just started last July. So, now I'm averaging about four 400 bucks in sales a week and takehome is 300 bucks a week. Okay.

2:00:54 After Yeah. After input and all that stuff. Okay. It's about 15 grand in takehome from this business.

2:01:01 Yeah. Do you see it scaling substantially? It is. Okay. It's it's scaling really fast. I mean, and

2:01:07 so the reality, Timothy, I think is you're going to have two jobs. You're going to have this job that you're that you're growing, which is awesome. And hopefully it just skyrockets. I mean, that that would be the hope

2:01:16 and your day job. And you you're going to be working both of those, I think, for for a period of time until the cars paid off. and this $2,000 loan until you guys get a good emergency fund. Well, no. You know what? There's twins in the picture, so we're we're pausing everything. So, honestly, I would just stockpile cash at this point until the babies are here.

2:01:34 Um, and it's probably a high is it twins high risk? I mean, like there, you know,

2:01:38 can be. So, I just I would be Yeah. So, all that to say, I would just be saving

2:01:45 a crap ton and I would just be putting so much away, honestly. I mean, like that's that's going to be your best bet right now. now. And then once the twins are here and everyone's good, then I would look at paying off this $2,000 business loan, paying off the car.

2:01:59 I mean, the car is a lot of your world. Yeah. What's the car worth? Well, see, it was $20,000 cash value, right? Well, the engine the engine busted and they put a brand new right off the right off the assembly line, a revised version of the the engine and it was about $17,000 engine. But I went to see if we can Yeah, but I went to go see the if I I mean I did an online like little quote and it only came out to like 10 grand or something. So I don't know if I did it wrong or maybe I we should actually go into a dealer, but to see what the price should be, but I mean I mean after all that I just I just we my wife and I we're willing to do what it takes to sell a car, but we're like

2:02:45 is it a is a quality reliable car for the family and it fits all the kids? Yeah, it's it's a nice car. It's a Jeep Grand Cherokee um Eco Diesel and it's it's it's a really nice car. So,

2:02:57 okay. Well, for now, all the kids, I would work to just pay that off in the debt snowball once the twins are here, get the emergency fund in place, then you can think about going back to school

2:03:06 and making sure you can cash flow that, but I don't think now is the time. No. No. Do you think that if I were able to grow the business large because because it's I grow, sell, and deliver micro greens. So, I'm only spending about about 12 hours a week doing

2:03:24 You're saying if I did this full-time, it could replace my income. Yes. That kind of thing.

2:03:29 Yes. Right now with your situation, it feels risky. You can get the boat close to the dock later on and you're like, "Oh my goodness, I could totally see how if I did this full-time, I could make more than I'm making in my cuz right now you're making your full-time salary plus the side money." If you jump to the side stuff, you're just going to replace your original income.

2:03:47 Yeah. Yeah, that's true. You're still better off right now financially with your situation. And I would work to go rent a place. Really, your goal is can I make 6,200 bucks take home to afford the $1,300 a month in rent? And I would make the jump to go rent at that place. Okay.

2:04:05 Hope that helps, Timothy. You got a the road ahead of you, man. The twins alone on top of the one-year-old. It's about to be a party.

2:04:12 So, wishing you guys the best in that. Also, what a what a sweet blessing. That's exciting.

2:04:17 That puts this hour of the Ramsay Show in the books. I'm George Camel, joined by Rachel Cruz this hour. Thank you to all of the folks in the booth keeping the show going this hour and you, America will be back before you know it.

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The discussion emphasizes how early financial decisions influence long-term financial well-being, urging individuals to implement effective money management strategies to alleviate financial stress. Key points include the importance of living within one's means, the dangers of credit card debt, and the benefits of developing a solid financial plan, regardless of past financial mistakes.

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