Steve Harvey Show interview with Heather Monahan

What this episode is about

The discussion centers on a recent study revealing that a third of people cheat, primarily as an act of revenge, with women accounting for the majority of these cases. The participants debate the motivations behind "revenge cheating," emphasizing emotional responses to betrayal and differing perspectives on the significance and implications of infidelity.

Who speaks in this episode?

• Heather Monahan (Host) · 7 min speaking
• Kandi Burruss (Guest) · 3 min speaking
• Carrie Check (Guest) · 1 min speaking

What is discussed, and when

1. 0:00 – 3:00: Kandi Burruss
2. 6:00 – 9:00: Carry Check, Kandi Burruss

Notable quotes from "Steve Harvey Show interview with Heather Monahan"

• He already cheated on me he's not gonna be like did you see only oh that is why they say women always cheat better than men because you don't get caught tell you something God…

  about Kandi Burruss · at 5:08

• Your chair hi everybody we're back with our Straight Talk panelists kandi Burruss Heather Monaghan and carry check all right let's jump right to the next topic I talked a lot about the.

  about Carry Check · at 7:03

Who and what is mentioned in this episode?

People

• Kandi Burruss — Person · Straight Talk panelist (guest) · 2 mentions · first at 0:03
  Named as one of the returning panelists; contributes opinions on revenge cheating, honesty after infidelity, and online-dating dynamics.
• Carry Check — Person · Straight Talk panelist (guest) · 2 mentions · first at 7:11
  Introduced as a panelist; participates in the discussion on online dating, chivalry, and dating 'rules' to retire.

Full transcript with timestamps

0:00 today on Steve and a third of people cheat the majority were women and when a housewife kandi Burruss women always cheat better than men because don't get caught okay hi to everybody welcome back things about to get a little real because I got a group of dating but you can watch on NBC's the let's jump into the first topic a recent study found that a third of people cheat as a form of revenge the majority of those doing the revenge cheating were women thank you lord finally a cheating where y'all out front started exactly a revenge cheating and I don't have a problem with it because in the moment you upset and you're angry and so you react people aren't always mature so that can happen I'm not saying revenge cheating is right I'm not saying it solves the problem because it doesn't no one wins at the end of the day nine times out of ten women are marked mostly nurturers we like to be there we like to

2:07 help you we like to build you and we're doing all this work and you cheatin how is that possible okay mostly Simon women cheat it is a revenge cheat I mean normally we only cheat if we're unhappy or we feel like you did us wrong because like guys you may see a girl walk by with a big booty and be like yeah when I hit their aesthetics we do not see guys just walking down the street say yeah I'm gonna give him some not the same so like typically that's just not we already see I need to jump in here because I see this so different you do you don't want to head into anything when you're hot on a motion and you're reeling you just got your heart broken right you're very upset you're allowing someone else to dictate your decisions when you're reacting to what they did to you I wouldn't want to give the most intimate thing that I could do is another human being to someone based off of reacting to something someone

3:02 else did you're mature but when women are going through something like that they're emotional yeah great I've been through it hello let us everyone needs to know I've been cheated on I think a lot of moles ever cheated I have and why did you cheat oh my where is this question going but I really think the way that you can come out on top is if you take care of yourself you attract that right guy and you allow him to treat you like a queen and then one day you're out somewhere maybe it's a wedding maybe this happened to me and all of a sudden that cheater comes passing by and you just smile but they always come back it's never always they always come back it's not a matter of them not coming back okay let me ask you this question your man cheated on you you cheated on your man somehow he asked for forgiveness and you decide to forgive it sure he's bringing it back do you tell him that you had a moment of infidelity

4:04 absolutely right we can work you through it a lot of times you know women seem to work through it when a guy confides in her but if a woman admits to a man that she cheated he just feels like the world is ending wrong we're getting still women consistently constantly daily years over years day after day get over either man cheating and we forgive y'all and we take you back because we're bill sex is different for the two of us okay that's why I was trying to tell you earlier a lot of times women end up cheating with someone that is close to them that they've been around and they feel comfortable with and sometimes it ends up being someone that the guy knows to own up to it because you're gonna carry or you're gonna carry around that shame

5:06 because he's not gonna ask the question he already cheated on me he's not gonna be like did you see only oh that is why they say women always cheat better than men because you don't get caught tell you something God doesn't know I highly recommend that you don't share that inference exactly I just highly recommend what is the point like guys always find a way to make it seem like it's it's we're so yeah it's work it's it's like listen I'm not buying into that and you should not she I'm not promoting promoting revenge cheating I understand it is what I'm saying I can understand it and I can relate to it at the end of the day nobody wins but I don't think you should be like hey that's what I cheated men can't get over that what is the point of telling them that there's no point there's no if you don't care and you want to be back with that person you forgive that person move on I couldn't live with it I'd always be

6:12 afraid I was gonna get caught I wish I would see somebody who would try to tell them you while my way of looking at it well I get I get why she's like that I understand I'd be scared I'd get caught and now I want to get caught up cheating and lying to me I couldn't handle it well this is a girl listen we're gonna take a break that one question was good enough that's gonna be the whole break that conversation people got to hit it will be back we got more straight talk coming up up next does this make you think that chivalry doesn't exist in online dating because so many women are making the first move chivalry will be revealed on the date we will know if he's a gentleman right if he picked up the check he pulled out your chair hi everybody we're back with our Straight Talk panelists kandi Burruss Heather Monaghan and carry check all right let's jump right to the next topic I talked a lot about the

7:18 importance of men being the hunters when it comes to dating this panel I don't know how tesco but however studies are showing that when it comes to online dating when women send the first message they are more likely to stand out to a guy and land a date so now does this make you think that chivalry doesn't exist in online dating because so many women are making the first move well I think that's what's happening right now a lot of people you know in their work life they don't really have time to date so they're doing the online thing but if you have thousands of people on this website how would they even know about you unless you just put a like in their box or I don't know how some of those dating websites work but you know like just message them so let them know you're there so they at least they see your profile you know I wouldn't go out my way but I don't think it's anything wrong with them right you're already on

8:15 the dating website it's not a secret that you're looking for a date right it's the mysteries out there it's over so to raise your hand and say I think that you could be a potential prospective candidate that's not about chivalry chivalry will be revealed on the date we will know if he's a gentleman right if he picked up the tag he pulled out your chair right but that's not about that platform this is just a different time we live in exactly I'm afraid of online dating for me it's a little too vulnerable to put so much information out there so you just I'm like timing out but in terms of pursuing and being pursued I'd rather a man pursue me as I get older I want to know that you want me I want you to put in the effort I want you to make it worth because how you start it's how you either there's a lot of dating rules out there what rules do you all think should be retired in 2019 I mean what do you

9:03 think cannot be lazy I thought what I mean by that I mean women too I have so many girlfriends who are single because they'd rather stay at home and watch TV or go out to dinner with their girlfriends instead of actually pursuing somebody who might like them or even taking an interest in somebody pursuing meaning like if a guy was gone today was one of my friends and she's like I don't like his shoes you know I didn't like his outfit I didn't you know what his nose bothered me I'm like you see you 87 in your single go on a date like go on the date you know for me what I would love to see go away is that game or facade that people show up on that first date and I'm a wonderful person and I don't mean always look like this ya know I drink wine and I crush steaks and you know what I have an 11 year old son he is the center of my life and you know what my life runs like this it's fast and show us who you are and stop playing

10:07 but I would have to say sometimes I don't want certain women to be too revealing meaning that if you know you just met the guy and you're like yeah well I'm looking for a sperm donor because they don't tell them right away yeah there are people away if you like make them feel like you just met and you're already looking them looking at them as the potential baby daddy you know what we do do that let me do that they really like first date I want to get married I want to have kids or Utica especially for your 30s and 40s you start wondering I only have so much time left I don't want to mince words you don't want to hear that right away not on the first day if you come and you rush that information out yeah it throws us off now here's the trick that men use you know so what are you looking for you you ask a man that now here man go you know I want to settle down I want to have a family huh you know I want three

11:05 kids maybe I'd love to have a beautiful home and you're sitting there going oh my god I found him that's just a trick he just asked us what we wanted we told you we didn't say we wanted that with you Yeah right you're absolutely fabulous you just happen to be with the wrong guy well ladies great job yeah look thank you all for being hope folks we'll be right back

Questions about this episode

Who speaks in "Steve Harvey Show interview with Heather Monahan"?

Heather Monahan (Host), Kandi Burruss (Guest), Carrie Check (Guest).

What is "Steve Harvey Show interview with Heather Monahan" about?

The discussion centers on a recent study revealing that a third of people cheat, primarily as an act of revenge, with women accounting for the majority of these cases. The participants debate the motivations behind "revenge cheating," emphasizing emotional responses to betrayal and differing perspectives on the significance and implications of infidelity.

What is mentioned in this Heather Monahan episode?

2 people, works and ideas are mentioned, including Kandi Burruss, Carry Check. Each one on this page links to its own page with every episode that mentions it.

How long is "Steve Harvey Show interview with Heather Monahan"?

The episode runs 12 min; the transcript is about 1,888 words in 11 timestamped sections.

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