MIHLALI AND MIKE WERE ONCE K!SS!NG IN A TREE AND NOW SHE CLAIMS,"HIS STALK!NG ME"

What this episode is about

The content addresses the troubling dynamics of stalking and the societal perceptions of women, particularly in light of a high-profile case involving Mihlali and Mike. It emphasizes the need to challenge the notion that women deserve harassment based on their choices, condemns male control over women's bodies, and highlights the dangers women face in environments where their safety is compromised.

Key takeaways

• Victim-blaming is a toxic trend; no one deserves harassment based on their choices or reputation.
• Rejection can ignite obsession in some men; the ego often struggles to handle 'no' gracefully.
• In a country plagued by GBV, women's safety shouldn't be a secondary topic—it's a national concern.
• Stalking incidents underscore the importance of believing victims, not shaming them for their past relationships.
• Married men involved with single women must acknowledge the chaos they create—misguided loyalty often leads to danger.

Who speaks in this episode?

• Lynn Dakile (Host) · 12 min speaking
• Mali (Guest) · 5 min speaking

What is discussed, and when

1. 0:00 – 3:00: Megan Mali, Kalinda Masa, Sangomas
2. 3:00 – 6:00: Katie Britt
3. 9:00 – 12:00: Sangomas
4. 15:00 – 17:40: Linda Dazzling Diamond, Linda Dazzling Diamond

Notable quotes from "MIHLALI AND MIKE WERE ONCE K!SS!NG IN A TREE AND NOW SHE CLAIMS,"HIS STALK!NG ME" "

• What did they say about these lay queens and eat girls? They go to Sangomas to get the money from the men. What's to say that these kind of situations didn't happen and now he's crazy because of the moody. He will find you if he's that.

  about Sangomas · at 1:06

• So, Mr. Kalinda Masa yesterday took out a statement to say Michael Brads allegedly the businessman is busy harassing her, following her around and also following people that Mli knows and.

  about Kalinda Masa · at 2:11

• Happen to me, it is important that the truth is known. She then continues to say, For several months, I have been subjected to ongoing harassment and threats and intimidation…

  about Megan Mali · at 3:54

• Go watch my other channel. It's called Linda Dazzling Diamond. You understand?

  about Linda Dazzling Diamond · at 17:13

Who and what is mentioned in this episode?

People

• Megan Mali — Person · Primary subject (alleged victim / public figure referenced) · 1 mention · first at 0:36
  Central figure in the discussion; she reportedly issued a safety statement alleging stalking/harassment and potential danger to herself and her family.
• Katie Britt — Person · Accused harasser/stalker (referenced third party) · 1 mention · first at 4:03
  Named in the statement as the person allegedly harassing, threatening, and monitoring Mali, including approaching family and paying people to follow her.
  Truth is known. She then continues to say, For several months, I have been subjected to ongoing harassment and threats and intimidation by a man named Michael Britt. Now, I'll…
• Kalinda Masa — Person · Referenced commentator/statement issuer (unclear identity) · 1 mention · first at 2:11
  Mentioned as someone who ‘took out a statement’ about alleged harassment involving Mali; however, the transcript is internally inconsistent and may reflect mishearing/unclear attribution.

Concepts & topics

• Sangomas — Concept · 2 mentions · first at 1:08

Media & podcasts

• Linda Dazzling Diamond — Media · Referenced media · 1 mention · first at 17:15
  A channel mentioned by the host for healing and personal growth, related to the themes discussed in the podcast.

Sponsors

• Linda Dazzling Diamond — Sponsor · 1 mention · first at 17:15
  Go watch my other channel. It's called Linda Dazzling Diamond. You understand?

Full transcript with timestamps

0:00 she deserves what she's going through because everybody thinks that she's a hoe. Things didn't go according to the specifications of the criteria and now this guy is stalking her. You can't say that somebody deserves to be threatened violence or death because they're a [ __ ] And you felt bad about And you hate Matla. Do you see? Do you see what happened to she could have perished? So Mali coming out with that statement. It's protection for herself to say, "Guys, by the way, if this happens to me, look over there."

0:46 Are very wrong. Very wrong. Cuz then you're going to find yourself with an obsessed man. Now he's lippy slipped you. Now he can't get enough of you. And he doesn't even mind to do all these crazy things. He doesn't even mind at this point to hurt his wife. Now, do you remember watching these lay queens? What did they say about these lay queens and eat girls? They go to Sangomas to get the money from the men. What's to say that these kind of situations didn't happen and now he's crazy because of the moody. He will find you if he's that obsessed.

1:21 He wants to be in your dark wormhole. Now you're stuck with this zombie that you loyalized about. You need to stop it. They're gonna kill you. That's the problem. They're going to finish you off. And even if I was a favorable, what the [ __ ] does it have to do with you? What does it have to do with you? What does it have to do with anybody? So my whole point is number one. Number two, men need to stop thinking that they have a [ __ ] opinion on women's bodies and what women do and their decisions. It has nothing to do with you. You're not going to come and police my behavior, my decisions, my choices. This is not your mother's house.

2:01 We live in a country that is not safe for both women and children. And all I'm going to say is that married men do not miss a chance to embarrass their wives. So, Mr. Kalinda Masa yesterday took out a statement to say Michael Brads allegedly the businessman is busy harassing her, following her around and also following people that Mli knows and asking questions about Miti. So, baby girl is honestly not feeling well. So, she took out a statement yesterday to say, "Okay, this is what's happening. I think she just wants to take out a protection order around her or at least for us to know what if anything happens to Mali he she once said one in two and three all I'm going to say in a country that has a lot of GB GBV what do you guys think about

2:51 one thing about Mikana one touch is a move like Gi I'm in love very fast catch catch your girl Mali is outright saying I will not accept being stopped. Okay. And she makes sure this point is clear as day because what has been happening according to her in the statement that she released today is worrisome. It's weird. It is scary but it's also suspicious. This is the statement the girl is saying. I am issuing this statement as a matter of safety and self-preservation. I am deeply concerned for my life and for the well-being of my family. Should anything actually ever happen to me, it is important that the truth is known. She then continues to say, "For several months, I have been subjected to ongoing harassment and threats and intimidation by a man named Michael Britt." Now, I'll take I'll show you a picture of who this man is. Um, he is also known as M Mike.

4:13 After I rejected it, his advances, his behavior escalated into something that is obsessive and frightening. This is so interesting particularly because I didn't know that if you say no to a man, his ego can't take a no. But shaving someone, they can say yes, they can say no. So why the obsession? What did you want to do in actual fact? Had they said yes, what relationship would you be having with that person had she said yes? I wonder. Anyway, I have personally witnessed him following me and has appeared at my place of work without reason and he shows up in spaces where I am parked or seated as though monitoring my movements. My privacy has been repeatedly violated. Members of my family have been um approached as well in public and people have been paid to follow me and take photographs of me without my consent.

5:02 Now this man says South Africa does not have paparazzi. So I will give you the paparazzi you want my dear because clearly you love media attraction. So I will follow you. I'll follow your family and I will make sure you actually feel the fact that I'm there. That on its own is downright abuse. Dazzling diamond. Welcome to the vault.

5:35 Dazzing diamonds. Malin Damasi has a she's in trouble. She has a very dangerous situation on her hands. Right. Personally, I'm shocked. And I'm shocked because or rather I'm shocked with hearing people saying that she deserves what she's going through because everybody thinks that she's a hoe. All right. Apparently, allegedly, um Damas got involved with a married man once again, apparently. And things didn't go according to the specifications of the criteria. And now this guy is stalking her and is being very crazy and dangerous, right?

6:28 And there's a lot of people that believe that she deserves it. She's always going after married men. The married men are married. When they approach her, they know that they are married. I don't know if she knows that they are married or finds out once the situation happens. What what's happening over there? But it seems like it's a it's a it's a theme in her life now since Leroy. Leroy tarnished that girl's name and reputation and her light. She was very clean before Leroy. She could have been a diva, what have you, but clean, you know.

7:05 So, I don't know if she knew again if he's married or what has you. But it seems like after whatever they had, now he's obsessed and he's threatening her. He's following her, having people follow her. He's asking everyone around about her. She feels for her safety. She put out a statement stating this, which guys, I'm in danger at this point. I hope she gets a protection order against this guy cuz I don't know what other crazy things that he's done, right? But it's shocking to see people saying, "Yeah, she deserves it to whatnot." Guys, nobody deserves to be threatened. Everybody deserves safety.

7:45 Everybody does deserve safety. Mal is young. She's making mistakes if she's making these kind of mistakes of the allegations that we are hearing. However, we're not there. We actually don't know what the situations and all these situations really are. We can talk about it sometimes, laugh about it, give advice about it, but at the end of the day, she doesn't know us. We don't know her. She doesn't take what we say in it. It will never really matter. We don't know what's going on with that girl. We actually don't know what's happening.

8:16 But you can never sit there and say a person deserves to be stalked. Do you know how scary stalking is to fear for your life and your family's life? You have to be a different kind of evil to say, "Yeah, she deserves it. They should get her." You guys know how easy it is in South Africa. We've seen with other celebrities where you can walk out of a restaurant and they pop you. You can be in your home and they're going to come, they're going to force their way in to pop you, Jen. So, does anybody really deserve to die because they're doing stupid things? It's that guy's faults. He's cheating on his wife.

8:54 If Malari knows, she should do better. Obviously, it if she knows that these people are married, but if not, how many men have lied to women and said, "Oh, we breaking up, we divorcing, what have you, or you just don't even know until you find out cuz how there's a wife. Oh my gosh." In some instances, you're just a [ __ ] and you going in there, who knows what's going on with you. But as you grow, you will learn that you were making a lot of mistakes. However, nobody deserves to have their life threatened. You must give people respect and people must also give her respect. Not because, oh, she's we should all just bow down and respect her. No, just on a human being level.

9:43 You can't say that somebody deserves to be threatened violence or death because they're a [ __ ] and you felt bad about and you hate Madala. Do you see? Do you see what happened to she could have perished? So Mlan coming out with that statement, it's protection for herself to say, "Guys, by the way, if this happens to me, look over there. Do you see what happened with Kat Matala and do she was the side chick?" But Kat Matala apparently allegedly and his wife conspired to take her out. So what's to say that that wouldn't happen to Mali? And these it girls, they move in those circles, is it not?

10:34 They get passed around. They get hookups. Hookups. They call in know in my opinion apparently allegedly to get hookups. Hookups. People like that. If that's the case, they don't care about what you're going to suffer long term as long as they get their cut for the hookup. Women are doing a lot of things to thrive and survive, which in my opinion are very wrong. very wrong cuz then you're going to find yourself with an obsessed man. Now he's slippy lipped you. Now he can't get enough of you and he doesn't even mind to do all these crazy things. He doesn't even mind at this point to hurt his wife. Now do you remember watching the slay queens?

11:21 What did they say about these slay queens and eat girls? They go to Sangomas to get the money from the men. What's to say that these kind of situations didn't happen and now he's crazy because of the moody. Not to say that Mali did that. I'm saying what if? And he was to say that's not the case. Didn't those late queens on that show say that? Am I lying? Don't you dare ever say I'm lying cuz I'm not. to get these married men. Didn't they say they have to go and do their rituals to get the the married men's money? Didn't they say that?

11:57 And now when you've bewitched this person, now they are hooked. And now you just wanted the money. Now they can't let you go. And if they can't have you, no one else can. You're going to have to perish. Now you're facing storisizing situations. You're going through a lot. And usually when it comes to dark magic, if that thing doesn't get cleansed, that guy doesn't get cleansed, he's going to find you. He wouldn't have he wouldn't even have to pay people to find you. He will find you if he's that obsessed. He wants to be in your dark wormhole, right? He's obsessed.

12:33 If he doesn't find someone to do it, he would rather take you out and take himself out or take you out as long as you're not on this earth anymore. Because now the mut and you'd rather go to jail. Even some of them will hand themselves in. They won't take themselves out. They will preserve their own lives but take you off of this earth and eternally be obsessed. Go. So ladies, your slay queen ways queen ways. Are they working out for you? When these people get obsessed, even the wives that are doing these things, you can miss me with that every day.

13:17 Never. Never days. Love me. Love me. Love me. Love me. Obsessed. Now you tired of the relationship because once they obsessed with you, they had so many millions and millions. Now when they obsessed with you, they can't even focus on their businesses. All they can think about is you. So now the millions are not coming in anymore. Now you're not even getting the thing that you loyized him for. Now you're stuck with this zombie that you loyerized. You need to stop it think they're going to kill you. That's the problem. They're going to finish you off.

14:04 If a man is doing [ __ ] [ __ ] leave him alone. If he's married, leave him alone. Just leave men alone. Actually, money doesn't come from men. It comes from the bank and the tills. You withdraw them ATMs. Money does not come from men. It's in the world. It's in the ethers. Anybody can get it. And there's a lot of it to go around. It's on the internet. You just have to stop. You have to remove that programming that you have that men will give me money. You can make your own money. You can make more than him. You can. You actually can.

14:47 Never ever let a man have full control of you because of financial reasons, because of inala. Some of us are not stupid buying our own clothes, doing our own nails, doing our own hair and makeup and stuff because we know and if he can feed you, he will starve you. Whatever little that you can have that is yours. Find a way to make it grow. Work hard at that thing. Men are like that to control you. That's what they do. Money doesn't come from men. It comes from the bank. Comes from your hard work. That's where you get money.

15:35 And we are not stupid taking care of our feminine needs and other stuff and things that our kids need or what have you. Not always solely depending on a man. We're not doing that because we're stupid. We know. We know. We know them. Blaster next week now you can have it. That's so weird. It's control. It's abusive. And they stop loyalizing them for their money because like I said, money doesn't come from men. It comes from the bank. Comes from your hard work. Comes from your hands. The same money that they wake up to go and get every day. And they're not even giving you much of it.

16:18 They're not. They're not. Because look at your life. What has improved? What? Okay, fine. I get it. Survival of the fittest. But is it worth it for all the [ __ ] [ __ ] that you have to deal with? Is it worth it? Now look at Mai now. She has a stalker on her hands. Is it worth it? It's not. They kill now. They'll kill you for five rand or a pair of sneakers or a wig. Some of us are not idiots buying our own [ __ ] because we know how they are. Go watch my other channel. It's called Linda Dazzling Diamond. You understand?

17:19 We're going to heal over there. That's what we're doing. You need to go subscribe there. You have to. You really do. Time to wake up today. Anyway, good luck, M. I'll see you guys in the next one.

Questions about this episode

Who speaks in "MIHLALI AND MIKE WERE ONCE K!SS!NG IN A TREE AND NOW SHE CLAIMS,"HIS STALK!NG ME" "?

Lynn Dakile (Host), Mali (Guest).

What is "MIHLALI AND MIKE WERE ONCE K!SS!NG IN A TREE AND NOW SHE CLAIMS,"HIS STALK!NG ME" " about?

The content addresses the troubling dynamics of stalking and the societal perceptions of women, particularly in light of a high-profile case involving Mihlali and Mike. It emphasizes the need to challenge the notion that women deserve harassment based on their choices, condemns male control over women's bodies, and highlights the dangers women face in environments where their safety is…

What is mentioned in this Lynn Dakile (The Vault Unlocked) episode?

6 people, works and ideas are mentioned, including Megan Mali, Katie Britt, Linda Dazzling Diamond, Kalinda Masa, Sangomas. Each one on this page links to its own page with every episode that mentions it.

How long is "MIHLALI AND MIKE WERE ONCE K!SS!NG IN A TREE AND NOW SHE CLAIMS,"HIS STALK!NG ME" "?

The episode runs 18 min; the transcript is about 2,636 words in 24 timestamped sections.

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