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How Jarek Tadla Built Wealth And Nearly Lost Himself 💸 EP136

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This is the full, timestamped transcript of "How Jarek Tadla Built Wealth And Nearly Lost Himself 💸 EP136", an episode of The Money Mondays Podcast published September 9, 2025 (33 min, about 5,988 words). It mentions 19 people, works and ideas, including Philanthropy / charity, Addiction (work, alcohol, validation), Fear (as a limiting factor), Inner wealth, Outer wealth.

What this episode is about

The discussion explores the intersection of wealth accumulation and mental health, focusing on Jarek Tadla's journey in building a significant multifamily commercial real estate portfolio while confronting societal pressures and personal challenges. Emphasizing the importance of open conversations about finances, Tadla shares insights on how his experiences have shaped his views on money, mental wellbeing, and their impact on relationships and family dynamics.

Key takeaways

  • Men steer clear of comfort zones; they're bastions of fear, not riches.
  • Inner wealth drives outer success; diplomas can't mend an empty soul.
  • Money's a tool, not taboo; talk about it like you would about tomorrow's weather.
  • You are the value; money is just the scoreboard for your life's play.
  • 3,000 billionaires didn't just toil; work smart to scale the wealth ladder.

What is discussed, and when

  1. – 5:00: Inner wealth, Money Monies podcast, Outer wealth, Yanik Tadla
  2. – 10:00: Inner wealth, Mastering the Inner Wealth, Outer wealth
  3. – 15:00: Compound effect
  4. – 20:00: Success without fulfillment is ultimate failure
  5. – 30:00: Subconscious mind, Zenith mastermind
  6. – 32:37: moneym.com, moneymunddays.com

Notable quotes from "How Jarek Tadla Built Wealth And Nearly Lost Himself 💸 EP136"

  • Ladies and gentlemen, welcome to a special edition of the Money Monies podcast where normally we cover these three core topics. How to make money, how to invest money, how to give it away to charity. But our guest is going to.
    about Money Monies podcast · at
  • Okay. My name is Yanik Tadla. I'm immigrant from Poland. I moved here at in 93. And it's funny that you talk about money. It's when you don't talk at home about money.
    about Yanik Tadla · at
  • And that's what you have to invest in yourself that's what I'm big about the inner wealth not the outer wealth because the inner wealth your inner world create your outer world so explain the inner wealth concept what is the inner wealth.
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  • Of the podcast what's the concept behind the name of the podcast is mastering the inner wealth and versus outer wealth and we talk about all these issues that you know we're going through the mental health emotional like I'm.
    about Mastering the Inner Wealth · at
  • Compound effect with everything. And the same thing happen with the bad stuff. It starts with one drink with me, then the two drinks, then I drink, then I drink only on weekend. Then I'm the weekend.
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  • It's it's big idols and friend of ours. What he always says Success without fulfillment is ultimate failure. Right? That's what he says all the time. And that's true. And that's what we got to teach our kids.
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  • From here. It truly came from here. You were you were creating your building your subconscious mind because these are conscious mind. This are subconscious mind. So what…
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  • He created the Zenith mastermind. It's a quarter of a million dollars, $250,000 to join a group like that. Talk to us about investing in yourself. Why do you like to be part of his group for 23.
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Full transcript with timestamps

Ladies and gentlemen, welcome to a special edition of the Money Monies podcast where normally we cover these three core topics. How to make money, how to invest money, how to give it away to charity. But our guest is going to put a bit of a twist on that and talk about the importance of mental health and things that are going on with society, especially with men and what goes on in their world. And so I'm going to be weaving in money, finances, when someone gets rich, what happens to their world, their household, divorces and situations. And he's going to talk about the things that are really truly impactful to him and his world as he's accumulated this large multif family commercial real estate portfolio. He's pivoted and turned into something that's very important to him and what he's seen in our society. He's wrote a book about it. He's made his own podcast about it.

And so we're going to dive deep into that. Now, as you guys know, these podcasts are super important to me because so many people grew up thinking it's rude to talk about money. It's ridiculous. We have to talk about money. You've got to be able to talk with your family, your friends, your employees, your co-workers about money because it's part of our daily lives. Money is not the root of all evil. Are there some evil parts to money? Maybe. But what we do know is money covers your medical expenses, your family, when your mom needs something, when your friends need something, when your kids need something. Money is involved. So, we got to remove this concept that money is rude or evil or any of those things. It is a tool and is functional and is important to your daily life. So without further ado, I'm gonna have our guest give a quick two-minute bio so we can get straight to the money.

Okay. My name is Yanik Tadla. I I'm immigrant from Poland. I moved here at in 93. And it's funny that you talk about money. It's when you don't talk at home about money and that's how you will grow up. That's what's going to happen. You know like people ask me what is the reason that I accomplish you know all the successes if it comes to uh you know uh real estate and the all the businesses I built because I always have zero emotional attachments to money zero but people it's like we think the money is something you got to work hard you got to save this is not true

and what happened is our parents and our grandparents and our grandparents they didn't know any better

n so it's our own if you listen do this. It's your own responsibility, accountability to break the curse and own it and talk about it. And the more you talk about it, and I'm not talking about like how much this goes, how much this goes. It's just having the awareness how to bring money and that you are the money, you are the value. Like I grew in communist country and you know that true money doesn't exist. Like you don't look at the account, it just wires from one account to another one. It's a virtual money and it's the services you provide.

So in the communist country everybody had money but you couldn't buy anything. So what happened is if you were let's say mechanic let's say I fix your car and then you give me this and this uh instead and that's what we do it right now you are the value and the second you understand that that your life will change.

What do you think holds people back when when let's going to focus on men a lot here because it's such an important topic to you. What do you think holds men back from going becoming not just wealthy in finances but wealthy in their household you know children family things that are going on in their world

then it's fear it's fear you know at the end of the day um we here it's it's and and it's funny that I talk about it is when you are in a comfort zone which is for us men is is the most dangerous thing When you're so comfortable, you don't want to try the new things. You have a fear. If I fail, it means I'm not enough. If I'm not enough, I'm not loved. And if not, I'm I'm not love that I'm the failure.

And then people can use this against me. And that's the fear. So the second you face the fear and you go against the fear, that's what you break. And that's what you start developing new values, new new new uh businesses. And not only that, you start growing with with you know inside. So that's that's the most important thing. But we have this because I know you you and I know money is an oxygen. We have access of it. But if if if you from from from the from the early childhood is like you have to work hard. I mean yes do you have to work hard brother believe me you do have to work hard but you know what if everybody who work hard right now you know then all those people that we have like you know we would not have a 3,000 billionaires we we would have 7 billion billionaires it doesn't work that way you have to work hard and you have to work smart

and that's what you have to invest in yourself that's what I'm big about the inner wealth not the outer wealth

because the inner wealth your inner world create your outer world so explain the inner wealth concept what is the inner wealth

you know like people that that's I'm big on it because here what happened is my whole life I was looking for validation from the outside world so I was I was accumulating wealth I was accumulating titles I was accumulating diplomas medals so you know to get the uh kudos or get the validation from society that I'm good enough that I'm love and get the plauses it didn't work because in the same time my inner wall was getting emptier emptier and emptier and emptier until I cracked and also commit suicide. So there's nothing out there that you can do uh without yourself without building yourself because we you know I'm talking about people man that are very successful right now they have wives you know like I have I have wives I have kids I have cars I have jets I have yachts and by rules of society I have then I have absolutely everything but I was empty on the inside. because I was doing to prove everybody but myself

and it's very important to remember that your net worth and your self-worth are not the same and I lost that. So anybody who's listening right now so don't chase the money don't only do transactions look for yourself and build your inner world the same way you build out other world but that will build you up.

What is your book about? What is your podcast about? Why did you go down this path? Four years ago I um um four years ago I have I got sick and I I thought I have a flu. Three days became four days. Suddenly all my symptoms left then and and I could not get out of the bed and I couldn't like understand and then four days become seven days, seven days become 10 days, 10 days become 20 days, 30 days

and and I'm going like I I completely hit bottom of the bottom. I made all my money during the low market in 2008 and 2020 and the COVID and and I'm like sitting I'm laying in bed and I'm like I'm I'm like I like I'm financially have absolutely everything. I'm healthy emotionally I'm healthy mentally I'm healthy spiritually I'm healthy physically I'm fit. I'm healthy. I have a good relationship with God. Good relationship with my kids. Good relation I just found the love of my life. I have absolutely everything you can imagine and I want to take my own life.

Wow. Because for my whole life for 50 years I never took care of myself. I was doing everything for everybody never me and I completely broke down. And that's what I wrote a book. My book is is called is not enoughness the not enough voices because I was motivating myself by negative feedback. And that's why I was getting all the wins, the titles, the medals, you know, the applauses, the stages, even the beginning with the with with the social media, you know, followers, you know, likes. It's it's it's addictions. All the successful people then are addicts.

Mhm. But we used to use like what we're doing right now on this podcast. We're using our addictions for the good to help others, right? But you can use also addictions. We could be right now in the bar and drinking, doing drugs, you know, women, porn, hookers, we can do the same thing, but we sharing our world to to improve and do better.

So that's that that that's my calling to help men mostly. I don't understand women. I'm on my third wife. So So clearly I don't understand women, but I understand how how our man mind works. And we always want more and they're never going to be enough. You know we are the way we are born and the way our human nature is that we always want more but what I'm I'm I'm what I'm stressing about not more outside but more on the inside you know more faith more more belief more resilience more boldness more love more abundance that's what I and and all the work on daily basis

and then explain to us what is the name of the podcast what's the concept behind the The name of the the podcast is mastering the inner wealth and and versus outer wealth and we talk about all these issues that you know we're going through uh the mental health emotional like I'm big on emotional intelligence

you know can you imagine like me being I was 40 48 years old then and I just realized about the oxygen mask at the plane

like I would give the the oxygen plane oxygen mask to everybody even the pilots and I'm the last And now I realize like how important it is to like use the fill your own tank, fill your own you know uh bucket and put the oxygen first and then so we can help others. So build oursel from within and then build the the whole empire but your body you are the biggest asset without you nothing happens right

you know what I mean if you failing even because you you it was like because I was yeah I'm I'm doing good I'm doing good at jobs I'm doing good at the sports I'm doing good with the employees but I'm failing inside I feel like I'm I'm the biggest loser if I tell somebody then if I open up it's like dude I feel like a loser I'm last cause it's like nobody could relate to me Like what are you talking about? Like you have everything. You have your life. Your life is going. People want to see you everywhere you come. You know, everybody loves you. But I don't love myself. I cannot take care of myself. Like when I'm alone, I'm freaking miserable. I'm again with my own thoughts and the thoughts I start believing. And those thoughts become my identity.

And I completely crushed. Came in. No drugs, no alcohol, having absolutely everything. sober for for years because you know how people say sometimes the drugs or alcohol just brings you know the sedation.

I was sedating then I was sedating my entire life with work. I worked 22 hours a day

like you know I was like falling falling asleep at the desk and woke up and keep going to back to work and then everybody oh my god like he's so successful. So everybody was like, "Yay,

dude. If you see how much I work and not only hard work, but you know the work ethics and also how smart I work. I always try to learn new things and then I start then I start sedating with workouts doing races, ironmen, and then Yeah. And everybody, oh my god, he's doing it. Oh my god, he's so fit. He's winning. He's blah blah blah." When I pick up alcohol after three months, my family got to sit you down. I think you have a problem. I'm like, really? How do I have a problem? Why you've been You never drink. You're drinking too much lately.

Really? Are you escaping something? I've been escaping my entire life and nobody noticed. But nobody noticed because I doing for the good,

right? And suddenly when you do for the bad, you know, it's like, whoa, we got to talk about it. But at the end of the day, we as a men, we have to own, you know, face our own demons. is nobody can tell you. You got to go in and just figure it out like and and and and work on your childhood wounds all like why what is the reason I'm doing is this the reason to to get validation or this is the reason just is within me and going finding the purpose you know God find us you know we we got here created by God and we on this earth to serve we're not entitled to anything you know you know you hang out with men it's like y work too hard. They complain about the wife.

They complain about the kids. They're running away after work. Let's go for happy hour. Brother, well, I'm entitled. I work too hard. It's like, dude, brother, we're not entitled to anything. You know, we got here. We We are lucky that we are born, that we alive. We wake up every day, you know. We're here to serve and help others and mostly even family, the loved ones. But it's got to start within. It's got to start with you. You got to love yourself. You got to fill the bucket. You got to take care of the faith, the resilient, the boldness. It doesn't come from anywhere.

If you start breaking promises, the little promises, if you're going through the hard time right now in business, in relationship, with kids, anything you're going through and and nothing works. Start little. Start the little things. Just just just, you know, like I have a conversation with my son. It's like, "Dad, I hate to read." I'm like, and I read a lot. Like, I read a lot. And I was like, read one page a day.

Sure. In one year, you're going to read 365 pages. Just little things. It's compound.

Compound effect with everything. And the same thing happen with the bad stuff. It starts with one drink with me, then the two drinks, then I drink, then I drink only on weekend. Then I'm the weekend alcoholic. And suddenly I drink seven days a day.

Right? The same thing happened with my pain. Like how? Like I'm laying in bed 40 days. I want to take my own life on the boat. And I'm like, where is all the pain coming from? I was putting everything on the carpet. Everything on the carpet. And suddenly the pain was growing and compounding and the whole thing just blew up on me. So the little things to break the new patterns.

So as people start to have children, they start to build up their lives. Why is the investing side important to help with build generational wealth? Why is it important to think about their kids and their grandkids?

That's a good one. You know, my entire life I built everything because I want to give the kids all the you my will everything. And that's that's a good question. And you know the only one the only thing I want to give was inheritance

nothing else. There was no legacy. We all men want to leave legacy. Mhm. Giving the the materialistic things, it's like the buildings, the the cars, the jets, the yachts, businesses. This is inheritance. And usually we ruin the children. What we got to leave is a legacy. and and a legacy is all the emotional intelligence,

all the faith, all the resilience, all the integrity, all the values that it stays from generation after generation. So it's not what you leave for them when you leave. It's what you leave within them so they can take because it's like you know I have you know we have a lot of wealthy friends you know that and then it's like yik how do we build the hanger with the kids? No, we don't. Look at I'm getting goosebumps. No, we don't. Our kids were spoiled from the beginning when they were born. We were successful. How we going to build the hunger? I was a dishwasher. I was broke as hell.

Yep, dude. You know, now Oh, wow. He's got billion dollars real estate portfolio, dude. I was a freaking dishwasher. I was hungry. My kids never going to have the hunger. Your never going to have the hunger ever. So, what is our job? Not to give him more, to teach them how to use the resources, teach them emotional intelligence, teach them how to use all the stuff, the values, the creativity, the the integrity, the resentless, the boldness to teach them how to apply in life. That's our freaking job. Not the hunger. They not going to have it.

They not going to have it. Look at like look at your daughter. How old is she now?

13 months. 13 months. I have a five kids. They they never see. They're not going to know if they fly on the private jets, go to Meditaran jets, yachts, houses, all they come on brother. But I got to teach him and not only me, we as a man, as a humans, we got to teach him how to be good human, how to have a faith, how to be resilience, how to use all those resources that we have and grow it instead of ruin it by giving somebody. If you give anything to somebody, how you you do a lot of seminars right?

Oh, yeah. Here's a question for you. Did you notice the people that are there that are paid for the seminar?

They like they pay attention. They they No, they pay the pay. They pay people that pay pay attention.

Yeah. Because it's like, hey, it came out of my pocket. I pay 500 bucks for the seminar, 1,000, 2,000. If I pay $500 for seminar, I want to be up front next time with five grand. You know what I mean?

Those people they got paid for it because the employer require them to do it or they got it. Dude, they everywhere. They on the phone scrolling. They go,

they don't care. But we have to teach our kids. That's what the legacy is. That's what we got to leave them. Yes. Do we want to have them life easier, but we want to make sure not too easy. So that because

they go in the real world at some point, the real world because they they we got to help them to find the purpose,

the fulfillment. Tony Robbins is like, you know, it's it's big idols and friend of ours. What he always says Success without fulfillment is ultimate failure. Right? That's what he says all the time. And that's true. And that's what we got to teach our kids.

None but giving, brother. I mean, we are here to give. Don't tell me I'm about huge about giving because I'm pretty sure that is going to go now.

I'm huge about giving. But we cannot just give and and and like Yep. expect nothing. So we are on the charity portion of the podcast. Why is important for the children, the wives, the husbands, etc. Why is it important for the family household to have some type of charity component or some philanthropy involvement whether they're donating money, time, or energy?

Brother, giving is living. That's what we're doing right now. Giving is living. And I can tell you it's nice to write a check, but it's also nicer to give your time and give your energy. started from the beginning from start from the little things and and I'm you know like you make me like when I think our charity like you know like you huge brother like like like you're my idol if it comes to charity and all the stuff you do with the you know with the toys and everything else

and you're like maybe I don't do enough and then I start this stupid game I'm not doing enough.

Exactly. Yeah, I started doing the comparison game. But charity, and I love how you said it, it's not only money, it's your time and energy.

For sure. And you got to do it from the beginning. Because I love how people say, you know, it's like, yeah, I'm going to give when I, you know, when I make 100 grand, I'm going to give when I give a million. Brother, if you're not giving when you have a 10 grand or a grand, you're not going to give when you have a million, and you're not going to give when you 10 million.

Right? But I noticed there's um time and energy a lot is a lot more valuable especially with the kids and wives and even with yourself than just writing the check

because to me it's like writing the check I did it. Do you know what I mean? And it wasn't like the true the time energy wasn't given. So it I think all those three components got to be connected in order to feel it. And the more you give the more you receive. Mhm.

You know what I mean? I have a friend who was going bankrupt and it's a true story and and he was lending money to give it away.

I'm like, "Dude, what's wrong with you? There's something wrong with you." And he goes, "Yeah, the more I give, the more I'm going to receive." He got out of the rat hole that he was in, you know, in the bankruptcy and everything else in less than two years.

Wow. Giving is living. H. So, there's only one question I ask on every single episode. And so, for 200 episodes, I've asked this one question. It's the only repeat question. I've never gotten the same answer. And I'm for sure not going to get the same answer right now. You built up this billion dollar portfolio, and it's going to end up being two billion or three billion over the course of time. You have these five children. At what percentage at the end of the day, do you leave to those kids? It's tough, right? I've heard zero. I've heard 100% and everything in between.

If you know what then if you ask me that question 10 years ago, I would say 100%. That's what I'm doing this for.

Yep. Uh like we discussed before, we talk about the difference between legacy and inheritance.

Um I can tell you as of right now how my will is written. Okay, my kids getting percentage. Oh my god, I have a lot of haters here. They're getting percentage. They start getting the percentage after age of 33.

Okay. And that's a minimal percentage. They're getting right to vote to sell to do anything at the age of 55.

Interesting. Because I know how stupid I was when I was 20, 25 or 30. Yeah. So it's really spread and hopefully by that time the emotional intelligence the readiness the the faith they understand the principles their life experience is going to give them the opportunity to use it wisely. Yep.

Because the the reason I changed then is can you imagine like being my my kids my age was like knowing that I'm cover

right? I'm cover right uh from from 2010 to 2018 I retired so many times then so many times and truly having nothing to do for being a man and having nothing to do. The only responsibility, accountability I have is to wake up, take a dump, brush my teeth, take a shower, take my kids to school, pick them up, take activities. And I was miserable. When you do not have any responsibilities because you know you cover financially, you don't go through the pain, through the struggles to figure out how you don't you don't take advantage of the life that God gave us.

That's when you fail. So, we got to prepare our kids to go through life and enjoy life. I know we want to protect our kids. I know we want to give them everything that I didn't have. Don't give your kids anything you didn't have. Give your kids the knowledge that you didn't have. Give your kids the awareness that you didn't have. Give your kids the consciousness that you did not have, the faith, the belief in themsel, the love. That's what we got to give to our kids, not the money. And I'm not saying money is root of evil. I'm not saying that I do the money make you happy. Absolutely not. It buy you time. It buy you opportunities.

It buy opportunities we created. But it gives open open a lot of doors. But I I keep saying that Dan, if you're a douchebag, you're going to be bigger douchebag. You know, if you're a good human being, the money is as amplified as it. But it's nice the journey to even to get to the level to accomplish the money. It's not the destination. It's just the game. That's what the enjoyment of life is.

Yep. You know what I mean? And you you were on my path because remember when you said the story about poker like

you know all the website closed and then in two hours in two hours like you I don't know you lost like I

65 million $65 million in two hours. Yeah. In and c can you imagine like develop this mindset?

Yeah. And I'm telling you you it didn't came from here. It truly came from here. You you were you were you were creating your building your subconscious mind because these are conscious mind. This are subconscious mind. So what happened when when you hit something hard you were like [ __ ] god okay what next? Let me figure it out and you're ready.

You did not become a victim and you were sitting at the table two hours later it's like

and you were still giving. Yeah. And what happened is like you were giving. And that's the same thing in life. It's so there's no right or wrong answer. I don't think there's right or wrong answer. Whatever at whatever level of awareness consciousness you are that you're gonna figure it out

and and even if if if you make a mistakes like then how many mistakes we make? All it's part of the process,

right? We that's a part of the process because we're making a lot of decisions. Yes.

Make a 100 decisions. Some of them are going to be mistakes. Yeah. Most people don't try to make decisions. And that's what I people ask me what is my superpower and I always say making decisions

because I'm not scared make a decision because I can tell you even I make a decision I can make a decision right now by the end of the podcast because my decision might change

oh that was stupid I'm going to and then I pay for it but you know our decisions we are so quick with making decisions so the mistakes are bigger and bigger but we're still going we know we're going to adjust adopt and execute and that's where we are. So for many years you were a part of Tony Robbins group you know with

23 now 23 23 years. Yeah. You might be the longest running dude. I know I know Tony. Tony Tony was broke like Tony didn't have anything.

That's amazing dude. 2002 I think I went to his event in in in California in in California. That was the first event. a long time. Years later, he did I think five years later he did the first business business uh business

the big conference. Yeah, the business. And then we got to spend time together. He created the Zenith mastermind. It's a quarter of a million dollars, $250,000 to join a group like that. Talk to us about investing in yourself. Why do you like to be part of his group for 23 years now with the now with Zenith, etc., with Dean Graciosce? Why spend so much money and time and energy to invest into yourself?

You know what? And this and this is not and this is for anybody even for if you're 18, 14, 15, 20, 20, 25, 30, whatever you're at. You are your biggest investments. There's nothing better in the world than you. You are the only one out of eight billion people. And you always have to invest in yourself. When people ask me what is the best investment, you you me you always got to invest in yourself and can never ever stop.

So we are the biggest investment because we are the value and we the value that we bring. So if you stop investing in yourself that you stop growing, you stop evolving. And I did that. I told you between 2010 and 2018 and I was miserable like having you know absolutely zero zero drive you know because I didn't have to and you have to you have to build your your value by and and let me tell you a story like I was the smart kid out of my of my siblings and my parents always want me to be a doctor. I'm like I'm not going to be a doctor. I don't want to be learning my entire life.

How stupid was that, man? We're going to learn. We're going to invest in oursel all the time.

Sure. And the more you invest in yourself, the more you bring the awareness and consciousness level goes up. You change your patterns and you start opening new door and you start connecting with better quality people. That's why you constantly have to invest in yourself to grow your value to grow to grow your awareness so you can connect and open more doors. I think there's no bigger investment than ourselves.

Absolutely. For forget the real estate, forget the stock options, forget the businesses. It's it's we wouldn't be sitting here if we did not spend and and and people not only money. It's not only money because for us to write a check for $250,000 is like nothing. But how do you find the time then to go meet with all those people, go on those events three, four times a year, you know, in the middle of all the chaos, all this stuff? And this is not the only one. There's like a lot of groups. Like we we do this 24/7.

And then in the middle, we still run businesses. We still run family. We still run everything. How do you find time?

You do. You figured it out. But you got to is, you know, like I have a every day. Then I have a date with yik.

I love that. I spend the time with me. My office knows everybody knows. Nobody talks to yik. Nobody touches. And this is the hour that I have with myself. I don't run errands. I don't do anything. I truly spend myself with me sitting you know meditating praying just going through everything. Me and myself no has zero zero distractions. So I can invest in me, invest with my how my inner dialogue goes, you know, how my thoughts are going and everything else and just I mean physically, mentally, emotionally spiritually with connections, connection with God, you constantly need to fill the bucket because the the fuller the bucket is, the more you give

and then the people kind of like, you know what I mean? They gravitate towards you,

gravitate towards you. All right, guys. I think you can feel the reason for this episode is about is investing into yourself and your body, your mind, your soul, your spirituality, the things that he's been talking about. That is the butterfly effect. If you become a better person inside for yourself, you're a better husband, a better father, a better leader, a better better at everything in your world once you invest into yourself. If you are deeply depressed, if you're going through hard things, make sure to check out his book, check out his podcast, and really try to grasp that what are other people doing out there to help themselves fill their buckets. What are they doing to invest into themselves?

How do they get through the hard times in their personal lives, their careers, their divorces, their marriages, their children? There's so many aspects that go on in our worlds and we just don't talk about it enough because we feel like it's same concept of it's rude to talk about money. Sometimes people don't want to talk about hard stuff, but hard stuff is part of our daily reality. So, I appreciate you guys listening. Again, this isn't just for you. Could be people from your past, present, and future that should listen to this episode. Check out his book, his podcast, and everything on social media because you might be able to change someone's life just by pointing them direction of someone that's been through a lot of hard times in their world and still have built this impressive career along the journey. So, listen to us on the moneym.com. Share with your friends, family, and followers. And we'll see you guys next

Monday here at the moneymunddays.com.

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What is "How Jarek Tadla Built Wealth And Nearly Lost Himself 💸 EP136" about?

The discussion explores the intersection of wealth accumulation and mental health, focusing on Jarek Tadla's journey in building a significant multifamily commercial real estate portfolio while confronting societal pressures and personal challenges. Emphasizing the importance of open conversations about finances, Tadla shares insights on how his experiences have shaped his views on money, mental…

What is mentioned in this The Money Mondays Podcast episode?

19 people, works and ideas are mentioned, including Philanthropy / charity, Addiction (work, alcohol, validation), Fear (as a limiting factor), Inner wealth, Outer wealth, Not Enoughness / 'not enough' voices. Each one on this page links to its own page with every episode that mentions it.

How long is "How Jarek Tadla Built Wealth And Nearly Lost Himself 💸 EP136"?

The episode runs 33 min; the transcript is about 5,988 words in 93 timestamped sections.

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