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Why Most People Never Build REAL Wealth (and How to Change That) 💵 EP145

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This is the full, timestamped transcript of "Why Most People Never Build REAL Wealth (and How to Change That) 💵 EP145", an episode of The Money Mondays Podcast published November 10, 2025 (43 min, about 9,486 words). It mentions 33 people, works and ideas, including Quit Jerking Off, Raul Velases, The Edge, Aaron Chapman, Robert Allen.

What this episode is about

This content explores the barriers that prevent individuals from building substantial wealth and offers actionable strategies for overcoming these challenges. Key discussions include the importance of making money, wisely investing it, and the value of charitable giving, all aimed at empowering listeners to achieve financial success.

Key takeaways

  • Fear's grip can make even the soundest investment plans crumble into missed opportunities.
  • Motorhomes and arenas: Unconventional venues, massive success; you're never boxed into conventional boxes.
  • Cold-calling and white pages: Ancient tech meets modern success; sometimes old-school wins.
  • BMW looks tempting, but Rich Dad insists on assets over aesthetics; deposition, then real estate.
  • Podcasting at a $70k cost, yet commercial-free joy; devotion sometimes rides on hefty investments.

What is discussed, and when

  1. – 5:00: The Edge, Man in the Arena Tour, The White Pages
  2. – 10:00: The Power of Now
  3. – 15:00: Garrett Jay White, Kings podcast, Raul the Edge, The Edge
  4. – 20:00: Aaron Chapman, Robert Allen, Eric J. Chapman, Garrett Jay White
  5. – 25:00: Dolph Darus, Robert Allen, Raise Your Game, Rednekcon Economics
  6. – 30:00: Moses Lake, Washington, Quantitative easing, Scott D. Anthony
  7. – 35:00: Aaron Chapman, Quantitative easing, Quantitative tightening
  8. – 40:00: 12 x 12 show, Aaron Chapman, Brennan Gallery, Eric J. Chapman
  9. – 43:05: moneymunddays.com

Notable quotes from "Why Most People Never Build REAL Wealth (and How to Change That) 💵 EP145"

  • Today, we hosted Man in the Arena Tour Part Two. At the first one, we had an amazing lineup of speakers, including our guest who's here with us today, who then spoke again for us here in Florida.
    about Man in the Arena Tour · at
  • So, my name is R Velases. I built a brand called The Edge. Is a man empowerment movement. I work with men who somewhere in their lives have lost their edge because that happened to me.
    about The Edge · at
  • I think it was Garrett J. White.
    about Garrett Jay White · at
  • Comment, subscribe, and we will see you guys next Monday here at the moneymunddays.com.
    about moneymunddays.com · at
  • Right on. Well, thank you. Appreciate you letting me come on here. My name is Aaron Chapman. I am an author. I'm into the real estate finance game.
    about Aaron Chapman · at
  • Decide to write a book? I was at an event much like what we had here and Robert Allen spoke where we all know who this man is a powerhouse in real estate author one of the you…
    about Robert Allen · at
  • Robert wrote the Ford. Dolph Darus wrote mine afterwards.
    about Dolph Darus · at
  • Rates are going to go they're not going to go down unless we start doing quantitative easing again. That was started on it was announced for the first time on at the end of November of 2008. We all know what happened in 2008.
    about Quantitative easing · at

Who and what is mentioned in this episode?

People

Books & papers

  • Quit Jerking Off — Book · 8 mentions
  • The White Pages — Book · 1 mention · first at
    The first page to the last page, you're going to make millions of dollars. That book was The White Pages.
  • The Power of Now — Book · 1 mention · first at
    Was in a fundraiser and there was a movie producer, I don't know if you know the author, Echeri, of the book, The Power of Now. I've never heard of him before. So for me…
  • Raise Your Game — Book · 1 mention · first at
    So, I called another guy. You may know him, Alen Stein Jr., he wrote Raise Your Game and Sustain Your Game.
  • Sustain Your Game — Book · 1 mention · first at
    So, I called another guy. You may know him, Alen Stein Jr., he wrote Raise Your Game and Sustain Your Game.
  • Rednekcon Economics — Book · 1 mention · first at

Companies & orgs

  • The Edge — Company · 4 mentions · first at
  • moneymunddays.com — Company · 2 mentions · first at
  • Kings podcast — Company · 1 mention · first at
    Got great feedback, the Kings podcast.
  • Money Mondays podcast — Company · 1 mention · first at
    Ladies and gentlemen, welcome to a very special edition of the Money Mondays podcast where we cover three core topics. how to make money, how to invest money, how to give away to charity.
  • quitjerkingoff.com — Company · 1 mention · first at
    Easiest way place to find me. The book itself will be getting sold on quitjerkingoff.com. It's also going to be on Amazon. It's going to be on Barnes & Noble. It's been all the…
  • Brennan Gallery — Company · 1 mention · first at
    I will have a piece in a group show over at the Brennan Gallery in Scottsdale come December. That's start that's for the month of December.
  • Federal Government of the United States — Company · 1 mention

Products & tech

  • Raul the Edge — Product · 1 mention · first at
    I'm very active in Instagram. they could just send me a DM on Instagram, Raul the Edge. We also have a podcast. We did a podcast actually a couple months ago. It was great.
  • 1888 $20 Liberty gold coin — Product · 1 mention

Concepts & topics

  • United States dollar — Concept · 3 mentions
  • Man in the Arena Tour — Concept · 2 mentions · first at
  • Quantitative easing — Concept · 2 mentions · first at
  • Quantitative tightening — Concept · 1 mention · first at
    Economy to keep our rates down. What's interesting about that date, if you look back after we had quantitative tightening where we went down, the rate spiked up in 2022, every…
  • Fleshman family — Concept · 1 mention · first at
    On the side and becomes something that builds fortune. mostly bought by the Fleshman family.
  • 12 x 12 show — Concept · 1 mention · first at
    It's their 12 x 12 show. So, if you're in Scottsdale, December, I believe the 11th is the grand or the reception for that. All the pieces are for sale, of course. And last year, I.
  • Mortgage-backed security — Concept · 1 mention
  • New York Times Best Seller — Concept · 1 mention

Places & events

  • Amerant Bank Arena — Place · 2 mentions
  • Moses Lake, Washington — Place · 1 mention · first at
    Actually a little more than 30 years ago. I walked to my very first Taco Bell in 1994. It's Moses Lake, Washington. I bought two crunchy tacos, two bean burritos, and a drink for $1.99. What does that cost right now?

Full transcript with timestamps

Ladies and gentlemen, welcome to a special edition of the Money Money podcast where we cover three core topics. How to make money, how to invest money, how to give it away to charity. Normally, this podcast is done inside of an RV motor home. I travel around the country, been doing over 200 episodes in that fashion. The podcast today is number 40 in the world out of 5.4 for a million podcasts because of you guys liking commenting subscribing and sharing. So, I appreciate you guys for doing that. We've been keeping this commercial free. I'm spending around 70,000 a month just to keep it commercial free for you guys. We have a 93% listen rate because of this. We keep these podcast episodes short, sweet, and straight to the point. Why is this one not an RV motor home? Because we are inside the Amerit Bank Arena.

Today, we hosted Man in the Arena Tour Part Two. At the first one, we had an amazing lineup of speakers, including our guest who's here with us today, who then spoke again for us here in Florida today. Literally a few hours ago, he just crushed the stage. And hopefully we'll have him at number three, number four, etc. as one of our few repeat speakers. Now, as you guys know, we keep this very focused, very poignant, and the whole point of it is it's not just for you. This podcast episode might be for your friends, family, and followers. It might be for someone from your past, present, and future. So don't just listen to Raul for the things he said for you. It might be for people around you again from your past, present, or future. Without further ado, Raul, can you give us the quick two-minute bio so we get straight to the money?

Love it. Love it. Thank you, Dan. Man, the 40th podcast of the world. Love it, man. I can't wait for this to be number one. We're going to get it there. So, make sure you click on the link, share this podcast. It's going to continue to bring value into the world. I don't know if I can beat Joe Rogan, but we're going to try.

We're going to try. We're going to try. We like competition. Yep. So, uh, my name is R Velases. I built a brand called The Edge. Is a man empowerment movement. I work with men who somewhere in their lives have lost their edge because that happened to me. I built a real estate company. I made millions of dollars and I went to depression. I started drinking every single day. And I knew that I had to find some help. So, I spent half a million dollars in my personal development to find my edge back. So when I did that, I went to do a seminar to raise capital for real estate because my back was in real estate. But guess what? Everybody wanted to talk about how did you break through depression? How did you find your edge back? So I had all these asset managers, all these investors pick my brains about how to find your edge.

And from there, I built a brand called the edge, helping men find their edge back.

All right. So on the make money side, why do you think that most men are not good at making money? I think a lot of us, we're very good at making money, but we suck at keeping the money.

Nice. Because I I speak to guys all the time, make millions of dollars. But R, how do I keep the money? So my mentor when I started in real estate gave me this book. He said, "Ro, read this book. It's going to make you a millionaire." Okay, this book, hands down, you read it from the first page to the last page, you're going to make millions of dollars. That book was The White Pages.

Mhm. If some of you guys don't know what the web pages is, you're probably too young.

Is where you have all the numbers, phone numbers, names of every person who lives in your city.

Y because he says start calling, calling. So I was selling real estate, cold calling. So he was right. Two years into real estate, I made millions of dollars.

Cold calling. But I didn't know how to keep the money. So the second book I read was Rich That Poor Dad.

Nice. And that's when he said, "Make the money, invest it, and buy real estate." So I bought my first property. I flipped it. I made $100,000. I thought I was rich.

Yeah, for sure. So, I did what most men will do when they make some money. Go to the dealership and get a BMW. Right.

Spend it. And of course, I didn't finish reading the book. I was only halfway through. I came back, finished the book, and I said, "The worst thing you could do is buy a car."

Sure. So, I went back to the dealership. I said, "Man, I'm sorry. I made a mistake. Can I just get my deposit back?" They said, "Well, we are BMW. We pride ourselves in customer service. Here's your money back." and I went and I bought another real estate property and that's what we continue to do. Buy real estate, flip, hold, and eventually that's where we made millions of dollars.

So, on the investing side, what do you think holds people back? What are they so scared of about investing into real estate, stock market, cryptocurrency, angel investing? There's so many options. What do you think holds people back from making that first investment?

It's fear. Fear. Fear holds everybody back from doing something that they know deep in their heart that they should do. We all know that we we should we should invest. We should save money. But the fear and when I look back and I teach my son this like he's 19 years old. I said if you broke in your 20s and if like that's fine as long as you take risks you got to take risk. I see this young kids they're just waiting for the new opportunity. Everybody wants to have a safe risk. There is no risk is risk. The way I look at it is like at the end of the day, if you are a producer, if you make money, take the risks, but at the same time, don't take a risk that you're not going to come back from. I did I made that mistake. So, that's why I'm I'm speaking from experience. I put everything on real estate. I thought I was the man. I got a letter from my accountant when I was 30 years old. Bro, you're a multi-millionaire.

Congratulations. You made it. And then a year later, I was forclosing on my property because the market crashed,

right? So because I thought I did everything right, but it was the wrong timing.

So that fear of of of losing is what holds people back. Those stories they hear it like, I don't want to be like Raul. Well, I don't want to be like this guy. So that that holds them back.

So there's so many different options to invest into. You've chosen the real estate path. But within real estate, there's Airbnbs, fix and flips, multif family, commercial, storage, RV parks, mobile homes. So many options in the real estate space. How can someone study and try to figure out what part of real estate they should dive into?

Again, like I'm I'm teaching my son right now. I we he just bought with me his first multif family

cash flow properties. I know you probably hear this all the time, but multif family is the is the safest investment in a way because you depend on tenants to pay the rent. So for me, I always look at a property that if if it's if it's cash flowing, I could maintain it through the through the recession, through the depression. people still going to need to live in a property. So the mistake that I did when I lost millions of dollars because I started developing properties. I had my cash flow on properties that were paying the bills but then I got too greedy and I started building properties commercial and I got out of my lane. If I would have stick to multif family, it it wouldn't have happened.

All right. So what about the charity side? Why do you think it is important for a household? Let's just go with fathers in particular. Why do you think it's important for them to have some type of charity component for their wives children's parents friends community, and employees to see them doing some philanthropy?

The the most important thing that I teach my kids is the value of money. I teach them that money is not meant for you just to keep. Money is meant to circulate. Is that's why it's called currency. The value of money is necessary for them to to learn early age. So my son when he was eight n years old he came to me dad um my friends are having allowances should I not have an allowance? How much how much is my allowance?

Interesting. So what are you talking about? I'm allowing you to live in my house. Right. That's your allowance. I'm allowing you to eat my food. Right.

So I said but if you're talking about making money I could I could help you through a transaction

bring value. So my kids have always I've never given them allowances. They always brought something to the table.

What are you going to do in order for you to earn money, but we also taught them you you also have to give back. So every holidays what we do is we could do around uh around the around um our properties. We look for the tenants who don't you know they're not doing so well. We look for other like other neighborhoods and we go for a run. Thanksgiving we actually that's one of the most fun times for us to actually give back to the community. given gifts and then once you learn what they want, we also go back in Christmas and we give the kids gifts and and we were doing that since they were 9 10 years old

and they remember that from all the holidays. That's the magic moments like that, you know, with that kid when we gave them that bicycle, when we give them that scooter, like it lit up, they actually love doing that as opposed to just receiving presents. So I think part of as a family so important for you to teach your kids that money is not just meant for you to keep. Money is supposed to circulate. You have to give back.

What about as a business owner or a brand? Why do you think it's an important component to have some type of charity philanthropy tied into a brand or just for the employees, the clients, the vendors, the customers to see you as a leader of this company have some type of charity component? You know, at the end of the day, every every entrepreneur is focused on making money, but if if that's all you want to do, you're going to have a a short-term life. Uh the biggest opportunities that I've had to be in rooms, actually my first event, I was in a fundraiser and um there was a a movie producer, I don't know if you know the author, Echeri, of the the book, The Power of Now. Like, I've never heard of him before. So for me everything was

brand new but they were raising capital to raise money for their uh for the movie.

So the guy comes out of the stage having this conversation and he tells me so what what do you do? I said I want to risk the company but I'm I'm putting on a seminar. Uh maybe you want to you you want to speak at my event. I could help you raise money. Said absolutely here's my card. I I had no seminar. I don't know where that came from. I I I I looked at my wife and she was like what are you talking about? I like I don't know. I just came like I want to put a seminar like we got a seminar.

So I said, "You know what? I'm nobody. The guy probably just forgets about me. He's a big producer in Hollywood." The next day he calls me, "Hey, Raul, we met. You know, I'm interested in knowing more about your seminar." All right. Like I ignore him. He calls me every single day for a week.

Come on. And I'm like I was so embarrassed. I called him. Oh, you're probably not interested. Bunch of real estate guys. Very unconscious behavior. Not like not not like a culli. We we drink like we talk about money. Goes when I met you, somebody told me that I have to support you.

So whatever you do, I'm I'm there. Wow. So, I had to put a a seminar. Yeah, for sure.

Now, I can't look back because that's, you know, I told this guy. So, I I I looked around and and I said, "Well, where does everybody go to put seminars?" Las Vegas. They're great. Las Vegas. Let's pick a place. I called the way. I said, "Do you have this dates?" I looking back now, I was constantly trying to sabotage my my first events. I picked two weeks before Christmas.

Oh, boy. They actually had it available. called the guy back says, "Hey, these are the dates." He goes, "I'm in. I'm in." [ __ ] So now I have to come

15. There we go. So now I have to get speakers because I've never spoken before.

So guess who I called? Who was my first speaker? Do you think now knowing me in this in this arena? Who do you think I I called first to be a speaker in that event?

I think it was Garrett J. White. Garrett J. White. Really? I just met Garrett about a couple of weeks before that event in a stage

and I said, "Hey baby, this guy wants to speak at my event." I called him up said "Hey

I'm going to have an event in Las Vegas. would you come down to speak because you know it just so happened

I have an event there so I I'll be there too wow [ __ ] so now see all these words are colliding right

serendipitous y so at that event one of the things that we had to do is I took them the attendees to a hospital for Christmas to visit kids that had cancer

that had um uh an illness that you know that that they were hospitalized that was the most impactful thing that we could have done. We took a couple hundred people into the hospital giving gifts. Wow.

Like imagine Garrett like you know like like interacting with with with kids all the speakers

and that event created such a magical pivot in our our lives that every speaker wanted to support me because I had that component

the component of giving back. the component of actually doing something. Not just a seminar, not just like let's change our lives, right?

But now we're actually gonna do something for the community wherever we went. All right. So, there's only one question I've asked on all 200 plus episodes and I've never gotten the same answer before. Hopefully, it's not until 100 or 200 years from now when you finally pass away. What percentage of your net worth do you leave to your children?

I I look at net worth not just in money. uh my net worth that I would like to think that the value is more the time. Um we're empty nesters now. My wife and I we look to each other like we like people say I'm empty neester because my kids are in college like they they moved out but I feel like a full netor. I don't know if that's even a word because we gave time to our kids. We spend time with them.

But I want to let my kids know that they can't depend on me to provide for them. They have to go there and create their I want to provide opportunities. I'm going to create I want to live on an opportunity for them to create. But I cannot

stopion from stop them from doing their own lives. So my kids know like when my dad leaves that's it. It's done. That's it.

I want them to know that they have to work to create their own legacy. I'm going to create my legacy but they have to create their own legacy. So ideally I would like to give my kids the net worth of knowing their value, their capacity to produce, but at the same time the opportunity to provide for themselves.

So where can people find you on social? Where can they find the edge? Where can they find everything about your ecosystem? I'm

I'm very active in um in Instagram. Um they could just send me a DM on Instagram, Raul the Edge. We also have a podcast. We did a podcast actually a couple couple months ago. It was great. Got great feedback, the Kings podcast. Uh, but right now we're focusing on supporting the movement of the men of the arena. I want to see this this event with 10,000 men.

Amen. That's that's my vision. 10,000 men. So, I know it's coming and I know we're going to need every single one of you to start supporting because it's not about competition. There is billions of people in this world. Men are dying every single day because they don't have a brotherhood. They don't have connection. I am convinced that the reason that God put Garrett and I together is for moments like this.

We're creating a movement, a global movement that men going into the arena to find their edge to get this [ __ ] together because I believe that this is the moment that men need to [ __ ] step up and lead because you are the [ __ ] problem, but you're also the solution. Appreciate you for being here. As you guys know, these podcasts, it's very important for you to like, comment, subscribe, and share. When you hear the things today, there might be someone in your life that you should afford this to. And it might not just be today. You might think back on this episode two, three weeks from now or two, three months from now and want to forward what Raul said. So check them out on social media, Raul with the edge. Make sure to like, comment, subscribe, and we will see you guys next Monday here at the moneymunddays.com.

Ladies and gentlemen, welcome to a very special edition of the Money Mondays podcast where we cover three core topics. how to make money, how to invest money, how to give away to charity. Normally, I do this podcast inside of an RV motor home that I travel around the country in. And normally I only have one guest at a time, but tonight we are inside of an arena, a Merit Bank Arena. We just finished the Man in the Arena Tour. We had Tim Story, Trent Shelton, David Goggin, so many amazing speakers. This is the event I do with Garrett J.

White. This was the second time we thrown it. First time Salt Lake City. This time out here at the Marramac Arena in Florida. So, as you guys know, these podcasts are typically around 30 to 35 minutes because the average workout is 35 minutes. The average commute to work is around 40 minutes. So, we keep these episodes to around 35 minutes for your listening pleasure. Without further ado, can I get both of the guests to give a quick two-minute bio so we can get straight to the money?

Right on. Well, thank you. Appreciate you letting me come on here. My name is Aaron Chapman. Uh I am an author. I'm into uh the real estate finance game. Been doing that since 1997. also a grandfather which is an interesting environment to be in husband and uh now author published author and I I excited to come on the show and talk about business talk about the book and also and introduce my brother Eric Chapman who illustrated this piece of art. Yeah. Thank you,

brother. Tell us. Yeah, my name is Eric J. Chapman and uh father husband um illustrator, now book illustrator. I'm a f find out oil painter is more what I do, but uh this opportunity came to me and it's been an amazing experience to do. So,

tell us, you sound busy. You got a lot of things going on in your world. Why decide to write a book? I was at an event much like what we had here and Robert Allen spoke where we all know who this man is a powerhouse in real estate author uh one of the you know New York Times bestsellers way back when you couldn't manipulate it right

and he was speaking not on real estate like he normally did he was talking about books and how to write a book well I had published other books but everything he said you shouldn't do I did on the other books

so I cornered him said okay I'm going to need your help I'm going to pull these back from the publisher I'm going to finish them like no you're not the longer we talked you're going write another book

from scratch. From scratch. I'm like, I don't want to write another book. I've already written a damn book. I've already got 800 pages that I need to correct.

No way. So, what I had was I I had this crazy idea. I had my 800 pages. Another publisher read said, "Nobody gives a [ __ ] Make something that somebody will give a [ __ ] about."

And I was on a call with one of my um with my brother-in-law and he said, "Hey, you should actually break up your chapters into individual little books." So, I published those kind of like the dime novels of the 1800s. They were kind of cool. But Robert, when he described what I did, I did it wrong and I asked him to fix. He wouldn't let me fix. I said, 'Okay, then what am I? So what's this book going to be about? Goes, "You tell me." Well, I'm not the one wanting to write it. So then we got talking, talking, talking more and then we hit something.

And he said, "I'll help you with the outline, but you go from there." So after we did the outline, I just started writing and it started to just flow and in five months it was done. And I would send him a chapter at a time and he would say, "This is perfect. Keep going." Like, "What do you mean perfect? You're Robert Allen. you're the most critical some [ __ ] I've ever met in my life. When he sees a book that's crap, he'll tell you, "This is crap." He'll throw it,

right? Um he goes, "Perfect. Go hit the one. Hit another hit." Then we're 13 chapters in. He says, "You need to illustrate this book." I'm like, "How am I going to illustrate this book? Who who do who do I get for an illustrator? Do you have an illustrator?" He goes, "No, I've never illustrated in my books." Like, "Okay, so what do you think I do?" He says, "Call an artist." I'm like, "I only knew one." So I called Eric up said, "Do you illustrate books?" He's like, "No, I don't illustrate books." But

yeah, illustration was I mean I did I did one book before. I mostly do, you know, oil paintings for people's homes and whatnot, portraiture and landscapes and all that, but uh I kind of didn't like the process when I did it the first time. It was all right, but uh after I kind of got Aaron's vision of what was going on, it really intrigued me. Uh this was going to be a different approach than anything I'd ever done. And um and you know, how could I say no to that, right? I love a new experience. So on the painting side of life, some people paint for money, some people paint for passion, some people paint for their livelihood and to pay the rent, some people paint and make extravagant prices, and some people make it for 50 bucks and 500 bucks or 1,000 bucks. How do you decide as a painter what to charge for your work when it's typically up to the value that either you perceive or your customer perceives? Um, for me I

charge based off of size and medium and uh there's a certain element where you know over time I've kind of developed an idea of how long something's going to take, how much effort is going to be involved in there. But so as to not feel like someone's getting like if you had two paintings the same exact size, same exact medium and one costs more than the other, you know, uh, clients, you know, they scratch their head about that. So I try to keep it that way uh, just based off of that. So,

and it also started out to be a lot cheaper endeavor. I mean, we were going with

14 paintings. Actually, 13 paintings just because of 13 chapters. And then after he read Robert's Ford, because after Robert finished the book, he wrote a Ford. That was unbelievable. I still can't believe that a man like that would write a Ford like this.

He wrote the Ford. Robert wrote the Ford. Dolph Darus wrote mine afterwards. He's illustrated the book.

So then Eric, we were driving down the road to my dad's place. I said, "You should illustrate the Ford." He's like, "What do you mean?" I said, "No, do the same thing you did with the chapters." He took like the illuminated manuscripts from the 1300s, you know, the religious books, and he rednecked it up for the cover of every chapter. So, every chapter and you read it, it's painted into the cover art for the chapter. Well, then I wanted the book to look like something you pull off the Vatican wall, an old beat up leatherbound book.

I said, "You should actually illustrate the forward, too." So, after reading the forward, he painted what he his mind had for the forward. Well, then we went to find an editor and his wife was a professional editor. She was too busy. He says, "Hey, call these three guys."

I reached out to them and said, "Hey, I've got a book that Robert Allen wrote the forward for and I need somebody to edit it." Like, "Oh, Robert Allen wrote it forward. We'll take a look at it."

But then they started bastardizing my book. They would rewrite it to they would write a book. I'm like, "That's not my book." Well, that's how I edit. I'm like, "Well, then you're not my editor."

So, I called another guy. You may know him, uh, Alen Stein Jr., uh, he wrote Raise Your Game and Sustain Your Game. I'm like, "Buddy, I need some help. I need an editor whose balls are attached and not there for decoration." He's like, "What do you mean?" I said, "Every editor I've talked to wants to bastardize my work. I need somebody who will dig in and just do it how I did it." He gave me a name.

So, I reached out to this guy. He goes, "Send me the manuscript." The guy read it within a week, got back to me, goes, "I'll publish your book."

Wow. It's like, "What do you mean publish my book? I'm reading an editor." He goes, and then he sent me his information. He was a CEO of a publishing company.

Wow. Says, "This book needs to get published." Not everybody's going to like it. Not everybody needs it, but the people who do need it badly.

What's the title of the book? What's the name of it? Rednekcon economics. Explain.

It's basically the economy of an ass beating. Just like Gogggins talks about, just like White talks about, just like what you talk about. Life is a series of beatings and it's going to sort you. You're either going to step up and take the beating and get what it's going to give you and then plan the next beating you're willing to take to achieve what you want to get or you're going to let it just push you down into the ground. You're going to fade into nothing. This is me giving people the formula to plan the beating you're willing to take. And being and I grew up, we both grew up cattle ranching together. We've we've been through the beatings and how it is to be successful in that type of environment, really any environment. And it was me taking those those values and applying this here. And then other people putting their name behind it. Robert Allen, Dolph Darus, that publisher and other people who have

read it and put their endorsements on that to me is is monster. And I still sometimes can't believe that they would put their name behind it. But now we're out trying to and and yourself allowing us onto your podcast to talk about our work that we pray has a dent just in at least one listener's life.

Yep. So, we talked a little bit about the making money side. Let's talk about the investing side. Once someone starts to make money in their career, they want to invest into real estate. How they decide, I'm going to invest into Airbnbs or I'm going to buy short-term fix and flips or I'm going to buy multif family or commercial or storage units or RV parks. There's so many options. What would you say to someone how to figure out what might be right for them?

See, I'm a talking to the individual and find what's the point. Why do you want to get into investing? What's investing going to do to you? A lot of times people think that when it comes to real estate it's a very passive thing just like going to the stock market. I just I put a down payment closing cost and it just pays you money. It's like

no you're now becoming a business owner. This real estate is a business. You have to create the business. So instead of selling them on hey go to this guy and get the real estate and I'll do your financing like let's let's dig down to where you're heading. Most of the time it's because people want to leave a legacy to somewhere. And legacy has been defined as money, but it's actually leaving leaving behind a process, systems, thought processes, leaving behind what you did to create that. So, I take them all the way to bread bed.

Let's figure out how you're going to put that capital together. Let's get your that's your your inst your entities in place. Get your trust, get your holding company. Let's start the LLC's and let's start working on the financing for that. But let's understand what's going to create the most value in the real estate itself. Right? You can go all kinds of direction as you just said, but let's look at what I believe is the most valuable per square foot real estate, which is a single family home. They're not making much more of them. It's becoming scarcer and scarcer and scarcer. And if I want to get my tinfold hat on, we can go all the way back pre- crash and all the things that have happened that led to the hedge fund that hold the bulk of the real the single families out there are turning our society into a subscription-based economy. if they don't get in on that subscription providing part of it, then they're going

to miss out. So, I want to get people into that part of it because it's easiest to get into, easiest to get out of if things get bad. But also understanding the is the biggest value and that is the leverage itself. We have grown up in an environment where people want to tell you that the mortgage is debt and that you're going to be beholden to this thing for 30 years. So, put extra in and pay it off. Do the debt snowball. And I'm trying to tell them to stop. Quit listening to that. That's the banking world trying to program you.

When you have an environment where somebody's willing to come in and give you 80% of the capital for your business,

but take no stake in the business, let you keep that business, yet somebody else pays them back at a small percentage every month for the next 30 years. And you get to keep the asset that appreciated. You get to keep the asset that somebody else paid off. You get the tax benefits. You get the the cash flow. who wins? It definitely ain't the bank and it sure as hell ain't the renter. The other thing that's awesome about the the the bank, what people don't understand is that you're paying it back with the US dollar. I like to illustrate something to people with this. Let's go back 30 years ago. It's actually a little more than 30 years years ago. I walked to my very first Taco Bell in 1994. It's Moses Lake, Washington. I bought two crunchy tacos, two bean burritos, and a drink for $1.99. What does that cost right now?

Now, you probably don't go there, right? Somebody here in this room might know, but right now it's 14 bucks for those items

for two tacos and what? Two t two crunchy tacos, two bean burritos, and a drink. It's $14. It was a $1.99 back then.

Of course, in 30 years, it swung over 800% in the buying power of the dollar. 800%.

In the buying power of the US dollar. And it's not because they made bigger burritos and bigger tacos. And it's not because, you know, RFK Jr. now discovered it's a senior superfood and he's telling the whole world. is because the dollar's buying less. I'm gonna pass this to you.

Tell me what that is. Well, looks like a Susan B. Anthony, but it's gold version.

It's a gold Liberty, and it tells you the do the denomination on the back. It's an 1888 gold US gold coin. Tells you what how many dollars it's for.

I don't see it. It's in the band kind of. It'll tell you it's 20 bucks. It's kind of hard to read on that one.

Yep. That means it's the same as this. Will this buy that? Will the $20 buy a $20 coin?

Yeah. Will it buy that $20 coin? This $20 coin? Not today. What's the price of gold?

Gold a lot. It's over 4,000. This 20 bucks won't buy my socks. But in 1888, actually up until the early 1900s, that gold coin would get you a hat, a handtailored suit, a shirt, a tie, a pair of socks, and a pair of shoes. Like I said, this one buy my socks. So why is it that that 20 bucks is not this 20 bucks. What's interesting about a loan to people to be able to buy real estate, you get to pay it back with this, not that. So that means when you get a $200,000 property and you put 20% down, you're financing 160,000. you're paying them back every month for the next 360 months. And the math tells you you're going to pay $420,000 for that $160,000 loan. But when you look at what's happening to this, you're actually paying 152,000 or less. You pay back less than what you borrowed. So that's why the banking world has convinced people you need to pay it off faster, that you need to do the debt

snowball, that you need to take your extra cash flow and pay them back. They want their money back faster so they can put it into somebody else's hands. The longer you take the pay, the less you actually pay. And when you refinance for rate, you're being taken advantage of because it's not about the dang rate.

How much is that coin now? That coin right now is about $4,700 to $5,000. That coin.

That coin. That's a lot more than 20 bucks. A lot more than 20 bucks. Because this is backed by nothing. Absolutely nothing. If you look what's happening in the world today, you look back interest rates. People keep wanting to know the rates are going to go down. the rates are going to go down. The rates are going to go they're not going to go down unless we start doing quantitative easing again. That was started on it was announced for the first time on at the end of November of 2008. We all know what happened in 2008.

And that from that point on November 25th of 2008 but all the way up until the end of 2021 there was a lot of capital that was printed shoved into the economy to keep our rates down. What's interesting about that date, if you look back after we had quantitative tightening where we went down, the rate spiked up in 2022, every time we've hit the level in the mortgage back securities that was set up that day in 2008, every time we hit, we bounced off it, bounced off it, bounced off it. We are presently right now at the lowest rates that we should have unless moved upon by more quantitative easing by the by the federal government. And I think they're going to do it to crash the US dollar to get us into a digital currency.

All right. On the charity side of things, talking about making money, investing money, but giving it away. Why do you think it's important for a family household to have some type of charity component, whether it's financially, emotionally, or taking the kids out, taking the parents out, taking the friends and neighbors out to an actual, you know, give back, feed the homeless, clean up the beach, go to a senior citizen home.

Well, one, it's commanded. It's biblical. So money is a resource. I look at just like a river as it's flowing all the all the big cities started growing up around around rivers correct but then when it gets damned up what what ends up happening when it pulls up it becomes corrosive right it will eat things it will kill things it needs to move and it doesn't just need to move for the purpose of you because then you become a corrosive person if it's just for you it needs to go to something bigger and we need to build up that charity I think that if we we as humans became more charitable we wouldn't have a a lot of the problems we have in the world today. Right. And I think that as far as the charities are concerned, it gets us out of ourselves.

Gets us to become aware of more things around us than what's in our own heart and we don't become corrosive people.

Yeah. If communities don't give to communities who will, you know, families don't give uh then you know you've leave it you've left it to the government to do it and that's not helping anybody.

Well, they they use that for slavery. People giving it to people is to elevate become more. I think we become more by giving. What's interesting about that is the more I let it flow in the s source of giving and I don't worry about that source of where it's coming from, more just seems to come. I've never had to worry where the core capital is coming from when I'm giving it. What when I have to worry about it is when I'm keeping it.

So there's only one question that I ask every single time on every single episode. It's been 200 something, 240 I think episodes and I've never gotten the same answer before and I'm definitely not going to get the same answer tonight, 50 years from now, 100 years from now, when it's time for you to finally pass away, what percentage of your net worth you end up leaving to your children or your grandchildren?

Well, at that time it'll be 100% of the net worth that's left, whatever it is. Um, the intent I have right now with the family trust and with the holding companies and the LLC's and every single member of my family is living in a house that's owned by the trust. They pay the trust and my children are all beneficiaries of that trust. I will use up all the cash capital that I have available to me, but the life insurance policies and all the things go to them. What legacy I leave to them is what to do with it.

I'm not leaving them capital because the money never really leaves the trust. It's how do they perpetuate it? How do they ensure that the next generation has something as well and the generation after that? There's certain rules in place that they all have to abide by to be able to sit on the board of the trust to decide what the money is done with or what's done with the money. If they don't meet those obligations, they don't get to vote, but they don't get to take it out either. They get to perpetuate it. And that's the job. That's the goal is to make sure that the next five, six, seven, eight generations are still perpetuating that. And it's not for the sake of the family name or or Aaron Chapman, right? It's I'm the first in my family to have ever created this and start perpetuating. I'm teaching that to my clients. I'm showing that to every single one of client. I'm created a software to help them to track it and

manage it so something happens to them, their family can log in and see it. I love that.

It's not it's not paperwork locked up in a safe. It's not looking for keywords in a Google Drive. It's literally built in a way they can click and see everything and they can access every point and they know exactly where it was drawn to because I'm tired of seeing generations being left behind.

Y I watch my grandkids. I got three little grandkids. When they walk up, I see them and they don't have a chance and unfortunately their parents have not been given a chance. It's up to me to create the chance for both.

And so I'm the legacy that I am leaving is the knowledge of what to do. What they do with is up to them. What do you think?

I'm an artist. I'm supposed to be starving, right? Isn't that Isn't that how it goes?

Well, eventually your paintings may be worth hundreds of thousands of dollars. Yeah, it's possible. Anything's possible. Um,

but what if 50 years from now you've sold a hundred paintings and they're tens of thousands, 50,000, 100,000 each and you've actually have amassed wealth from this passion project that you had on the side and becomes something that builds fortune. Uh,

mostly bought by the Fleshman family. Yeah, there we go. Um, I'm not sure. I, you know, I'll be honest, it's not something I've actually even thought about. Um, you see, in my family, whenever somebody died, there was a big fight. You know, we're talking about when a grandparent on both sides of our family

and it was a mess through the rubble. my father right now he's just coming to us directly and saying you want this you want that

you want you know and so it was kind of one of those things where it was in my mind that thought was a kind of a pariah and maybe I haven't addressed it because of that because it because I saw family my own family get broken up by it

y it was was interesting to watch on both sides uh my father's side and my mother's side what's interesting they have lost contact with their siblings over that kind of stuff.

Fragmented. Absolutely. I hear the stories all the time. Oh yeah. My dad's trying to keep it all together. My dad has more money now than he's ever had in his entire life. He's 70. What? He's 79.

78. 78. He's turning 79 here real soon. He has more money he's ever had in his life. And we finally got him to put together a trust and put it all together for for for my siblings. I I did not want to be part of it. I um I helped him put it together. I helped him get collect what he needed to get and get all that stuff in place, but made sure that was not written into it. It's written into it for my siblings. And if he were to write me, if he if I wasn't included, I wouldn't care because I don't want to fight my siblings.

Yeah, we're not going to we're not going to perpetuate that. Yeah, I'm not trying to cut you off. I guess I'm fighting

No, that's okay. Uh but it's it's something that um I see my siblings struggle. Uh I see them fight through things. Uh I've been blessed monetarily to not have to fight those, but I still fight. I mean, let's just be we're both we've that's what we're here for to because the battles and the hell and the destruction is that you're out slaying the dragons all the time and you sometimes you can't even come home and take off your armor because you need to keep it on there too

and you and and it it gets exhausting but resources I have resources I can use I not going to take from others and that's one of these things I think is probably one of my Achilles heels but also my greatest strengths is I take from no one I'll go earn everything that I get and I'll make sure that whatever it is I do people benefit from. But it's also something that is also achilles heal because I ask from nobody. I will suffer. I will walk a 100 miles for a call for a ride.

That's true. And uh I don't let people's lives be blessed by helping me. And it's wrong. Um damn it, I'll go bless other people's lives, but I will go walk 100 miles to carry them the 100 miles that they would have walked if I have to.

All right. So, where can people find the book, find you, find you guys on social, tell us everything? So, uh, you can go to aaronchapman.com. It's probably the easiest way place to find me. The book itself will be getting sold on quitjerkingoff.com. It's also going to be on Amazon. It's going to be on Barnes & Noble. It's been all the other places like that. Um, SG Ocore Aaron is where you'll be able to find me on Instagram. Um, and um, you know, that's that's me.

Yeah, my Instagram handle is Eric J. Chapman. I know it's long, you know, Eric. Um, and then I have a website, ejc-art.com. Uh, I will have a piece in a uh in a in a group show over at the Brennan Gallery in Scottsdale come December. That's start that's for the month of December. It's their 12 x 12 show. So, if you're in Scottsdale, December, I believe the 11th is the uh grand or the um the the reception for that. All the pieces are for sale, of course. And last year, I mean, my piece sold before the show even started. So,

to another artist, which is amazing. One of one of the guys that this guy has been looking up to for decades

bought his piece which is he has quite a collection. It's it was I was very flattered.

It was amazing for me to walk in and see that see the whole situation. I'll just tell you about this thing here. It's not going to get released till July 13th of this next year. Actually, my dad's birthday. But this piece here, this this book, I have an enormous amount of capital tied up in this book. Um and he gave me

there was like 61 illustrations in there. And he gave me an enormous discount even at $47,000. So, a person buys this for 28 bucks, you're getting $47,000 worth of artwork to hold in your hand, which is to me an amazing bargain just in that, even if you don't like the words. And then quite frankly, I even tell you right in the first paragraph, throw the sun [ __ ] away if you can't stand it, but somebody's going to read it and somebody's going to get something.

But I will say everyone that's looked at that book, especially we've been at this event, uh, oh my gosh, nothing but positive. Everybody that has, you know, they thumb through it, read through it, uh, check it out. Um it's their feedback has been incredible

and we're extremely appreciative to be here by the way. And as far as the time, I'm not sure how we're at on our 35 minutes, but I do need to share. Um

I didn't let my parents read the manuscript. I intentionally didn't want to read the manuscript. My mother has a lot of influence on me. I mean, she's 73 years old. I'm a 51y old man. She'll ch still chase my ass around the house with a chunka.

I have a I have a Hispanic mother. Um, I finally let her read the book after it was in print. And she asked me when it was getting close to getting in print. She goes, "Could you read this to the Savior?" I said, "He's already read it five times, Mom. I don't know to tell you." She finally approached me after reading. She goes, "Yes, you can." And she goes, "Let me tell you one more thing. I wished I had this to give you when you turned eight." Now, she read it five times and she called me the other morning, actually the morning before I came here, before you guys invited me out here. I'm working out. My phone rings my mom at 6:00 in the morning in the morning. She goes, "Can we talk about your book?" I'm like, "Oh, she finally found something. She's going to bust my chops over something here." And she goes, "I just finished your book for the fifth time." Which blew my mind. I asked her, "How how many books have you

read five times?" And she said, "Only scripture." She's read thousands of books, but never anything else five times. And she sent me a picture of the last page where she wrote in it. She go, "On that fifth time," she goes, "I finally have decided to give I finally found the strength to forgive myself for the failings as a mother." Now, I don't remember a whole lot of failings. I remember a lot of volatility in my our life. My mom's a very passionate woman. But for my own mother to be able to do that. I looked at the picture of what she read, what what she sent me. As I read the page where she highlighted above where she started to highlighting, it says in there, "If you gotten this far, you're only 20% done. You got four more reads." I don't know why I wrote that when I wrote it. But now I know it is for my own mother.

So, let me tell you something. There's something special about being able to create something that does something for the most important woman in your life that raised you.

Now, aside from my wife, there is nobody more important to me than my mother. And it changed her and it gave her some strength that she can find somewhere else. And if that's all I got out of this book, then is worth every dang cent I put in it. All right, guys. You know what to do. I want you guys to check them out across social media platforms. Check out the book. Check out the websites. Check out the art. When you hear episodes like this and not just about yourself, there might be people in your past, present, and future that should be hearing these things, hearing from guys like this that have built businesses, gone after their passions, writing books that changed their lives and changed open up people's eyes to different things and aspects.

And too often we just think about ourselves. We have to be able to talk about money. We have to be able to talk about business. We have to be talk about these things that go on in our world because it's part of our daily life. Money is not the root of all evil. It helps pay for your family, for hospital bills, for situations, for groceries, for electricity, and all the things that go on in your world. There's a very tiny tiny tiny tiny subsection where the evil part comes in. The other 99.999% of money is used for good. It's used for a useful tool. And so, we have to have these blunt discussions about it. So, like, comment, subscribe. The whole reason we've been able to do this podcast, I spend 70 grand a month for the last two and a half years to just keep it free. There's no, you know, ads here. There's no commercials here. I want you guys to listen through these short and focused episodes so you

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