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Talk Tracks Season 2 Episode 5: Dr. Neil Theise on The Afterlife

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This is the full, timestamped transcript of "Talk Tracks Season 2 Episode 5: Dr. Neil Theise on The Afterlife", an episode of The Telepathy Tapes published February 11, 2026 (36 min, about 6,167 words). It mentions 11 people, works and ideas, including Dr. Neil Thiece, Kai Dickens, Hospice care, Alzheimer's, Death is But a Dream.

What this episode is about

Dr. Neil Theise explores the intricate connections between science, spirituality, and consciousness, delving into personal experiences related to illness and the afterlife. Through his insights, he examines the interplay between near-death experiences, non-verbal communication, and the perceptions of reality, offering a deeper understanding of life’s complexities as they relate to the end of life.

Key takeaways

  • Reality is complex: the intersection of science and spirituality may hold explanations for our unexplained experiences.
  • When the mind fogs, does the veil between worlds thin? End-of-life visions are more common than you think.
  • Parkinson's transformed a full life into fragility, but what if the end reveals deeper connections to the beyond?
  • Sigh abilities, more than just dramatic flair, hint at untapped potential in human consciousness and connection.
  • Even doctors face the unknown at death's door; understanding may lie in the stories we share and connect.

Who speaks in this episode?

What is discussed, and when

  1. – 5:00: Alzheimer's, Notes on Complexity, Parkinson's, Dr. Neil Thiece
  2. – 10:00: Zen Buddhism, Hospice care, Stockholm
  3. – 25:00: Alzheimer's, Death is But a Dream, Christopher Kerr, Parkinson's
  4. – 30:00: Notes on Complexity
  5. – 35:00: Christopher Kerr
  6. – 36:24: Kai Dickens

Notable quotes from "Talk Tracks Season 2 Episode 5: Dr. Neil Theise on The Afterlife"

  • Today, we're releasing the extended interview that we recorded with Dr. Neil thes, the pathologist and author of the book Notes on Complexity, a scientific theory of connection, consciousness, and.
    about Dr. Neil Thiece · at
  • She clearly needed antibiotics, but I wasn't going to put her in a hospital because we agreed not to. And the doctor suggested we take her to hospice care and Bellev Hospice.…
    about Hospice care · at
  • Spirit guides from the universe showed up. spontaneous enlightenment ex experiences which from my Zen Buddhist practice I'm you know I've read like Dogen the scholar in who…
    about Zen Buddhism · at
  • Prospective study done by a doctor, a hospice doctor named Christopher Kerr, who's the medical director of Hospice Buffalo in New York, has written a book called Death is But a…
    about Christopher Kerr · at
  • Person she was? She was such a good person. But what I've started to wonder is people whose minds or brains are broken in the way they might be an advanced Alzheimer's or…
    about Alzheimer's · at
  • Die or even quote unquote disappear, which is I think is most people's fear around death, right? One of the things in Christopher Kerr's book that he mentions over and over…
    about Death is But a Dream · at
  • Original logo and cover art by Ben Kendoor Design. The audio mix and finishing by Sarah Ma. And I'm Kai Dickens, your writer, creator, and host.
    about Kai Dickens · at

Who and what is mentioned in this episode?

People

  • Dr. Neil Thiece — Person · Main guest · 1 mention · first at
    Extended-interview subject; a physician/pathologist discussing his mother's Parkinson’s/dementia trajectory, end-of-life visions, and a consciousness model linking science and spirituality.
  • Kai Dickens — Person · Host · 2 mentions · first at
    Introduces the series/episode, frames the interview, and connects the guest’s claims to prior Telepathy Tapes themes (non-speakers, NDEs, telepathy).
  • Christopher Kerr — Person · Referenced expert · 2 mentions · first at
    Cited as a hospice physician-researcher whose prospective study on end-of-life visions supports the guest’s argument that such experiences are common and transformative.

Books & papers

  • Death is But a Dream — Book · Referenced work · 1 mention · first at
    Cited as a source for research on end-of-life visions, providing evidence of common experiences among hospice patients.
  • Notes on Complexity — Book · Referenced work · 3 mentions · first at
    Authored by Dr. Neil Thiece, it explores the intersections of science, philosophy, and spirituality, mentioned as part of his contributions to the discussion.
    Today, we're releasing the extended interview that we recorded with Dr. Neil thes, the pathologist and author of the book Notes on Complexity, a scientific theory of connection, consciousness, and being. Dr. Thiece was featured in both.

Concepts & topics

  • Hospice care — Concept · Core topic · 2 mentions · first at
    Discussed in the context of end-of-life care and the experiences of patients in hospice, highlighting its role in providing comfort and support.
  • Alzheimer's — Concept · Key argument · 3 mentions · first at
    Discussed in relation to dementia and the potential for altered states of consciousness, suggesting a different perspective on cognitive decline.
  • Parkinson's — Concept · Key argument · 3 mentions · first at
    Mentioned in the context of Dr. Thiece's mother's illness, illustrating the progression and impact of the disease on her life.
    Person she was? She was such a good person. But what I've started to wonder is people whose minds or brains are broken in the way they might be an advanced Alzheimer's or…
  • Zen Buddhism — Concept · Framework · 3 mentions · first at
    Referenced as a spiritual practice that informs Dr. Thiece's understanding of consciousness and the nature of reality.

Places & events

  • Bellev Hospice — Place · Setting · 1 mention · first at
    The hospice facility where Dr. Thiece's mother received care, serving as a backdrop for discussions on end-of-life experiences.
    She clearly needed antibiotics, but I wasn't going to put her in a hospital because we agreed not to. And the doctor suggested we take her to hospice care and Bellev Hospice.…
  • Stockholm — Place · Setting · 1 mention · first at
    Mentioned as the location of a consciousness meeting Dr. Thiece attended, adding context to his professional engagements.
    I was supposed to go that night to that year's science of consciousness meetings in Stockholm. And I thought I had to cancel the trip. and the hospice staff and my husband were both like,.

Full transcript with timestamps

Hi everyone, I'm Kai Dickens and I'm thrilled to welcome you to the talk tracks. In this series, we'll dive deeper into the revelations, challenges, and unexpected truth from the telepathy tapes. The goal is to explore all the threads that weave together our understanding of reality, science, spirituality, and yes, even unexplained things like sigh abilities. If you haven't yet listened to the telepathy tapes, I encourage you to start there. It lays the foundation for everything we'll be exploring in this journey.

We'll feature conversations with groundbreaking researchers, thinkers, non-speakers, and experiencers who illuminate the extraordinary connections that may defy explanation today, but won't for long. Today, we're releasing the extended interview that we recorded with Dr. Neil thes, the pathologist and author of the book Notes on Complexity, a scientific theory of connection, consciousness, and being. Dr. Thiece was featured in both of our energy healing episodes and the Alzheimer's episode of season 2 of the telepathy tapes. Not only has Neil been an amazing resource for us because he's so deeply involved in the cross-sections of science, philosophy, and spirituality, but he's also just a fascinating person with so many incredible stories and life experiences.

In this conversation, he tells us much more about his mother's experience with Parkinson's at the end of her life, as you heard a little bit about in episode 10 of season 2. and he dives deeper into his own realizations, thoughts, and what he thinks the connection is between the world of non-speakers, survivors of near-death experiences, and the thinning of the veil at the end of life. So, here's Dr. Neil Thieves. So, O'Neal, our audience will remember you from the past two episodes as the physician/scientist who helped us understand the biology of energy healing. You broke down kind of the cellular dynamics and and what the interstitial is and how it all points to the body that is far more interconnected than we previously understood. But you're here today for a very different reason.

And it's because your science mind kind of led you somewhere that maybe you weren't expecting to go into a kind of inquiry that involved not just data and you know microscopes and everything that you kind of you know walked away from but death and the end of life and what happens when the brain when the brain begins to break down. So, I guess you know, I kind of started diving into a little bit of the book and your mother, but why don't we first just back up and explain to me your mother's diagnosis and some of the things that you started noticing about her at the end of her life.

Sure. So, she had become a widow in 1996. My father passed away. Begged my brother and I to come back to New York and not leave her in Florida where my father wanted to be living. and she came up and was very robustly engaged in New York life. She had a job working for my dentist, manning his office. Everyone loved her. She would wander the city seeing shows by herself. She read voraciously three, four books a week. And she and and was quite fine and acted, but she developed Parkinson's. And it was very mild. It was very slowly progressive.

But that re intruded on on her ability to get around. But then she started falling and she had some severe hospitalization. She became afraid of getting around. She became very fragile. And because of her unsteadiness, we really needed her to have home care, eventually needing 24-hour home care because what started to happen then was she kind of lost her short-term memory. It happened over like a day, it seemed. I went to visit her one evening and we had dinner and I set her up to watch TV for the evening and as I was leaving she said, "Oh, wait. Before you leave, can you help me find my glasses?" And she was holding them. And you know, I I said, "Oh, I do this all the time. I'm looking for my glasses while I'm wearing them or they're on my head." But it's a different thing when they're in your hand. And within a few months, it was clear she could not remember like 5 minutes ago. And it became dangerous for

her to be at home. And we wound up getting 24-hour home care. And then she developed a skin infection. And we know with little old ladies, if they get an infection, it can really whack out their immune system. Probably cortisol. The stress hormone goes nuts. and we couldn't clear the infection and then she sort of lost all sense of where she was, who she was and I called up the doctor the geriatrician. We had already decided she did not want any special measures. She never wanted to be in a hospital again. Did not want to if anything happened to her, she was fine and, you know, just supportive care, but she clearly needed antibiotics, but I wasn't going to put her in a hospital because we agreed not to. And the doctor suggested we take her to hospice care and Bellev Hospice. And in the ambullet to hospice, she started ignoring me and talking to dead people who were behind me. My dead father, a couple of her dead

sisters, and stopped communicating with me at all. And we put her into hospice. I was supposed to go that night to that year's science of consciousness meetings in Stockholm. And I thought I had to cancel the trip. and the hospice staff and my husband were both like, "She's not going to die tomorrow. You need to go do what you were going to do." So, I went home, packed, flew to Stockholm while my mother's in hospice care talking to dead people. And the first morning of the consciousness meeting, I hear Peter Fenwick talking about people having end of life visions.

And I realized that's what's happening, which was remarkable because my mother's talking to people and also really disturbing. Oh, it's the end of her life. How did we suddenly get there? I came home. She was in home hospice for six or seven months. Aside from talking to dead people, she had stopped walking, talking, and eating. Generally, if I heard her talking to some dead people, I would try to come in, she would stop. I tried sneaking in, crawling along the floor. Even if she wasn't facing me, the dead people would tell her, "Neil's listening. Stop talking."

And then after six or seven months, she started walking, talking, and eating again just spontaneously. I got a call from her home attendant saying, "Mr. Neil, come quick. Your mother's in the kitchen asking for a cup of tea." And she was British. So that was significant. And she continued to talk to dead people for the rest of her life, which is about 6 years. It started with relatives. Then some of them started bringing friends. Friends started bringing relatives. strangers started showing up. People wanted favors from her. People wanted healings from her.

This went on the entire time and she would talk about it. The only the only cognitive thing going on is she couldn't remember 5 minutes ago, but she knew who everybody was. She could recall things very clearly and she was happy to talk about it because we asked her and we made it okay for her to talk about it which I think is significant to what we're going to talk about. We never embarrassed her. We never said oh that sounds crazy or that can't be ma just explored what was happening. Eventually, she started traveling out of body, which I knew because a friend of mine is a shaman who's skilled at traveling the astral plane and called me up one day and said, "So, I met your mother last night and she had a whole life, it turned out, for the next two or three years traveling up and about." And when I asked her about it, she was kind of pissed off that she had been found out, but but she would talk about that.

Spirit guides from the universe showed up. spontaneous enlightenment ex experiences which from my Zen Buddhist practice I'm you know I've read like Dogen the scholar in who brought Zen to Japan from China 800 years ago what he was describing my mother is describing

so what was she describing this is one of my favorite favorite experiences I went in and she was lying on her back on her bed wideeyed looking at the ceiling I said what are you looking at she said space I said really what's that like," she said, "Well, it's not at all what I expected and it's just so beautiful." I said, "Well, what's it like?" She said, she made this gesture with her hand like she was chopping carrots and she said, "Well, it's not smooth. It's like chopping carrots. It's in pieces and it's just so beautiful.

And time is like that, too. It's not smooth. It's in tiny little pieces. I wish you and Mark and the kids could see it the way I do. It's just so beautiful. And this is a classic Buddhist teachers talk about this that the particulate nature of material existence. That's kind of like quantum theory. My mother's experiencing the quantum particulate nature of the universe, but she has no short-term memory and she's just, you know, 78 years old.

Wow. That is fascinating. Yeah. And during this time, you know, I I grew up with her. Obviously, she was a very anxious woman. She spent her life was pervaded by anxiety. And during this time, there was no anxiety whatsoever. And one day, I said to her, "Ma, you know, you're even smiling when you sleep. How do you stay so happy?" And she said, "Well, I don't really worry about the future anymore, and I can't remember the past, so all I have is the now. When you live in the now, you're happy."

Wow. And that was her last six years of her life. And she died at home comfortably in bed on her own schedule. She a couple of times decided she was going to go and stopped eating. No disturbance, no discomfort at all. Just stopped eating. And then she changed her mind, stuck around and and then she didn't. And she departed in the middle of Kaneka in 2016 in a bliss bank. Really? Yeah. And then he appeared to us after because she's not entirely gone. Do you want to hear that?

Yes. So my husband Mark doesn't believe in any of this stuff. Okay. Well, he didn't used to believe in stuff. And if I talk about it, he's like, "Okay, whatever you need." But the morning we knew she was going to die, you know, any day now. We went to bed Thursday night. Friday morning, I get a phone call. It's the home attendant telling me she's gone. And I tell him, he's lying in bed next to me. And he says, "Oh my god." I said, "What?" Said, "Well, I've been lying here awake for the last 20 minutes." And all of a sudden, I felt like your mother was in the room, like physically in the room. And I in my head I said, "Are you here, Sarah?" And I heard her say, "Yes, darling, I am." And then the phone rang.

And I said, "This is real to you. in this moment, you actually felt like you felt her here and you heard her here. He goes, "Absolutely." And I said, "You are so screwed because in 5 minutes you're going to deny this happened, but you told me and he doesn't roll us on this anymore, you know." And

yeah, I have a sense of her sometimes less so than I used to. She seems for me to become more of a, you know, faded into a generalized divine feminine kind of thing. But friends and family still report hearing her voice or feeling her presence. This just happened like 3 weeks ago. Someone said they heard her talking and they told me what she said. I was like, "Yeah, that was probably her. This is exactly what she would have said."

So Neil, does she when when people were coming through and other spirits were coming through, like did they have messages that that turned out to be true or evidential that like you know what I mean?

Yeah. Yeah. No, and that's kind of one of the things I loved here. So, for example, one of the people who started showing up was the rabbi we grew up with, Rabbi Boddenheimimer. And they were really best buddies, but he was kind of overdoing it in these years. And I'd come over and I'd say, "Have any visitors?" Because I always asked her and she'd go, "Yeah, Rabbi Bowdenheimer was here. He really stayed for too long." And that was sort of getting to be a pattern. And so I went over and I said, "Any visitors?" said, she said, "Well, Rabbi Botenheimer was here." I said, "I hope he didn't bore you." And she said, "No, he couldn't stick around.

He had to be going because his sister was going to be arriving and he had to welcome her." And I thought, "His sister, that was Mrs. Brown. She must be over a hundred and she must have died by now for sure." And then I went home and got a phone call from my hometown. Mrs. Brown had died that day at 102 years old.

Wow. And and and your rabbi had since passed, so he was dead in these visions. He was long dead. Yeah, he was long dead. Wow. Well, there were other things that happened, but it wasn't necessarily dead people. And this to me was more surprising. So, I have a friend and teacher who's a shaman who's very skillful at traveling the astral plane. I am not, though I've done it a few times and it's been very vivid and I've seen things I couldn't have seen otherwise. But he's an adult. And there was this situation where my mom had some kind of nightmare we think and she suddenly got this idea in her head that I was going to be killed by somebody and she got very frightened and I got a call from her home attendant telling me to come over. My mother was almost inconsolable, wideeyed with terror. I gave her a little anti-anxiety pill that we kept in the house. She got a little bit better. I went to work, got a call

in the afternoon. It's worn off. She's terrified. Have to go back. Gave her another half of a pill to get her through the night. And this went on for two weeks. And it was extremely stressful, but I had to be visiting her twice a week. Mark offered to go over, but she wouldn't accept it. She had to see me with her own eyes, that I was okay. And then after two weeks, I went over and at this point, I was not being very kind. And I was very upset and tense and anxious. And I walked in sort of sternly. And she had a completely different expression on her face, just brighteyed and bushy tailed, "Honey, you've come to see me." I was like, "Yeah." She goes, "Are you upset about something?" I said, "Well, I you know," and I told her why I was upset. She goes, "Oh, I don't worry about that anymore. I talked to your friend last night and if you trust him, I trust him.

I'm not going to worry about that anymore." I had no idea what she was talking about. And I thought, okay, you know, she had another dream. Fine. This isn't going to be going on longer. A few hours later, I got a phone call from this shaman friend of mine who told me that he was hanging out in his habitual place that he likes to hang out at when he gets away from things on the astral plane and said that he heard someone coming towards him. He's in the military. He's a soldier. and he sort of got up into warrior stance, wondering who's coming through, what kind of astral bad guy. And this young woman with red hair and a a sundress comes through singing with a British accent.

He didn't know my mother was British. He didn't know she had red hair back when she had hair color. He didn't know that she was a beautiful singer when she was younger. and she sees him, charges over to him, fingered into the shoulder, poking him, going, "What are you doing to take care of Neil?" And he said, "I already promised him. I'm I'm watching over him, but protecting him." Well, you didn't promise me. Promise me. And so he said, "Okay, okay. I promise." And and he called me up and he said, "So I met your mother last night and he related this story to." And I realized, "Oh, that's the friend she's been talking to." A little while later, he told me, "You know, she's got this little English cottage she's set up for herself here."

And my mother, as I mentioned, was British, and she grew up during the war years. They were very wellto-do. And they lived in this country house in Northampton, 18 room mansion, covered with wisteria, very well known for just being covered in purple wisteria with a little rose garden to the side. And I said, "Really? She's got some sort of English." She goes, "Yeah, it's very nice. It's covered with purple wisteria and there's this rose garden to the side. It wasn't a big country house. It was just a little cottage. But and he could not have known that stuff. During this time, she had started displaying a little bit of an altered state that was new, not awake, not asleep. She'd be sitting in a chair, eyes half closed, but not nodding off, not snoring. And so after he told me this, I sat down next to her and leaned in and watched her for a while. And then finally I said, "So are you visiting your little English

cottage?" And her eyes opened and she said, "Who told you about that?" And she was very upset that the the story had gotten out. And from then on, whenever I saw her there, I said, "Are you visiting your little college?" And she just cottage and she'd just smile and nod. And as long as I didn't ask her questions about it, she was fine. And Neil, can you just for audience members who don't know, can you explain what you mean when you say astral travel or astral plane?

What generally people mean by that is there are non-material planes of existence that are related to our material plane of existence made of solid stuff, matter and energy, space and time. And yet there are other planes that are not made of the same stuff. And some aspect of us, whether it's our consciousness or whether it's something people refer to as an energy body, and I don't have definitive ideas about what these are, can move between this plane and that plane or many other planes potentially, and have experiences there.

What I do know both from what I've been taught by this guy and from my own experience experiencing which are less extravagant than hers or his, but I've still had some, is that those places and the beings you meet there appear very dreamlike. So, they're hard to make solid. You know, it's it's like how do you describe a dream? Sometimes it's not easy. But for them in their world, their world is solid and we're the ones who are dreaming. And what I think now I'm going to put my science cap on. I'm one of those people who thinks that brains do not make our minds. Our minds are like transmitters or radios that sample the big C consciousness, big M mind that underlies everything. Some people might refer to that as God. Some people might refer to it as the absolute. Some people like me and my collaborators call it fundamental non-dual awareness. That there's some aspect of a universal mind that emanates what eventually becomes

material reality as we experience it as well as these other non-material realms. And you know, you don't expect to open up a brain if you're listening to the Beatles and find a little Beatles band inside. You're the radio is sampling the infinite radio waves. And if it's finally tuned, then you'll find the station that's playing Beatles music. Tune it a little different. You might get Beetho. If you can't tune the radio, what do you get? Static. Static doesn't mean less information. Static means more information. And so I wonder in the mind of someone like my mom or someone who has some form of dementia, the broken brain that can't be fine-tuned, are they in fact having greater access to what lies beyond this material reality to sampling what's going on in that more fundamental mind or awareness. And so it sounds like status static to those of us here who are still stuck in our little human stories of I'm me and you're you.

But to someone like my mom, she's actually having greater perceptive capacity. And this sort of where I started thinking about this was in relationship to those end of life visions that she had at the very beginning of this journey. We everyone's heard of people at the end of their life seeing dead people that they knew from the past. It turns out it's way more common than people generally think about it. There's a prospective study done by a doctor, a hospice doctor named Christopher Kerr, who's the medical director of Hospice Buffalo in New York, has written a book called Death is But a Dream, reporting a prospective study of nearly 1,200 patients who came into hospice to die, where they were asked by him and his team specific questions as to whether they were having end of life visions or not. And it turned out that nearly 90% of them reported very detailed end of life visions. They're not haphazard

occasional things that lucky people get to have. They seem to be part of the normal experience of dying if you're gifted the chance to die in bed, not by violence and be aware. And those experiences seem to invariably according to his data lead to a transforming moment. So that the patient, the person who's dying, who might be facing death with fear, anxiety, loneliness, regrets, all the complex stuff humans bring to their lives and deaths. Understand that everything is just as it should be, just as it is, including their death. And they're profound experiences that are utterly transformative. Not like an insight you get in a therapy session, but go from great terror at the end of your life or great regret or great sadness into something of acceptance and lack of fear etc. And what I think is happening there is that in the dying brain, the filtering of the greater consciousness that underlies everything,

the filtering is diminished. You're getting more pure reflection of what underlies everything. And you know, this will touch on spiritual stuff that I think about and practice and engage in from Jewish mystical traditions. I'm related to Zen Buddhism. I'm related to but I think the fundamental nature, one aspect of the fundamental nature of that underlying reality is compassion or love, whatever word you want to give it. And if that's what the dying brain is perceiving, it may be a dying brain, but still a human brain trying to make stories. And so it will perceive that compassion, that love that's filtering through and have to name it. That's my mother. That's the child I lost. That's the father I miss. That's my husband.

And so we tell ourselves in those last days or hours in reflecting that compassionate underpinning of existence that we name it because human minds make human stories. That's what we do. So people with my mom say, "Why did your mom have these experiences?" And for years I've been thinking, I don't know, is it her spiritual practice? Is it part of her heritage? Is it what kind of person she was? She was such a good person. But what I've started to wonder is people whose minds or brains are broken in the way they might be an advanced Alzheimer's or Parkinson's, Louisbody disease, etc. Are they really perceiving less or are they perceiving more? My mother maybe wasn't different than all these people. Maybe it was simply that she was in a safe environment where we asked her and made it safe for her to tell us. I wonder if my mother wasn't uncommon, but maybe more common than not the way the end of

life experiences turned out to be more common. And that if we made it safe and were interested and curious about what our elders were experiencing, maybe those some some of those people who we say have dementia, in other words, their brains are filled with meaningless static, maybe some of them are really profound psychonauts. And if they're not functioning well in this world, maybe it's because they're busy exploring other worlds. And when you're doing that, the idea of feeding yourself or cleaning yourself may not just be on your mind.

Wow. Oh my gosh. Okay. So then, you know, I I I don't I was looking over your book this morning. I read a line where you were talking about people at the end of their life often saying their their experiences felt more real than here or more real than real, which really struck me because we talked about that in our season premiere this year about near-death experiences. Can you just touch on that? How people are describing these? Do they feel more real than their lives here on Earth?

From my perspective, I think deathbed visions are the brain opening itself up to a more fundamental reality. It wouldn't surprise me that the more fundamental reality is going to feel more fundamental and real than this one we construct for ourselves where we walk around thinking we're separate from each other. I think you know people's walking around on planet Earth as these lonely, anxious creatures thinking we live on this rock. Well, I get that because I'm one of those people. But I also know both scientifically and from my various meditation practices that the other way to think about it is that we are the substance of the earth that in three and a half billion years has self-organized itself into beings that think of themselves as separate. Those two things are both true. They don't contradict each other. You just have to select which view are you going to take. If you only see yourself and in our culture we

only pretty much see ourselves this way as separate and lonely then this is what you got. And if you experience if you experience a reality that says something richer, deeper, more connected, more vivid, it's going to feel more real. Maybe because it's a better reflection of reality, not conditioned by our cultures views about what we should think of as real and what we should think of as not real.

So I think you mentioned in your book that Reverend Harper and you know he talks about a truer pure self it being what remains. Um like do you do you think dementia can you know sometimes just strip away the ego then and leave something closer to our real essence? It's just so it's not just er maybe it's not erasing a person, it's er erasing the ego and leaving us with our essence. Like is that a stretch or how do you feel about that?

That's exactly how I think about it. The most fundamental essence isn't about what you worry about or hope for for the future. It's not what you long for from the past or regret from the past. It's what's in this present moment. And for some people, the the broken brain in quotes is actually a refined way of perceiving what your true nature is. And what our true natures are are seamless expressions of the entire living conscious universe in this moment, absolutely perfect and pure. That's real. That's true. And I can argue that from a deeply western scientific and mathematical perspective. At the same time, it's utterly true that we are tiny infinite decimal pieces of this vast universe. And it's very easy to fall into that and go, "Nothing has meaning.

I'm unimportant. It's terrifying." That's also true. To me, the aim of spiritual practice is being able to move back and forth between those and understand that both realities are true and a complete understanding needs both of them. You need the combined view. And I think some people with dementia, some people on their deathbeds, some people just through spiritual practice of various kinds can reach the state where their own personal stories aren't that important. They just fade into the larger truth that everything is a seamless miraculous hole. My mother, if you saw the look on my mother's face in her last days, and actually a couple of times Mark and I each visited, we thought, "Oh, she's dead." We got in really close. It's like, "Nope, she's still here." And she gave me a kiss. She was in a bliss bubble. There was no distress whatsoever. It was one of the most beautiful things. And I've I've

been gifted the experience of seeing that few times. So I think what's fascinating, you know, when you're talking about this is that it reminds me a lot of the exploration we've done with non-speakers who have araxia who feel less connected to their body, less connected maybe even to their past, present, or often unable to, you know, engage due to something different about their neurology. And does that surprise you? Because currently we're, you know, talking about telepathy and those who experienced it, whether they were caregivers or medical professionals or loved ones or even mediums saying that they were able to connect with people with dementia from a telepathic state. And is that something you've come across with your mother? And if not, does it surprise you? Or I guess, you know, how do you make sense of any of it? I think that people who have brains that filter the larger underlying

consciousness of existence in different ways than are typical. Sometimes they get less information. Sometimes there might not be much there. But we would be making a mistake to assume that's the case. I think sometimes their brains, their minds are actually having greater access to things that the rest of us who function easily in the world, able to clothe and dress ourselves, feed ourselves, etc. It takes a lot of energy, time, and focus to be able to take care of ourselves in the world. If you don't have a mind that's focused in that kind of detail, telling yourself human stories about who you are as a person and how you have to behave in the world, then you might have the opportunity to experience other things.

It might be that people who experience that kind of stuff are less able to take care of themselves. And so in our society where we don't value people who have different experiences of the world and and treat them as as beings that need to be warehoused or or seen as burdens, but they may in fact have greater access than any of us can imagine. Some of us are like that for a lifetime. Some of us have glimpses of it maybe through some practice that develops trans work or the use of psychedelics. Some of us may have openings because you've had a near-death experience and you survive it and yet part of your mind remains open to what you saw. Some of us only, it seems most of us get a chance to experience in the last hours or days of life if you're gifted the chance to die in bed, not by violence. And I think all of these things are potential for every human. It's just how much do you value them? yearn for them, cultivate

them, how much do you honor them in yourselves and how much do you honor it in others?

Yeah. And then, you know, if conscious continues to open and connect even when the brain is failing, you know, how do you think that might change the story we tell ourselves about what it means to die or even quote unquote disappear, which is I think is most people's fear around death, right? One of the things in Christopher Kerr's book that he mentions over and over again that I think is one of the more profound lessons of his research is that in those final moments, these deathbed visions, even when they're scary ones or disturbing ones, which can also happen, it seems as though the universe is giving you the vision that you need to in a moment understand that it's all just fine. The universe, that underlying consciousness meets you precisely where you are with all your psychosis, with all your crazy worries, with all your beliefs and conditionings that you carry into those last moments so that

you're lying there in whatever state you're in. The universe shows up and presents you exactly the right medicine for you to understand in a transforming moment or a series of moments that it's all just fine.

Yeah, it's beautiful. As far as what you witnessed and you know what it seems like Kerr witnessed as well. I mean, do you think that validates this idea of a soul that we have a soul that continues or or or what would you what what would you say about that? And what do you think your mother would say?

My mother would speak in terms of a soul if you asked her because she comes from a Jewish tradition that talks about souls. So, she'd be easy with that. Or she might have looked at you in her later years and said, "What?" and pretend not to have a clue. I don't know what the soul is. What I think I understand is that the universe actually arises from your consciousness, your awareness, and is nothing but your consciousness, your awareness. And the appearance of solidity to our material world is merely an appearance. It's a misapprehension that comes about from conditioning, cultural conditioning, but also the conditioning of I'm a human baby and I have to survive to adulthood. And the best way to do that is to think the world is real. But fundamentally, if the universe is entirely consciousness, then what's the difference between me and an angel and a demon and a god or a goddess? They're

all just constructs of consciousness in the larger consciousness. They're just the dreams the universe is having when it contemplates itself. And so there's not soul or not soul. It's just what's the perspective through which you're experiencing the universe in this moment and what's the perspective of the universe experiencing you in this moment. That's it for this episode of the talk tracks, but new episodes will be released every Wednesday. So stay tuned as we work to unravel all the threads, even the veiled ones, that knit together our reality. And please remember to stay kind, stay curious, and that being a true skeptic requires an open mind.

Thank you to my amazing collaborators, our executive producer Jill Pachznik, our producer Katherine Ellis, and associate producer Selena Kennedy. Original music by Rachel Kantu, opening and closing music by Elizabeth PW, original logo and cover art by Ben Kendoor Design. The audio mix and finishing by Sarah Ma. And I'm Kai Dickens, your writer, creator, and host. Thank you again for joining us.

Questions about this episode

Who speaks in "Talk Tracks Season 2 Episode 5: Dr. Neil Theise on The Afterlife"?

Kai Dickens (Host), Dr. Neil Thiese (Guest).

What is "Talk Tracks Season 2 Episode 5: Dr. Neil Theise on The Afterlife" about?

Dr. Neil Theise explores the intricate connections between science, spirituality, and consciousness, delving into personal experiences related to illness and the afterlife. Through his insights, he examines the interplay between near-death experiences, non-verbal communication, and the perceptions of reality, offering a deeper understanding of life’s complexities as they relate to the end of life.

What is mentioned in this The Telepathy Tapes episode?

11 people, works and ideas are mentioned, including Dr. Neil Thiece, Kai Dickens, Hospice care, Alzheimer's, Death is But a Dream, Notes on Complexity. Each one on this page links to its own page with every episode that mentions it.

How long is "Talk Tracks Season 2 Episode 5: Dr. Neil Theise on The Afterlife"?

The episode runs 36 min; the transcript is about 6,167 words in 52 timestamped sections.

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